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i care alot about wut ppl think of me


Question Posted Sunday July 8 2007, 1:53 pm

i care wut ppl think of me and i guess i wanna be more popular . i hav alot of friends but if anyone says anything to me like"ur being a bitch" i get rlly offended and hate them nomatter wut it is.i just weanna not care about wut ppl think of me. can someone help me?!

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MCRxoLoVer answered Monday July 9 2007, 5:41 pm:
Well first for the popular thing, trust me it's not worth it. I wanted to be popular for so long, and when I finally was, everyone liked me for who I hung out with, not for me. Also just think about what other people say about you. I mean if someone calls you a b**** then just ignore it, and just tell yourself that your not. I mean people that call people names, are just trying to act all big and bad, and dont let it get to you. But deciding not to care what other people think about you is a good idea. I heard this quote that says "Care more about your character than your reputation, because your character is who you are and your reputation is what others think about you" So just be yourself and if people dont like you, then thats their loss, not yours.

Hope I helped :)

-MCRxoLoVeR

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littlestar27 answered Sunday July 8 2007, 7:34 pm:
well. I think that you should just look more at yourself. are you happy with yourself? because if you are then thats all you need. personally I really never care what people think about me. theres nothing you can do to stop what others think. no matter what there is always going to be someone thinking negetively of you. that is called life. just let things roll off your back just remember things like that are natural. of course everyone cares a bit. but try not to care, just think about it. and what they are saying? does it REALLY even matter? just something to think about :) I hope you can really look into yourself and stop caring so much about what others think... :)

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soilikethisboy answered Sunday July 8 2007, 5:43 pm:
Personaly I don't give a crap what anyone thinks about anything. So I can probably help you. The first step is to purposely stand out. Where something different from a trend or somthing. Don't purposely look like a complete dork but dont look like everyone else. Ya know what I mean? Little things like that will add up and soon you'll be like me doing whatever you want just because.

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nikitathecheetah answered Sunday July 8 2007, 4:14 pm:
well you shouldn't care what other people think because everywhere you go they'll be someone saying things about you. don't worry about what other people say about you because it doesn't matter what they say. they just say that because they're hurt inside and insecure and fell the need to say bad thing s about other people just to make themselves feel good. and about the popularity thing don't worry about being popular that stuff doesn't matter. just be yourself because you'll make a lot more friends if you just be yourself!

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neveragainx answered Sunday July 8 2007, 3:42 pm:
everybody cares what people think of them.
but it shouldn't matter.
just try to forget about everyone else and be yourself.
chacnes are, you'll make many more frinds that way than if you were to pretend to be someone you're not :)

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Aggiexx answered Sunday July 8 2007, 2:47 pm:
Hi!
Everyone cares what people think of them.. and loads of people lie and say they dont. The trick is to laugh things off when people say something like that to ya. For a while its just covering up the hurt you feel but after that you really are laughing it off.
Well, thats what I do and it works for me!
xx

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