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Ex-fiance "wanting to work things out"


Question Posted Saturday August 9 2008, 12:31 am

Me and my fiance are 25 years old. My ex-fiance and I split about 3 months ago. We have three children together, a 2 year old and 6 months old twins. We broke up over money issues, trust issues (from me finding a used condom in his laundry) and me going through some post-partum despression. He still doesn't have a job and comes over to watch the kids while I go to work, full time might I add. This morning when I was getting out of the shower getting ready for work I found a condom on the floor right in the middle of the hallway. I asked him about it and he said it wasn't his. I told him that we both knew it was his and he still denied it, saying that he never used that brand. I was pissed, so I went into my room to dress for work. I knocked on the door and confessed that it was his, duh. I asked him why did he have it and he said that he was saving it for us. We have not been together like that for months, and never used that brand. Why would he have denied it at first if there was nothing to hide???? What do I do? I am so stuck!

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Trauma answered Saturday August 9 2008, 7:26 am:
To me, it sounds like he hasn't changed much since the first time you two were together. If he didn't have anything to hide he wouldn't have lied.

And honestly, he really shouldn't even be lying to you.

If I were you, I'd leave him before you get your heart broken again. Some guys just never change.

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HEALER answered Saturday August 9 2008, 2:45 am:
If you prefere to be stuck, all idecations point to another affair, what i cant understand is why he keeps loosing his condoms, he must be that stupid. His not for you.


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