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will a guy ever like me?
ok so im 13/f
heres my personailty:
I love helping people, i volunteer all the time and i love animals and im part of a puppy rescue organizations. I also love to skateboard it's like my life. i am a big video gamer and paintballer. i also play electric and acoustic guitar and piano. i am a gymnast and the music is listen to is rap, rock, hip hop, and heavy metal stuff.
Im not emo or anything though i wear abercrombie and makeup and im pretty girly.
I have more guy friends than girl friends and like i hang out with boys and go to their houses to play video games or skate. i guess im kind of pretty idk. i have brown hair with natural golden highlights and its like soft waves and i have tan skin. im italian and french. i dont want to sound like im bragging because im not trying to i just want help:
the girls at school seem to hate me i dont know why. i try talking to them but they just hate me. what should i do? and will a guy ever like me as more than a friend? because im like their buddy i give them girl advice and stuff. will a guy ever like me for who i am?
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woah you "sound" like a real hot girl and the girls in school may not like you because your hot. It happend in my school... also maybe because there jealous your always with the guys.
The guys you have around with are probably scared to ask you out because theyve known you more as a friend and you have a lot of guys to choose from.... yeah i can see your point about how is diffcult to get them to like you more.. if you can get any friends who are girls over with some guys you can play spin the bottle etc and you might get lucky. if not if looks like your going to have to start on the guy :/ maybe if you pretend you like this other guy and ask your guyfrend for advice. when it "fails" go cryin to him.
apart from that its way better for you to hang around with guys than girls...well in some ways... but ive heard this can turn you a lesbian if u ONLY hang round with guys. and if a guy hangs around with girls like friends then he will be gay. he treats girls like a straight guy treats guys.
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Be yourself! I like girls for who they are, not what they are trying to be. Unless your hopelesly unattractive you shouldn't have any problems, your personality seems flawless, but then again I don't know you. Your only 13! don't worry about getting a guy right now, just enjoy being young while you can.
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Hi,
I think the girls at your school mightent like you bcuz they think that youre a threat if they were to approach the lads you hang around with, bcuz youre pretty and prob have a lot more to talk about with the guys.
Youre still only 13, Id say just flirt more with the guys but still talk to them like normal.
Hope it works!
xx
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hey, it's kind of ironic because I was in the same exact place as you are now. i'm 15, and still have some of those problems. i think you should just soak up the time with your guy friends rather then worrying about what these jealous girls think. honestly, jealous. you hang out with guys, they dont. you're italian and french, and us kind of girls are just sexy. but seriously, don't worry about what the other girls are saying.
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You shouldn't have to dress different to get a guy to like you.
I believe the girls don't "hate" you. They are probably jealous because you hang out with the guys and get along with them really well.
I, personally, love what you just decribe. You seem like so much fun to be around, yet you still have your girly side, which is amazing.
You are 13, you do not need a guy yet. Enjoy your youth. Enjoy being friends with them. Because once you get sucked into the world of boyfriends, it is hard to get out without heartache.
The guys love you, no need to strut your stuff or anything. Just wait for the right time, and it will come to you, rather than you looking for it.
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Yes, a guy will like you. But it does seem like you're their buddy. Maybe you should get some more girly qualities. Because to me, you were discribing a boy, like with all your qualities ( skateboarding, guitarist, paintballer, and gamer. ) Just stick with what you like and feel comfortable with. Flirt more, let guys know you're out there, dress revealing. But a guy will like you.
Hope I helped ?
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