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Me and my boyfriend have been dating about a month and a half. And I love him already. And I've never been in love. It's real. I haven't told him yet because I'm scared he won't say it back and that worries me. He almost told me that he did after like two weeks but then another guy kissed me and everything got messed up. But it's way better now that I mean it. I want to tell him, I don't know if I should yet. I mean I know I love him though.

I wouldn't tell him, because honestly, I don't really think its love after such a short time. People tend to thin they are in love when it is actually just lust or a super strong like. But anyways it might scare him a bit so you should definitely wait a little longer.

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14/f
i dont feel liked at all. like no guys EVER look at me! ive never been kissed and ive never had a boyfriend. when my friends have and are always telling me about their stories. I'd just like to have a story to tell. any advice?

You may be more reserved or something than your friends. Right now most guys find it easier to just go for the crazy outgoing girls.. You will get noticed, now or later, believe me.

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what is the song thats like "dance too much booty in the pants"?? i tried google but all i got was Lil Jon's Stick That Thang Out but thats not it.. the one i heard was faster and more upbeat.. i dont kno if it was a remix or what but if it was whats the mix called?

2 live crew - too much booty in the pants

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15/f

so im going to be a freshman, this september or august or whatever, and im like nervous. does it suckk incredibly? like do they seriously make fun of you? how bad is it?

You have absolutely nothing to worry about. I was all anxious and nervous and all that crap, but seriously, after a while it feels the same as middle school. Its probably the easiest year because theres not as much stress as the other 3. No one picked on me or anything stupid like that. Just don't come on the first day thinking your hot and being a know it all, because of course people will say something and it probably wont be very nice. But dont worry, you'll be fine.

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Hey, can you guys listen to my song and tell me what you think.. And some adive also, if you have any

I'm kinda shy, so i'm not ready to share this with people I already know.

http://www.purevolume.com/songsfortheweek

thanks

I like the beat and everything but the singing needs work. Its very off tune at some times.
Hope i helped!

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okay, i've been trying to loose 20lbs since like..oh i dont' know, january? i was doing WICKED good dieting and such, and then one day middle of febuary, i decided to have some KFC. and i've been binging ever since. good news? i managed to loose 20lbs within that month and a half. bad news is i can't keep myself motivated to stick to something again.
i always tell myself "i'm starting a new diet now" and it works for a couple days. then i start binging again.

i want to stop and get healthy. i already have a good meal plan:
breakfast- Oatmeal, Peaches, Water, Multivitamin
OR Pinnaple-bannana Smoothie (bannana, pinnapple, soy milk, ice)
Lunch- Turkey Wrap, Non-Fat Pudding, Apple, Water
Dinner- Lean Cousine.

I'm planning on drinking 10 glasses a day. and working out for 40 minutes per day 5x per week.
what excersises should i do?

and how fast do you think i will loose this weight? i weight 145lbs and my waist is 37"

The plan sounds perfect, but lets be realistic now, this will not work at all. If you tend to overeat, there is no way you can have this much self control and stick with the diet. You need to gradually drop the weight, not all at once.

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Okay so when I wear my contacts they make my eyes bloodshot because they cut off the air. Is there anthing I can do about it other than getting new ones? If not what type should
I use?

Keep a bottle of contact solution in your purse & whenever you feel uncomfortable just add a drop or 2 to each eye:)

Excuse me you dont have to be a moron and give me a crap rating just because my answer wasnt what your looking for. Dont be a bitch.

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19/F

I work at a resort, as a housekeeper and dishwasher. I do dishwashing two days a week.

For some reason, I get severe back pain whenever I'm doing dishwashing. I've done some research, but a lot of the ideas they give don't really help me; I can't change my work surroundings, and I don't have the option of standing with one foot on a step stool, because I have to walk a lot.

Any ideas as to why my back is hurting so badly? And any tips (from someone with similar experience, preferably. I don't need research, since I already did that!) as to what to do to fix this? I'm in so much pain by the end of my 8 hour shift that I have trouble breathing!

It could just be sore from bending over & you might just be worrying too much. From what you are saying though, it doesnt sound like that. You might have scoliosis, just get it checked with a doctor and see what he has to say.

hope i helped:)

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But just because its a song why is everybody always like ay bay bay. Its actually kind of annoying. Just wonderiing.

People just kinda take things from songs haha. Like everyone used to say im bringing sexy back... dumb things like that:)

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here are these to really great girls im trying to find out which one i should date, i cant choose!
i need help sooo bad

okayy #1 is Jessica

http://tinypic.com/view.php?pic=5zm2kgl


#2 this is Haley

http://tinypic.com/view.php?pic=5xhrxuw

which one? i dont know, im having a SUPER hard time

ALSO PLEASE TELL ME WHO IS PRETTIER I CANT TELL THAT STUFF IDK WHY BUT IM HAVING A HARD TIME pleasee help

thanks!!

Honestly, they are both very, very ugly. Maybe find some different girls:)

Im dead serious, they are super sick looking

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does sloming ( sticking leeches on myself) actually exist? like do any of youu know people who do it or did they make it up for the commerical?

thankssssssss

Well people don't actually do it, but doctors use leeches to suck blood for medical practice aha. Theyre just trying to prove a point about drugs or whatever. That commercial is so gross:)

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www.myspace.com/DanielleSomething
Ok I love this hairstyle, I just have no idea what the back of it looks like. So..help me out please? Thx! Oh, and do you think it would look ok on me? Heres mine.. www.myspace.com/brixmariex3 I'm just worried since ive never seen it on a wider/fatter type face its always on skinny faces. Yes I know I'm preppy, but I like the emo type hairstyles and the makeup.

The back looks the same as the front, my friend has that kinda hair but switched colors. The black part of her hair, it looks like extensions. I think it would look cute if you got it

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I brush my teeth everyday and try to hard to keep them white. I've used trays and whitening toothpaste. I wanted to know of something you have personally used that had good results. I don't want to spend a lot of money on something.

Thanks so much in advance!!

Certain foods like strawberries and lemon make your teeth naturally whiter. I use Crest Whitestrips, (I think theyre about 40?) and those work really good for me. I use the ones that you put on for 30 minutes, once in the morning and once at night. Theyre kind of a lot, but seriously, its worth it. You can buy them from most drugstores:)

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i like to watch gay porn and jack off to it but i hate seeing guys kiss, its just weird and i can never think of loving a guy. i date girls all the time and naked girls turn me on too i like to think of myself of straight...what do u think.

You might be bi. Im not sure of your age but I read in a magazine that its common for teenagers to get turned on by things like that, so when your older your feelings may or may not change:)

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OK, this is very weird & sorry, I had no idea what to put it under. Anyway, for some reason, when I eat a meal, I never ever eat the last bite. I mean I'm sure I could if I really tried, but, it usually just happens that there is that little last piece that I feel I can't eat! Everyones is like, "oh, you can't eat that last little bit?" But, I just don't do it. Any ideas on why this is so normal for me?

I think it's normal. Im strange, I will spit out the last bite that I took into my napkin. Hahah nasty.

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I want to get my boyfriend a Valentine 1 radar detector, but I don't know if it's worth the money. Do they actually pay for a speeding ticket if you get one? and how reliable is it? I want to hear from people who have experience with this detector, not a website explaining how it works. The only websites I would actually take time going to are ones that have reviews on them. So, help?

My family just bought one, and it depends on where you buy one from. If you just kinda shop around for it you'll find one. Look on the boxes, some guarantee that they will pay for the ticket and if you get caught, they will also pay for traffic school. They are reliable and whenever the scanner hits it, it goes off.

Also, part of the comment below mine is false. Cops cannot give you a ticket for having the detector in your car.

Hope I helped:)

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Can someone show me a picture of what a blackhead looks like??? I'm confused as to what it is...

(like a zit)

http://www.laserhairandskin.ca/siteimages/L.D.Before.jpg

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hey 14 f
0k so my cable got disconnected. and my dad doesnt know when we will get it back. i really miss watching disney channel like hannah montana, switelife, thats so raven, u know stuff liek that. i really miss them is there anyway i can watch channels online? not counting youtube, or google video. i want to see the whole episodes. also, nickelodeon. lol. thanks lotttsss.

http://www.tv-links.co.uk/index.do/1

this website has some episodes of hannah montana, suite life of zach & cody.. other random shows haha.
hope i helped:)

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14/f

ok. i'm average in weight and stuff. but alot of the girls, or my friends, are super skinny, and i wanna lose like 10 pounds, just so i'm close to what they weigh, but i don't look anerexic like them. and we have this huge party coming up, and so yeah. i need to do it fast. like i kinda would like to lose 10 pounds in a week. i know thats tottalyyy unhealthy. but, i don't plan on doing this like 24/7 itll be like a one week thing. soooooo, any ideas?

ive lost 7 pounds in one week and its unhealthy but you can try the cabbage soup diet. cabbage soup tastes like crap but theres barely any calories or something like that.

Also Celery has like 7 calories a stalk.. try eating that as a snack.

Im sorry these foods are kinda nasty lol but you gotta do what you gotta do.

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anybody know any other sites instead of cosmogirls and seventeen. more for young adult not a teen.. nothing bad or anything. just something more then a teen

the-n.com
gurl.com
ummmm that is like all that i know lol im sorry i just go on myspace alot

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