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relationship problems.
17/f.
alright well i have this boyfriend and we have been dating for about 2 1/2 months. we were good friends before we started dating and the first month and a half was good. we did everything together. but now he's an asshole. he texts other girls and flirts with them. he never wants to hang out with me. he wont even buy me something little like a pack of gum. the first month and a half he was the nicest guy and bought me anything and always wanted to be with me. well i started being mean to him to when he starts being an asshole. and when we are together he doesnt want to go out and do anything.
plus i started liking this other kid.. and i think he likes me too.
when me and my bf were friends, he was so nice. and hes like me for like a year now but he just changed when we started dating a little while.
he doesnt want me hangin out with any of my guy FRIEND.. there nothing more than that. ive known them before him. he gets mad when i party with out him but its alright for him to do it without me.
my friends want me to break up with him and so does my mom! i dont know.
what do you think i should do?
thanks in advance =]
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dont listen to any one if they tell you to "break up with him" or "stay with him". you have to make this decision on your on.
this guy seems like a jerk/"playa" type.
if he is treating you like this now and then starts treating you nice (only to suck up so he wont lose you) think about it. you really shouldnt let him treat you this way.
You should try this if you can.when you are out doing something, maybe hanging with his friends flirt right in front of him. if he says something to you in front of them he is a jerk, if he pulls you aside or talks to you later then he does care (at least some.) tell him you only did it to show him what its like when he flirts with other girls. you also have to realize guys are flirts!! (i hate when guys flirt while they have a girl) and if your guy is "cool" or "popular" then girls will hit on him, in front of you and behind your back. either way you will have to trust him, unless he is proven guilty.
It is your decision but if i was you i would dump him, get out while you can, especially since you like this other guy. you seem like a really nice girl/lady and he shouldnt be treating you that way.
hope i helped!
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first thing to do is sit edown with him or next time your alone say 'Why do you do this stuff (flirt with other girls, dont pay attention to me, treat me like shit etc)? and tell him you dont think its fair that he can go and party, hang out with girls but your not even alowed to talk to guys. then tell him that you dont know if your relationship can work and that you feel like you want to break up.
then give hima little time to change if he doesnt change, then take a break give yourselves time to date around, then if you still feel that you want to be with eachother, get back togeter
hope that helped
-mari :D
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