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I am wondering why Planned Parenthood is telling me my tests are negative my period was 1 week late and then March 19th I got a spotting for one day then stopped. Ever since then I have been getting stomach pains not spotting at all.. Getting migranes and dizziness, My breasts are sore once and a while. Am I pregnant or Not? Ive been going to the Docters and they told me that they wont take a blood test because it was negative when they took a urine test. Can you please tell me whats up? I am going insane. Thanks. (link)
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See other Doctors you need more test.
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"Well, first of all, you do NOT want to answer any information about yourself that is personal and identifies who you are!"
what does that mean--- like "identifies" who i am?
whats that mean? (link)
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To identifies yoy're self means to say you're name or more information about you're self. Be carefull.
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one of my friends does pot, smokes cigarettes, and uses prescription drugs. her mom kicked her out of the house and her sister totally shut her out of her life right now.. so she really wants to get help. she cant do any kind of rehab, shes just looking for meetings to go to like AA, but for teen drug users and she wants me to go with her because she doesn't want to do it alone. where would we go about finding group meetings for this? thank you! (link)
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Look under the yellow pagese, call the Drug abuse line in you're city. (YOU BE CAREFULL DON'T GET INVOLVED IN DRUGS TO)
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theres a boy at school who just started talking to me and taking an interest in me. the thing is he only really talks to me online apart from the occasional passing comment. we only ever talk about school aswell. i can tell by his actions and stuff that he is interested in me. i like him to but i have no confidence and i dont know how to get to know him more, he has only started talking to me like in the last 2 months.
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What kind of help do you need, you just met the guy, get to know him then probably you will need some help.
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Me and my fiance are 25 years old. My ex-fiance and I split about 3 months ago. We have three children together, a 2 year old and 6 months old twins. We broke up over money issues, trust issues (from me finding a used condom in his laundry) and me going through some post-partum despression. He still doesn't have a job and comes over to watch the kids while I go to work, full time might I add. This morning when I was getting out of the shower getting ready for work I found a condom on the floor right in the middle of the hallway. I asked him about it and he said it wasn't his. I told him that we both knew it was his and he still denied it, saying that he never used that brand. I was pissed, so I went into my room to dress for work. I knocked on the door and confessed that it was his, duh. I asked him why did he have it and he said that he was saving it for us. We have not been together like that for months, and never used that brand. Why would he have denied it at first if there was nothing to hide???? What do I do? I am so stuck! (link)
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If you prefere to be stuck, all idecations point to another affair, what i cant understand is why he keeps loosing his condoms, he must be that stupid. His not for you.
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ok so i've been friends with this girl for 2 and a half years and we're really close and i've liked her for about that long too i've waited for my chance but everytime i would try someone would beat my to the punch and the same thing would happen everytime they'd end up cheating on her she always dates older guys which i think is stupid because they're more likely to cheat really anyways well she's been dating this one guy for about a year now and back in november they broke up and so and i told her how i felt about her but she was still unsure because she still had feelings for her ex so then about 3 weeks later they're back together and i was sad i didn't talk to her for about 7 months because i never saw but then finally i got to see her and surprisingly she was more friendlier than usual she gave me more attention than usual we run cross country together and she always wants me to run with her and one she texted me which she never does and then one she IMed me which she never does so i'm wondering did she miss me does hse have feelings for me o and she's still with that guy though too but is she finally starting to like me? (link)
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I can see you lack experience on what women are really about, you remind me of the movie (RUN FOREST) you figure out the rest, probably she has had more then her share of men, it's to a point to where men are just using her, and you will be one who will be hurt if you are serious about her and start dating her ,she might decide on another of her way's to see another man, be more aggresive and open to women. I don't know if you understand what's been happening with you're friend.
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So this summer i've been trying really hard to flatten up my stomach. The thing that bothers me is that my stomach has like two different forms. I guess that sounds weird but my lower stomach is bigger than my upper stomach so I have sort of a line going across my belly button that seperates the two. Its always been that way, so I was wondering what excersizes can I do to flatten my entire stomach?
Thanks.
Sorry if its kind of hard to understand. haha (link)
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I understand perfactly you have two stomachs and the bottob stomach is larger then the upperone, make sit-ups and take digestive capsuls reguraly, also try bicycle riding.
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so my boyfriend and i have been together for 6 months and he lost his cell phone so i have no way of calling him and talking unless he calls me and he goes on AIM once in awhile so its like we go 1- 3 days without talking and it drives me crazy he doesn't think there is anything wrong with that am i being stupid or is there really something wrong with that??
and another thing is he didn't necessarily accuse me but he asked if i have ever cheated on him.. he asked so randomly and i said no i haven't why would you even ask that? and he got all defensive and said hes been thinking about it for a long time and just needed to no if i have.. but it was so weird and then he told me he had to go.. so i asked if he cheated on me and he said of course not and then he just signed off.. without saying by or anything .. and he hasn't talked to me since and that was Tuesday .. does anyone have an advice on what i should do ? or say to him? (link)
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Not mush you can do if he is not honest, however you have an idea that there is something wron there and you can fell it, see what's next be aggresive????.
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Exqueese me about my speeling, not every one is as smart as you.
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okay so school is coming up and i have no job or money as yet. I've applied to over 20 places and none have called back as yet so the job thing is off the list for now. My mother wants me to babysit her friends kid while they go away for the weekend and i'm going to get paid $100.00, But the thing is that we don't have a relationship at all, we don't talk, she's always attacking me physically and verbally and whenever she wants her favours done, she uses me...i want to do it because atleast that's a start for me then my dad would give me some more money on top of that for school shopping but on the other hand; i don't want to do it because she's just using me..like she always does and i would have to ride in the car with her down there and that's gonna be sooo awkward..so would you do it? yes or no? your opinions are greatly appreciated..thanx:) (link)
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Fallow which ever is the best feeling for you to do.
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my period was 2 weeks late but i finally got it, its not its usual red color, its like....brown...does this mean anything? i remember it's never been this way before except for my very first period.
i've had my period since i was 11 and im 16 now..if that matters. (link)
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You're probably going through a change in you're period because of you're age, however you might be malnutrated.
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Would it be worth it to spend $40 dollars to get to New York to take this job as an extra? I'd get paid $150+ per day. but extras usually have very long hours. Also, I'm 16 so I'm starting school soon (September) where I probably can't do it other than Saturdays and Sundays... (link)
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You're sixteen you will have problem's getting someone to hire you, Stay home baby.
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Im a girl. Ive been with my boyfriend almost nine months. We are really close and a good sized part of our relationship is sexual and we like to try new things and experiment...
The last week or so he's been having problems keeping his manhood hard during sex. Theres no problem if i give him a handjob or oral; it stays perfectly hard but once we start having sex it gets soft after like fourty seconds. its really dissapointing.
i confronted him about it and he said hes been tired lately from working out and that lately durring sex he's been thinking about it getting soft and he thinks about it so much it just gets soft.
is there anything i can do to make it so he stays hard the whole time? im open to anything. (link)
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You might be heading for loosing you're boyfriend. it just dosen;t sound honest.
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does the first time for a girl hurt?
i thought it was supposed to feel good..?
just wondering, thanks!
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Yes it is suppose to hurt for the first time, however you have a lot of time bef:
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Hello, I am dealing with a woman who is crazy!! She is my Kid's stepmom. The kids are 2 girls 9 and 11 and one boy age 8.
Problem is she is way overly sexual toward my kids verbally. And now sexually. I found out from my daughter today that the stepmom and her father went on a camping trip with their combined 7 kids all in one tent. They had loud motion filled sex in front of the kids while they were supposed to be sleeping!!! My two daughters described it all to my horror. Is this illegal? They have sex with their bedroom door open. Her rules are always open doors, because bad things happen when doors are closed. She told my daughter all animals go to hell when they die.She told them a man may rape you and rape is when they have sex with you , and are sick of raping you and kill you when they are done with you. She talks about their sex life while driving in the car. Her oldest daughter talks openly about blow jobs and oral sex on women and she is 12. They go down the road having open sex talks!!! What happened to singing or talking about the disney channel?The list goes on and on. The woman is a 2 time convicted felon for child endangering and robbery and a 3 time misdemeanor for shoplifting. Their father is now brainwashed by her and hasnt seen his kids in 2 months. I live in a nice home with a wonderful fiance and a perfect home life filled with love. I am afraid that a judge is going to make me send the kids to him eventually . I have custody, he has visitation. Any legal advice? Any pschological input on crazy?? Thanks!! (link)
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Before she ruins you're family it'e better to take steps to get this women out of the way, she is defenatly abusing the children in a serious way. take legal steps and try to fix the problem fast, this person's conversation's don't sound sane.
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Lately, I've been feeling like I've been wasting my time if I'm not out with friends or something. And for some reason (I think the two may be connected) I also feel empty and miserable after reading. I'm a huge Harry Potter fan, the kinds that spend time on the online forums and all that. But I've been unable to enjoy fanfiction because finishing it makes me feel.. sad. I haven't pinpointed the emotion, or the cause, but I feel kinda down. I just finished the Twilight series, which was pretty good, but now I can't stop moping around the house.
At first I blamed it on the happy ending: I told myself I was sad that such a thing didn't exist. It only seems to happen when I'm not busy, like when I have nothing to do. Any idea what's wrong with me? I want to be able to enjoy Twilight! (link)
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For one reason or another you are lacking happiness, you must explore what it might be the reason you feel that way, only you can get to the problem if you thke other steps in life.
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I was just wondering if there is any risk/danger I should be aware about because I feel dizzy, nausea stuff like that.. should I do something or just rest? (link)
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You're information is not enough to figure someting out, however call you're doctor you're probably having a bad reaction.
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I'm a junior in high school, Yep, you guessed it, im a girl. THIS question is for all you football players out there. I plan on trying out for my football team my senior year. It really means a lot to me that i make the team...Any 'excersizes', or drills that you would suggest for me to practice?
Thanks in advance everyone! :)
~Gina (link)
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Gina, Gina, Gina, exercise in the kitchen and stay away from football, you might get a serious injury and you don't want that.
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I don't know where else to go to ask. I'm going to warn you now that this is probably going to be very long, but I would really and truly appreciate any advice, even if it's not what you think I want to hear.
First of all, I have a weird relationship/set-up with my dad. I'm going to try to simplify it as much as I possibly can.. My mom left when I was a baby and I have lived with my grandmother ever since. My dad has almost always been a part of my life. He's a great guy, he's my best friend, he makes me laugh more than anyone I know, he does things that a dad is supposed to do. The thing is, his presence is my life is very coming and going. Once, I didn't hear from him for a year.
He reappeared when I was fourteen. I just turned eighteen and he has been around for about four years. He's still married to the same woman he was when he left. I love her very much. She's generous and sweet, but sometimes I feel like she is forcing herself to like me. We go places together (without my dad) like the movies, the hair salon, etc. She takes me to work with her. Everything like that.
I see both of them every day. They're probably both my closest friends, and not by default. I love seeing them. I want to stress how close of a relationship I have with them.
The thing is, I'm not really open with anybody about my feelings. I usually bottle them up and then cry about them later, and then I get over it. So I have a hard time telling my stepmom when I feel like she doesn't really love me, and an even harder time telling my dad that I worry he's going to leave me again.
Next month, they're going to London without me. It's not an intimate trip, believe me. My stepmom is going for her job and she wants my dad to go with her. My dad and I share of a love of anything British. The three of us do things together all the time. I don't understand why I wasn't invited. It's not a money issue, either.
I don't want to sound bratty or selfish, so I really hope that I don't. I can't help it that my feelings are hurt. Not only am I being excluded from something that I really, really, REALLY want to do, I'm also going to miss them if they leave me behind for a week. But I'm afraid to talk with them about it.
Please give me any advice, any at all. Thank you so much if you actually took the time to read this, I know it was probably really boring. (link)
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No it wasn't boring at all you sound like a very lovable honest person, ask you're father with out any fear if there is a problem that they didn't invite you to go with them, it's simple tell him you would like to go with them if it's possable, could be because it's mainly a business trip could be the reason you woren't invited, in any event it don't hut to ask. Good Luck.
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So the guy I'm talking to is a little mad at me, for reasons that I fully take blame for. I've apologized but he doesn't think I'm really sorry. I'll be seeing him at his graduation party where there will be family, mine and his, how would I be able to catch his attention and make him sure I was truly sorry? (link)
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IT depends on what you did wrong, you should know on you're mistake. only by going and confront him you will find out.
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me and my boyfriend had sex and we did do it protected and then we used 3 condoms and then the last time we didnt fully have sex he stuck it in to see what it would feel like and even pulled it out and kept checking for precum.... am i safe ughh i know that was really stupid but shouild i worry? he was really careful and kept checking and even pulled out before he got any hard that time.. im still worrying (link)
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No that wasn't safe, time will tell.
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