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so there's this guy. i used to like him. i used to actually consider him one of my closest friends and advisors. he's 4 years older than me.
he's a jerk now. he gives shitty advice.
example:
me: I'm so sad.
him: heh. don't be sad then.
and that is the kind of advice he generally gives.
he makes fun of me with other people and then he tells me about it and laughs at me. he thinks of himself so highly that he hurts me in the process. overall: he's an a-hole.
basically, i want to put an end to our friendship. i want it to die down. he's perverted and mentally sick and can ruin my day in a flash. he ignores me and goes on to talk about himself whilst complaining when I talk about *MYSELF*.
I really want to insult him and tell him how I feel about him. How I've felt for the past 2 years. Should I do it? All those mean things... Would it be too mean? I mean, I hate the guy. I don't mind. And I know exactly what to say.
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You don't need to tell him what you think of him...... unless he gets really nasty. Just ignore him from now on and if he asks why your not talking to him. just tell him you don't like the way he acts with you.
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I’ve been married now going on 3 years to a beautiful Mexican woman but things have been bad from the very beginning.....
she has a son 17 years old he does not do well in school since he has come to live with us the first year he got A's and the after that F's he never leaves his room is all ways on the pc and all ways makes excuses not to do his chores around the house.
Just about every argument me and his mother get in are about the fact that he does not take care of his responsibilities’ try being very nice about how I bring the subject up but no matter what she acts like I’m trying to hurt her son.
The last argument was because he was making excuses why he could not mow the lawn.
I told her don’t worry about it I will do it my self
She got mad and started telling me that I’m being ridiculous and I could not hold back any more I told her if she does not let her son grow up then
He will have trouble when he gets older and it’s possible that the way she babies him he may end up gay when I told her that he came running out of his room with a samari sward threatening me with it so I told her to get control of her kid before someone gets hurt. She took the sward and then he called the police on me he said for verbal abuse LOL anyway
That was 3 weeks ago and she thinks that it was ok that he did that because he was protecting his mother.
she was not crying for help I was not even near her now I don’t know that I can stay married to a woman that make that ok for her son to do and I’m starting not to trust my wife any more one day she is nice then 2 min later she is trying to start a fight with me when she does I just have to leave as it is all ways one sided and I’m never aloud to speak.
she was not legal in the us until we got married and I’m feeling like this whole marriage was just to get her green card she never treats me like a friend or listens to any advice I might have instead she takes it as an attack and starts the hurt game.
I am just about to file for a divorce since I can’t be the only one to flex in this relationship
How can I get her to listen to me and not take it as an attack on her or her son I’ve felt alone in this marriage from the beginning?
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Hi, difficut situation!! Is it not possible that your wife is feeling guilty for moving her son to a different place and is overcompensating by letting him do what he wants. Could you bring the son out by his own and talk to him like an adult about his behaviour and get him to tell you what he feels? Your wife will always defend her son, even if it means losing you. You could just accept the way things are or you could try to talk to her if the son thing doesnt work and if she refuses to change thingsm Your best bet is to walk away.
Hope that helped!!
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Alright, I have two great friends and then one of them is my best friend. They both were, but the one got a boyfriend and spends all her time with him.
Well, my best friend and I have been hanging out with these two guys but things didn't work out for me, but they are working out for her.
And I don't want them to.
That's so slefish but I don't know.
And the boy my best friend likes and he likes her is best friends with my other good friend's boyfriend.
That's hard to understand.
And if she dates this boy, my good friend and my best friend will be hanging out all the time and I will be left out.
And she tells me that won't happen, but you can't help it, that's what my other friend said, she has never left us, but she did.
And my best friend has been my best friend forever.
We had this long talk.
And she said she will try not to like this guy because our friendship is more important than a guy.
But I told her that she needs to put my feelings aside and do what her heart tells her, and if that means that she's with this guy all the time, that's what it means, and I will have to find new friends. I mean, what's more important, friendship, or love. I mean, she may be able to find love here.
I don't know.
This has been bringing me down for days.
I need help. (link)
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Well, the fact that she wants to put ur friendship before this guy says a lot for her. It shows that she luves you a lot more than him. Tellin her that she has to disregard your feelings was a good thing to do and it seems obvious that ye can talk openly.So, if she does begin to exclude you.. jst say it to her and she should try to include you.
Hope that helped!!
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i care wut ppl think of me and i guess i wanna be more popular . i hav alot of friends but if anyone says anything to me like"ur being a bitch" i get rlly offended and hate them nomatter wut it is.i just weanna not care about wut ppl think of me. can someone help me?! (link)
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Hi!
Everyone cares what people think of them.. and loads of people lie and say they dont. The trick is to laugh things off when people say something like that to ya. For a while its just covering up the hurt you feel but after that you really are laughing it off.
Well, thats what I do and it works for me!
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ok....im 13 and pregnant i dont want to tell my family because i think they will be ashamed.I dont want to get an abortion because i think its wrong.I also dont want to give "it" up for adoption, because my friend was adopted and he doesent like it.I just really need some help.What should i do? (link)
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Hi,
Your parents are going to go mad!!! Double-check your pregnant before you go saying anything. See a doctor.. It is entirely your choice theirs no point asking people to tell you what to do... they can only support you and give thier opinions. Do what is best for yourself and your baby. Your parents will stand by you or they should do because you're only 13.
Look into options before you go dismissing everything.
I hope you choose what is right.
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In your opinion what would you think about someone that you write messages to they read them and don't reply. Like this girl from school, she's real popular. At the end of the school year she told me that she wanted to hang out with me sometime because she discovered we had a lot in common. I sent her a message over myspace with my number and she never calls me and when i ask for her number she doesn't reply. Actually she never replies. She knows that I've beat the $#!% out of people that we talking behind my back. So do you think she had no intention of hanging out with me she was just afraid of me? The thing that doesn't make sense is she told me that "we should hang out". (link)
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Hi,
I think this girl was making a suggestion she wasnt going to follow through. I dont know why, but I dont think its cuz shes scared of you.. otherwise she would have replied and made up an excuse not to meet you.
Thats what I think anyway. Dont get stressed about it and try not to think about it!
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Theres this boy mike, he wants to hook up with me, but i've never really.. hooked up with a guy before. Ive had boyfriends but I've only made out.
What do you do?
When do you know its the right time to start?
Do you start with making out?
How do you give a blow job/hand job.
and isn't it a little awkward when you guys finish? (link)
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Hi.
If I were you, id talk to Mike before doing anything more than making out. Make sure you're ready and dont rush in to anything because he wants you to. Make sure you can trust him.
You'll regret doing anything if you dont actually want to. Trust is important so you know word wont get around and you wont get a name for yourself.
Blow job is just taking it an the mouth.. not a pleasant expierience!!
Hand job is just rubbing him til he comes.
Hope that helped!
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ok so im 13/f
heres my personailty:
I love helping people, i volunteer all the time and i love animals and im part of a puppy rescue organizations. I also love to skateboard it's like my life. i am a big video gamer and paintballer. i also play electric and acoustic guitar and piano. i am a gymnast and the music is listen to is rap, rock, hip hop, and heavy metal stuff.
Im not emo or anything though i wear abercrombie and makeup and im pretty girly.
I have more guy friends than girl friends and like i hang out with boys and go to their houses to play video games or skate. i guess im kind of pretty idk. i have brown hair with natural golden highlights and its like soft waves and i have tan skin. im italian and french. i dont want to sound like im bragging because im not trying to i just want help:
the girls at school seem to hate me i dont know why. i try talking to them but they just hate me. what should i do? and will a guy ever like me as more than a friend? because im like their buddy i give them girl advice and stuff. will a guy ever like me for who i am?
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Hi,
I think the girls at your school mightent like you bcuz they think that youre a threat if they were to approach the lads you hang around with, bcuz youre pretty and prob have a lot more to talk about with the guys.
Youre still only 13, Id say just flirt more with the guys but still talk to them like normal.
Hope it works!
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I am throwing a suprise party for mah friendz Anna N' Nicole. The problem is that Nicole is best friendz with a grl named Krista and Anna hates Krista. Should i invite Krista or not? Help Please (link)
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Yep.. Krista is Nicoles friend she has got just as much right to be there as any one else. Anna can just ignore her, they dont have to talk.
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you see i just created a new myspace. btw, im 13/f. last year i made one but deleted it before the school year so i wouldnt get distracted. theres this girl, i've known her since like.. 4th grade, and we've been friends since then. this year (well it just ended for summer) i was in 7th. so yeah, like 3 years. when i wasnt in her pod for 5th and 6th grade, she was more friendlier with me. it was like we were still good friends though we didnt see each other often. she even invited me to her sleepover bday party in 5th grade though i couldnt go, cause my parents wouldnt let me. but in 7th grade it was different. in the beginning of the year it was the same like the other years but it progressed and it was like she was less interested in really being my friend, as i saw it. she'd share secrets with other friends and stuff, and wouldnt hang around me as much. i'd hang around her, but it was like.. she was half-interested in me. when i made my myspace before we were on each other's Top friends list. but this year, at the end of the year she had another sleepover party but she didnt invite me! i asked her if i was invited and she said it was for close friends only. i didnt show her how i felt, but i felt hurt cause i've been a good friend to her and i've known her longer than some of the people she considered as "close friends". and in my new myspace, i asked to be on her top and shes like "ummm.. no your not going on my top" and idk if its just me, but it sounded really snotty and that kinda ruined my mood for the rest of the day. cause i put her on my top... and yeah. and my other friend, we all knew each other in 4th grade too, shes not even in our pod but she got invited to the sleepover party and is 3rd on her top friends list. i dunno what i did wrong.. or is she just a friend i should drop? cause im not sure.. i dont like losing friends but i dont like being friends with people who dont act like friends should. or am i overreacting? also, i havent replied to her "umm no your not going on my top" comment yet.. i dunno what to reply! should i just be like "thanks, but no thanks" or "okay.." or "are you mad at me or something?" cause this is really hard to do. =( (link)
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Hi.
Your friend has moved on.. not nice to hear but it's true. You should do the same.. dont say anything to the whole myspace thing just show her you can have loads of friends too and that you don't need her.
Hope that helped.
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Okay so i had really liked this one guy and i told my BFF (we'll call her j). And we were setting up for this promotion thing and afterwards some extra people came to clean up...and he was one of them, in my mind i was screaming yes! So i talked to him for like a second... and when he asked me where some things went i told him...so about 10 minutes later i went home...but i guess when i was gone j told him i liked him! And she didn't even tell me she told him...so the next day i made a total fool of myself flirting and such...He even told other people...and i found out later from my other BFF,b, that j likes him! Please help me .
Thank You and God Bless,
Breezy:) (link)
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Hi.
This "friend" is trying to make a complete ass out of you... so she looks good..... is this the kind of BFF youre looking for? And this guy obviously doesnt feel the same way for you.. so id leave it at that... but you need to sort out J. Ask her does she like him first and then ask her why she told him you liked him.. If she hasnt got a good answer.. stop talking to her for a while and see just how much she values your friendship. Try it and see!
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Well, i go too high school. At high school we have populars and well geeks and i really, really hate this! No one has the right to tell you who you are or name you.
Populars think they can boss me about for example 'get out of this room', 'go away, you can't hang around here'. Am really fed up i just want to answer back but then everyone will hate me, and my friends are scared because they don't want to be hated, and everyone eles sucks up to them.
i would really like to know how can i stuck up for my self without being hated by people. (link)
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Hi.
First of all, dont suck up. Thats all the respect theyll ever have 4 you gone and you'l have 4 urself. If they tell you to go out just say its a free country.
Keep standing up 4 urself and theyll realise ur not like ur friends and mite actually have a backbone!!
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