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do i give him a chance?
ok.... so im 19f in college and ive just recently found out that this guy in my roomies program likes me.
Im not sure how i feel about him, ive never given him and i much thought. Hes not realy attractive, but hes always been nice to me. He seems quite forward, and ive heard alot of him sleeping around. I dont just want to be another count for him.
Im not sure if i should get to know him more than i do to see how i feel...or... take it as the pig just trying to get some more.
I already know hes had a thing for both my roomates... he seems to "like" alot of girls. Yet he says hes just trying to find a relationship. I dont know what to believe and i dont want to get hurt.
what do i do?
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Hi,
You know theirs nothing wrong with casual sex and having fun messing around if you're comfortable and happy with that - it sounds as if your not. So my advice is (unless you come to know him better and find he is not just after one thing) to stay clear. Plenty other boys out there and your right you don't want to get hurt. MM
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Sex is an investment of morality, and biological hazard fr physical pleasure.
Just make sure that you or anybody else you may be with will never regret that you had sex with the common dorky, ugly, douchebag who's regard for a relationship is probably a perverted foundation, because it will forever upset a thoughtful person.
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It sounds like you are thinking about dating him for no other reason than just because he's there. If you were really into him there would have been some sort of chemistry by now. Plus, he doesn't seem to have any boundaries because he has already had a thing for both roomates.
Why don't you just sit back and see where this thing goes? If he really likes you he won't mind showing you by chasing you for a little while, and the harder he has to work to win you, the more he will appreciate you. I just have this feeling that you will end up getting hurt if you jump right into things because he will end up moving on to the next girl.
Don't rely totally on his reputation because those usually are all blown out of proportion, but I would definately beware. One day, your saying you don't think he's all that attractive, and the next, your mending a broken heart.
One more thing-he is obviously the kind of guy who likes to kiss and tell, so keep that in mind.
Also, if you do end up dating him both of your rommates are going to secretly think you have their sloppy seconds. They won't say it to your face, but they will think "I could have had him first." Is that what you really want?
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Hes doing what you do when you're trying to find
what you want. Sounds like he is at least an honest guy!
There is nothing saying you have to sleep with the guy. Get to know him if you want to. Tell him he
may "like a lot of girls", but you don't sleep with
anyone you don't love. You don't have to e a notch on his belt if you want to give him a try. :)
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