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Loosing my best friend.
Alright, I have two great friends and then one of them is my best friend. They both were, but the one got a boyfriend and spends all her time with him.
Well, my best friend and I have been hanging out with these two guys but things didn't work out for me, but they are working out for her.
And I don't want them to.
That's so slefish but I don't know.
And the boy my best friend likes and he likes her is best friends with my other good friend's boyfriend.
That's hard to understand.
And if she dates this boy, my good friend and my best friend will be hanging out all the time and I will be left out.
And she tells me that won't happen, but you can't help it, that's what my other friend said, she has never left us, but she did.
And my best friend has been my best friend forever.
We had this long talk.
And she said she will try not to like this guy because our friendship is more important than a guy.
But I told her that she needs to put my feelings aside and do what her heart tells her, and if that means that she's with this guy all the time, that's what it means, and I will have to find new friends. I mean, what's more important, friendship, or love. I mean, she may be able to find love here.
I don't know.
This has been bringing me down for days.
I need help.
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oh its ok honey! Listen. Your friend shouldnt have to choose between a friend or a boyfriend. If your friend really cares about you she would bring you on a group date. So then your BFF can be with the two ppl she loves! If your bff doesnt think of the group date then you bring it up. Say hey you know maybe me you and your boyfriend can go tot he movies on saturday? Then you can all have fun. Then maybe while your at the movies you ,might find someone you like there too!! Well pleeze tell me how everything goes!Just comment and rate me! Thanks! I hope my advice helped! Good luck!
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Well, the fact that she wants to put ur friendship before this guy says a lot for her. It shows that she luves you a lot more than him. Tellin her that she has to disregard your feelings was a good thing to do and it seems obvious that ye can talk openly.So, if she does begin to exclude you.. jst say it to her and she should try to include you.
Hope that helped!!
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