so there's this guy. i used to like him. i used to actually consider him one of my closest friends and advisors. he's 4 years older than me.
he's a jerk now. he gives shitty advice.
example:
me: I'm so sad.
him: heh. don't be sad then.
and that is the kind of advice he generally gives.
he makes fun of me with other people and then he tells me about it and laughs at me. he thinks of himself so highly that he hurts me in the process. overall: he's an a-hole.
basically, i want to put an end to our friendship. i want it to die down. he's perverted and mentally sick and can ruin my day in a flash. he ignores me and goes on to talk about himself whilst complaining when I talk about *MYSELF*.
I really want to insult him and tell him how I feel about him. How I've felt for the past 2 years. Should I do it? All those mean things... Would it be too mean? I mean, I hate the guy. I don't mind. And I know exactly what to say.
15/f
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Friendship? teenage_royalty answered Sunday December 2 2007, 3:46 pm: wow. first I'll say that i'm soo sorry that you had t deal with someone so self centered and arrogant. secondly, if you want your friendship with this guy to die down, YOU take control of the situation. Tell him how you're feeling, but in a respectful way. Don't let him have the upper hand. And I noticed you said you hated him, don't **EVER** say you hate people. Hating people gives them too much of your time and you are WAY to fabulous to deal with someone that will waste your time!!
Aggiexx answered Sunday December 2 2007, 2:12 pm: You don't need to tell him what you think of him...... unless he gets really nasty. Just ignore him from now on and if he asks why your not talking to him. just tell him you don't like the way he acts with you. [ Aggiexx's advice column | Ask Aggiexx A Question ]
Brandi_S answered Sunday December 2 2007, 1:30 pm: Well, since he is a jerk and you don't like that, then why lower yourself to that level?
Do end the friendship, but be the bigger person.
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