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my dream girl
so there's this girl and she is absolutely perfect for me, nobody could even understand how great she is. she's a year younger than me, her parents are divorced llike mine, she's small, she has dyed black hair (always with colors like blue or red), she loves going to rock shows, her favorite bands are metallica, pantera, and tool, she always wears black, nobody can even understand how perfect she is for me. so here's the story: we started talking online about halfway through the school on aim(she started the conversations sometimes and i started the conversations sometimes).we had really good long talks about life in general about 3 times a week. one time she invited me to go to a fair with her and some of her friends but i had to be somewhere. we kept talking online and started finding each other in school and talking face to face. i burned her my nirvana cds and i gave her a ride home once after school when she had to stay after. she visited me at work once(arbys) and we talked. one time after a good chat online i asked if she wanted to just hang at the mall and she said "definately" and was enthusiastic about it. so i looked her number up in the phonebook and gave her a call and asked her if she wanted to hang out on that day and she was like "no i cant hang out today" but she was real brief and didn't go into any detail, it was like she didn't want me to talk to her at all(and btw she cant go online anymore because her mom grounded her for something, this happened before the phone call) so we didnt talk at all after the call. so yesterday she came into arbys and i ignored her and gave her her food and hid off in the back til she left because i dont know if she wants me to leave her alone or not. i'm really regreting it now and i dont know what to do. i know i will see her again before summer's end because she told me she's going to the same concert i'm going to. i really need some advice badly. i really like this girl alot. i have fantasies of me and her laying on top of my car listening to the deftones holding hands and just looking up into the sky. any advice would be appreciated greatly.
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You seem sweet enough for her. Ask her to the movies or something. I'm sure she wants to be with you. You just need to give her a chance. It sounds like you two are meant to be together. You just need to take a leap of faith. Ask her out. I don't think you should ignore her either. She obviously likes you. Ask her out!
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If you really like her, don't ignore her.
You're not 100% sure she was avoiding you, anyway, so she could still like you, and you ignoring her is only going to hurt her feelings.
If you see her again, walk up to her and just ask her how she's been or something, then you can see how she acts and you should be able to tell if she's really avoiding you or not.
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There must have been a good reason she was very brief on the phone with you, especially since #1 shes grounded and #2 she seems very interested,why would she randomly not want to talk? You should definatley find a way to talk to her soon, before she thinks you dont like her because of the misunderstanding at work.Tell her how you feel but dont put too much pressure on her.Tell her youd like to go to the movies or something sometime with just the two of you.And dont sweat the whole hiding in the back of arbys thing lol.Just explain to her you were confused on her feelings and didnt want to come on too strong.If shes half as great as you say she is, shell understand.Give it a shot,who knows it might turn into a great relationship.
Hope it helps,good luck =]
-Cassie
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There's a big possibility her mom was standing right in front of her when she was talking to you on the phone. She most likely came to your job to talk to you about it! Get ahold of your girl and talk to her! Don't let her slip away!
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That's a very cute image of you and her. As a female, the one thing I really look for in a guy is honesty. Be honest with this girl if she's this perfect for you. Look for her at that concert or go to the concert with her, tell her how you feel and take it from there. Hope it all works out for you.
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