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is she really a friend i should keep?
you see i just created a new myspace. btw, im 13/f. last year i made one but deleted it before the school year so i wouldnt get distracted. theres this girl, i've known her since like.. 4th grade, and we've been friends since then. this year (well it just ended for summer) i was in 7th. so yeah, like 3 years. when i wasnt in her pod for 5th and 6th grade, she was more friendlier with me. it was like we were still good friends though we didnt see each other often. she even invited me to her sleepover bday party in 5th grade though i couldnt go, cause my parents wouldnt let me. but in 7th grade it was different. in the beginning of the year it was the same like the other years but it progressed and it was like she was less interested in really being my friend, as i saw it. she'd share secrets with other friends and stuff, and wouldnt hang around me as much. i'd hang around her, but it was like.. she was half-interested in me. when i made my myspace before we were on each other's Top friends list. but this year, at the end of the year she had another sleepover party but she didnt invite me! i asked her if i was invited and she said it was for close friends only. i didnt show her how i felt, but i felt hurt cause i've been a good friend to her and i've known her longer than some of the people she considered as "close friends". and in my new myspace, i asked to be on her top and shes like "ummm.. no your not going on my top" and idk if its just me, but it sounded really snotty and that kinda ruined my mood for the rest of the day. cause i put her on my top... and yeah. and my other friend, we all knew each other in 4th grade too, shes not even in our pod but she got invited to the sleepover party and is 3rd on her top friends list. i dunno what i did wrong.. or is she just a friend i should drop? cause im not sure.. i dont like losing friends but i dont like being friends with people who dont act like friends should. or am i overreacting? also, i havent replied to her "umm no your not going on my top" comment yet.. i dunno what to reply! should i just be like "thanks, but no thanks" or "okay.." or "are you mad at me or something?" cause this is really hard to do. =(
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like Tina_DUH said, drop her if she continues to be snotty towards you.
I sympathise with you..i just completed junior high (7th and 8th grade) and i can for sure tell you this....frienships change a lot, because you are really figuring out who you are, and discovering more about yourself. I lost a couple friends to junior high.
I don't think you ahve done anything wrong...ask her why she is mad (if she is) and tell her you feel hurt because you are being left out and feel like you don't hang out much anymore. If she is still snotty to you, then drop her.
Love the people who treat you right, and forget about those who don't (even though i know its hard...really, i do)
ok well hope i helped!
Katie
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I would ask her if she's mad at you or whatever & find out what's going on. If she's still being snotty & rude, then drop her.
It hurts to lose friends, but she's rude about stuff that she shouldn't be rude about.
However, I think you're overreacting about the top 8 thing. It's just MySpace, and it's just a top 8. It's nothing to get upset over. Who I put in my top is no big deal, so if people worry that much about it then they're never going in there. It's annoying to get asked "Why aren't I in your top?" or "I can go in your top!?"
But like I said, just ask her what the deal is & if she's still a bitch about it, forget her. You have better friends.
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ask her if shes mad at you. then you can figure things out. no one just acts that way for no reason unless they think you have done something to them. or shes in a stage where she thinks shes better than everyone else. but if i were u i wold ask whats her problem b.c u didnt do ne thing as far as im concerned!
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Hi.
Your friend has moved on.. not nice to hear but it's true. You should do the same.. dont say anything to the whole myspace thing just show her you can have loads of friends too and that you don't need her.
Hope that helped.
xx
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You shouldn't really bother being friends with her.
Also, you're acting kind of clingy, which no one likes. Pretend you're her for a moment. Some girl who you're really not interested in keeps bugging you, wanting to go to your sleepovers and be in your top 8. She's not going to want to be around you and will dismiss you as a loser if you keep doing that. Act like you don't care what she says, and like you're a bigger person than her.
As for her comment, just reply, "Whatever, that's cool," like you don't really care. Also, take her out of yours right away.
Also, this is completely off topic but I kind of want you to know this. In a situation like this, a verbal fight usually end up happening. If you and her get into one in like a public place, you want to come off as the cooler, more mature person, right? So if she tries to put you down, just kind of roll your eyes, laugh a tiny tiny bit, and look at her like she's pathetic and you feel sorry for her. Then just be like, "Grow up," or something along those lines. Just kind of brush her off.
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She sounds like a **bad word**! I think the best thing to do is ask her why she has been acting that way.
And your not overreacting.
**I wouldnt get to be too close to her because she could turn on you though-its not fun when its your best friend who knows everything!
I'm just sayin because you could get hurt.
And since she has been a friend for awhile I would try to remain friends with her but if she does it again shes not worth it!
Hope I helped! And sorry if I didnt.
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