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ok.... so im 19f in college and ive just recently found out that this guy in my roomies program likes me.
Im not sure how i feel about him, ive never given him and i much thought. Hes not realy attractive, but hes always been nice to me. He seems quite forward, and ive heard alot of him sleeping around. I dont just want to be another count for him.
Im not sure if i should get to know him more than i do to see how i feel...or... take it as the pig just trying to get some more.
I already know hes had a thing for both my roomates... he seems to "like" alot of girls. Yet he says hes just trying to find a relationship. I dont know what to believe and i dont want to get hurt.
what do i do? (link)
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Sex is an investment of morality, and biological hazard fr physical pleasure.
Just make sure that you or anybody else you may be with will never regret that you had sex with the common dorky, ugly, douchebag who's regard for a relationship is probably a perverted foundation, because it will forever upset a thoughtful person.
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my moms birthday is tomorrow and i dont no what to get her i only have 5 dollors.\
- Samantha white a 14yr old (link)
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If you're on a serious budget I'd hit up the dollar store, and just get her an interesting gadget, but if you can spare a few more bucks breakfast or lunch at a diner would probably turn out to be quite nice.
Anytime you set to spend with your mommy will be cherished, because I'm sure that she remembers being 14 not to long ago.
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my best friend has been going out with her boyfriend for about 2 months. this is her first serious boyfriend - shes 16, and im happy for her. only thing is, she is head over heels for him, but its really obvious he doesn't like her like that. i am NOT jealous, i would never date a guy in the same species as this one, haha, but im not the only one who has noticed the apathy on his part. she sets up all the dates, she asked him out, and he doesnt even hug her when they say goodbye! theyve kissed but to me it seems like a formality on his part. -i a really intrapersonal person, i can pick up others' feelings easily, but even my other friends notice-
also, she invites him everywhere when we have girl time. like, when its just her & me, its normal, but whenever she invites a handful of friends over, all girls, he has to come, too. i dont mind once in a while but its getting rediculous. he's obviously never had a girlfriend before (not to be mean but hes really nerdy and quiet, im not prejudiced against that type of guy 'cause i like shy guys haha but quite honestly he's just... boring) and is just riding the wave.
even worse, she kinda acts different around him. i mean obv girls act dif around their boyfriends but when all her girl friends are hanging out and he happens to be around, her attitude completely changes and shes not as fun anymore.
i dont know what to do. if i brought up the whole not inviting him places things, she might get mad at me, (i wouldnt blame her). also i do not want to be the one to tell her [and i dont think i should tell her... even though if anyone should, it would be me] he doesnt like her and break her heart. should i just stay out of this? if it was me, though, i'd want her to tell me.
opinions? thanks so much. (link)
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2 months is a silly length of time for an accurate status of any relationship, and most young relationships are of from reacting to those sexual hormones. The concerns from her I'm sure aren't to serious.
The guy honestly sounds like a douche bag by the way if he's hanging out with the girls in girl's night out type of events, and if she acts differently then it sounds like she has become his property.
She either likes his oppression or she'll eventually act in rebellion where they should break up or he will change for the better.
Be patience, relaxed, and wait to act only when you can tell the good from the bad.
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Hi, I would really appreciate some help on the following issue please:
My training routine is 6h/week of wing chun, 2h/wk of boxing (includes intense fitness, sparing etc..), 2h/wk of body pump and 1h/wk of spinning
Total of 10 to 12h per week.
I have noticed lately I get out of breath really fast, i.e. i start running for 2/3 minutes and I'm already out of breath !! which is ridiculous...or I spare at boxing for a few minutes and get out of breath ...it did not use to be like this a few month ago..I don't really understand, it seems the more i train the worth it gets...
I eat very healthily, my weight is 69kg for 1m74 and I am 40
Anyone experienced what I'm going thru ?
Can anyone help or make any suggestions ?
Thanks in advance.
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The problem sounds mental, because I'm sure that you're no longer getting the same adrenaline rush from it anymore so now you have to fight many more disciplines.
I myself am being lazy right now by not beginning my 500 daily sit ups amongst other things.
It all sounds mental, but don;t count out taking a break, because breaks from your work outs are very important. Let your body relax, and repair itself from those work outs. Maybe a 3 5 day break will get you back up.
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Im 20/f and my girlfriend is considering joining the army. We have been together for 2 yrs and now have an apartment together. She has thought about joining before but now she is serious about it and its because her friend (who is also her ex girlfriend) is going. I see her reasoning for going and all the perks that would come along with her joining but I dont want her to go. And it kind of hurts my feelings that she's more worried about her friend going to the army then she is about leaving me behind. She knows I dont want her to go but I told her that whatever she decides I would support her. I just dont know how to handle this. I mean, she does talk about it bettering us and coming back to me and everything but I know that she would be gone for quite a while and there is always a chance she wouldnt come back to me. I want to be supportive and I want her to know that whatever she decides I will be here and I will love her but I dont want her to feel like Im perfectly fine with her going. i just dont know how to find a happy medium. I dont know.. This is just real tough and any advice would be appreciated. Thanks
P.S.- I would love to hear from people who have had their significant other go away to the military and how they handled it. But any help is appreciated. (link)
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This is something I may be looking into myself, and if she's been talking to a recruiter I would just go to see him myself.
I'm sure that you can travel with her to where she's stationed, and maybe even still go to school. In the least make a few bucks, have a place to gather, and a nice life. I bet that could work out so well.
Talk to her recruiter. It's the military after all.
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i think i might be a lesbian or bisexual, how can you tell like wat are the signs (link)
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If you're going by sexual arousal then you're dead wrong. You can get sex from almost anywhere by nearly anybody, and in most cases homosexuality as well as bi cases are a result of arrogance, and perversions. If there are any signs make sure that they're in the absence of arousal.
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how do you now if a girl likes you (link)
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Eye contact, context simultaneous to your presence, and constant approach from her to you proximity are the best signs to look for. If she starts bringing up things she wants to do with you then you're golden.
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i have to write a research paper for my physics class. it can basically be about anything as long as it relates to physics. im trying to decide on a topic and im thinking either motocross, roller coasters, or fireworks. i just dont know how to branch off and narrow it down to find a more specific subject to write about. any ideas of a more narrow topic i could use from either of those ideas? i have to be able to relate it to "every day life" as well. thanks! (link)
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Physics - The science of matter and energy and of interactions between the two, grouped in traditional fields is almost unlimited within every single object: for motocross for the wheels alone there's critically made calculations form every machined part for variables such as the material's durability to be able to sustain the force exerted on them. Everyday life is obviously affected greatly by the results of these equations by everything that has wheels.
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i have dimples on my lower back which i LOVE but you cant really see them that much, i was wondering does excersise help define them? or is there any way to get them more visible? (link)
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Simple, Sit ups.
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I'm going sometime to get a test for food allergies. What do they do and how many days after will you know the results? (link)
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Yep, what jenny said, but also make sure that he tests for regular allergies to while he's at it just to make more use of the time, and convenience.
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ok i am 15 year old girl and i have had my period before but i havn't had it in a long time. it has been like 10 months. When it was summer i didn't have it at all and i went to the doctor and she said it was because i was in sports and always exersising. But summer ended along time ago and i havnt been exersising like at all. In the 10 months i have probably had it 3 times but only for 2 or 3 days and it was small ones. I know i am not pregnant. But i dont know if it is serious or not. Should i go to the doctor or should i just not worry about it? (link)
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Sounds like you're a lucky girl to me. Doc saids that it's fine then it's fine. Enjoy a lot more freedom than most girls get from their periods.
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Okay, I've never really engaged in sex until my senior year started in August. Since then, I've just been sleeping around. I would say that I've slept with at least 15-16 guys since August. Why all of the sudden am I so promiscuous? (link)
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Yes.
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can fingering delay your period? another question, can it get you pregnant? is there any possibility that he had stuff on his finger? (link)
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If he had sperm on his fingers then of course you can in a freak chance get pregnant, because they can live for up to 3 days, but only preserved habitat conditions.
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i like this guy and i think he likes me back. we see eachother on the bus and i usually sit next to him. he flirts with me and one of his friends told me that he wants to ask me out but hes too afraid. so what do i do? im desperate! :( (link)
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I know it's very difficult to ask a girl out if you're a modest kind of guy that's happy just talking to a pretty girl, because me personally I'm afraid I'll scare her off.
What my girlfriend did to make it easy for me to ask her out was just say that she didn't want to go home while I was alone with her at the end of the day. I didn't just hope into asking her out the first time, but after a few days I made the nerve racking question: that if she wanted to come over to my house to watch some movies. Shes been the best thing that's ever happen to me ever since.
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Okay so I have kinda big nipples and I know I get them from my mom. But they bother me!! They're barely even brown, they're a really light brown/pink ish and I guess they're like round and puffy. Why is this?? I'm 13/f and I'm a C-36, but my nipples bother me size wise! I find them to be to big and to have not enough color than usual. Also, I have veins showing (not popping out) on my breasts, and they kind of go into my nipple. Is there something wrong? Is there any way to make my nipples smaller and more brown? I hate having them so big. Ugh, it bothers me because I;m afraid I'll be around guys at a future pool party and my boob will like, fall outta my bikini and people will be like ew huge nipples! All my friends have tiny ones and even my friends whose breasts are the same cup size.. I'm also trying to lose 10-15 pounds, will this maybe reduce the size of my nipples/boobs? My nipples really bother me..
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Big nipples are considered to be unusual, and erotic.
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so i have never been into drinking...i just graduated from high school and i got drunk for the first time ever last night. my parents aren't home (they went on vacation) and they left me & my sister with my older brother. i had a few friends over (they have all been drunk before) and along with my brother's friends, we all got drunk. it was stupid to do while my sister was there (or stupid to do in general) and i think she's really mad and disappointed in me). she's one of my best friends and i feel like i let her down...i set a bad example and she seems pissed and when i apologized and asked if she was mad she said "that's just not you." and she's totally right, and i feel like a huge let down. i know people drink so please don't give me a speech about her needing to be used to it. i just wish i could gain back my sister's trust & i don't want her to look at me differently because of what i did. what should i do? (link)
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*I'm assuming that you're 21 ;)
Men have been drinking beer since the dawn of humanity, and as far as for your sister I think the geek is just very jealous. Notice that she just makes emotional pleads, but doesn't back up anything she saids with logic and or facts so I suggest you just get her drunk with something fruity for the laddies: cool aide & vodka.
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14/f
my boyfriend, josh is 17.
his best friend, and my best friend, blake is also 17.
so, ive been dating my boyfriend for 3 months on the 5th of august. and i met blake about a month before josh and i started dating.
i really love my boyfriend. and he says he loves me. but i dunno if he does. sometimes. he just doesnt sound sincere. blake on teh other hand, when he says i love you. its so definate, and i KNOW i can trust him. it just seems like blake cares so much more. and it worries me sometimes.
blake lives about an hour away from me though, while josh lves liek 10 minutes away.
i hung out with blake on friday night, we held hands, and he held me. and it was so great. hes the best hugger in teh world. and although he can be a sarcastic asshole sometimes, hes still so amazing. but he doesnt know that, hes reall not confident.
josh is pretty confident, he has low-ish self esteem.
but since friday, ive been thinking about my relationship with josh. i know i love him, but i dont know if its that kind of love anymore. and i think im begining to have feelings for blake.
and it really worries me, because i dont want to do that to josh.
also, i havent seen josh in about 2 weeks, because hes in africa on a missions trip.
so that may have something to do with what im feeling.
i just really dont know what to do, and id liek an outsiders opinion.
help would be much appreciated.
thanks in advance.
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Please don't make every other human being's mistake by trying to make an interpretation of what is love, and listen, older guy love hanging out with cut younger girls, because there very easy to take advantage of, but now if you honestly feel you love this josh guy, and have the actual discipline to make such a decision then dump that over confident jerk.
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Here's your reply to that,
"wow... thats really all i can say, you really interpretted that whole thing to wrong way. niether of them are the typical 17 year old assholes. so just dont make assuptions based on what you think theyre like just because of theyre age. just take that into consideration next time you give someone advice."
Well first of all you're just a stupid little arrogant, pretentious, but completely worthless little girl. There's nothing outstanding about them, and especially if you feel their is. They want to get into your pants, and that's the reason they're hanging out with a worthless minded set girl like you. Enjoy having your virginity wasted do to you emotions taking over your logic.
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NO PREACHING PLEASE! I'm not going to do this,, im just wondering.
If you would do nothing but jump rope, dance, and push-ups non stop for two whole days, what would happen? like I odnt care if its impossible for ´humans or whatever, Im just wondering.. all these people who are trying to lose weight but cant or give up because they dont get results quick enough.. if they would do nothing but work out for maybe 2 days or 4 or something like that (keep in mind how freaking long a day is!) would they see results? Or doesn't it matter that they're working so much cause you have to work over a long period of time?
Please don't answer unless you KNOW, I don't want guesses. (link)
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You'll collapse, and be to weak after a couple of hours, but hypothetically if you got excess fat, and continues still nothing bad would happen health wise. As far as results even if you did the opposite - to try and get fatter by eating all day long you wouldn't see results of getting fatter until a couple of weeks. The results from works outs are just miniscule in each day from day. In a 24 hour session I estimate you'd shed about 1/16 of an inch of body fat of all the fatty masses. Also note that that's subjected to if your body's metabolism isn't used to burning calories. You may even see less results or a ttiny bit more results, and this is why work out are so important. An athletic person would probably lose about a 1/4 of a inch of fat in such a work out.
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okay, so i'm 5'8 and weigh around 160. my body would be much better if i didn't have flabby arms and a bulging stomach. is there any way i can get my body back into shape for this summer? (link)
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You just need to start working out, and if you start out small you'll have no problem getting fit. Once you're fit you can eat whatever you want, and actually only have to worry about not eating due to your metabolism being better at burning off calories.
Just try to stretch out, and google healthy stretches if you don't know how to. Unknown by most, it's strong joints that make some of the strongest people keep that in mind when you're thinking about how much it hurts, because you'll want to stop short. Stretching out hurts, and especially starting out.
If you can make it past stretching, then go for some sit ups. For the first entire week just do two sets of ten simple situps, and if you can do that OK then do 13 push ups. If you can't do 13 push ups then you need to just do as many as you can for the first week each day.
After the first week is where you should experiment, and try two sets of maybe 15 situps each day. The goal is to get to doing 40 pushups, and situps each day. By that point you should see your stomach get flatter, and your arms become slightly defined. It's really simple, and up to you: weather you want to be a fat loser who's just going to get fatter, or a nice looking fit guy. After two weeks you'll be glad if you choose discipline.
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I posted this earlier but i need more responses
22/f
I went dancing with a couple of friends of mine the other night. Now we have to drive an hour to get there and recently we see a friend (Brent) of our that we dance with down there. well I really like him but not real sure how to let him know, or if he even likes me. On the way down My friends were teasing me how I would never have the guts to dance with him (very riska) the way my other friend does. Well that day I figured well since I am playing hooky from work why not? It wasn’t immediate though. I had to build up the courage. Brent kinda helped me though. we were all sitting and this one song came on and I was the only one that went out on the dance floor because I liked the song. It was a 2 step song and suddenly Brent comes up to me and said he was going to teach me the 2 step. I was such a dork, but eventually got it. And I felt so comfortable with him. Then a little bit later the perfect song came on later for me to make my move. My friend Sabrina had just been dancing with him and she said she had to go to the bathroom. The song “pretty Woman” came on and I just went for it. Just about all out. I had never done it before but it seemed natural. we did this mostly for the remainder of the evening. Couple times I was even toying with him. It appeared as though he was liking it but also driving him crazy. And every time a slow song would come on he would actually ask me to dance instead of assuming it. Once even, when I was sitting out because I was tired and Brent was dancing with Sabrina a slow song came on and he was dancing with her,( I had no problem with that because she is married and was just dancing) a second one came on right after that but they were coming back to the couch and I hear Sabrina say ” Well I guess you will finally be able to take that break you wanted” (she hated the country song that was playing) but instead he surprisingly offers his hand out to me very charmingly and wants to go dance again with me and I hear Sabrina say ”okay I guess not” We were eventually sitting next to each other more into the night. He even was stroking my arm very casually. Little at first then more. He even had the guts to when I would lean forward to talk with Sabrina he would have his arm up on the sill so when I leaned back he would have his arm around my shoulder. We got closer too. He would start playing with my fingers and I would respond with same and eventually we were holding hands with one and the other I was all wrapped in his arms all cuddled up. I was really relaxed and comfortable until my friends said that we had to head home since it was getting late. They thought I was falling asleep because Brent was also massaging my head and neck and it just felt so good. I was so not tired. My heart was definitely racing. Afterwards we always have this tradition of walking next door to this 24 doughnut place to get doughnut holes for the ride home. It helps me be more awake for the drive home since I am the driver. Well We start walking and I said I was cold and he wraps his arms around me to keep me warm. I thought it was cute. We get our doughnuts and eat for a minute and start to head in the car. I am not sure if this worked but he gave me an extra long hug and out of umm last second thought I kissed him on the cheek very quickly and got into the car ( It was raining.) And he watched us from under the beam until we left. So what do I do now? Do you think he like me? Do you think there is any chance between us? He also lived an hour away from the club but in the opposite direction, meaning we are 2 hours apart. With our constant flirting now what? Was I giving off the right vibe? Was I too much? Please help me!! I need LOTS of answers! Thank you very much for your time!
Some of you might be familiar with my previous questions. they were about being envious of my friend and her dancing and not sure how to tell this guy how I felt. If you want to the whole story feel free to reefer yourself to those questions. (link)
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When a man touches you a lot, he defiantly doesn't like you. That's how he shows it without saying it, and it's usually pretty obvious. Just put 1,1,1,1,and one together and figure it out for yourself next time.
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