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He cant keep it up...
Im a girl. Ive been with my boyfriend almost nine months. We are really close and a good sized part of our relationship is sexual and we like to try new things and experiment...
The last week or so he's been having problems keeping his manhood hard during sex. Theres no problem if i give him a handjob or oral; it stays perfectly hard but once we start having sex it gets soft after like fourty seconds. its really dissapointing.
i confronted him about it and he said hes been tired lately from working out and that lately durring sex he's been thinking about it getting soft and he thinks about it so much it just gets soft.
is there anything i can do to make it so he stays hard the whole time? im open to anything.
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Have you thought about having less sex?
The most likely explination for this, is that he really is tired, but feels obligated to have the same ammount of sex with you as before. Even men get less interested in sex when they are exhausted and stressed out. If he has a lot of other things on his plate right now, he might just honestly not be that into sex with anyone right now.
This is something you can't 'confront' a guy about. You'll never get an honest answer that way.
Ask about the issue in a friendly way. Stress that you are worried about him, not judging him. Ask him if his masturbation habits have changed. Ask him if there is anything else he'd like to try. ASK HIM if he just wants to snuggle for a while.
Yes, even guys just want to snuggle sometimes.
There is no sure fire way to keep him hard. Just be open and listen to what he wants. Sometimes all that effort and expectation only makes things worse.
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You might be heading for loosing you're boyfriend. it just dosen;t sound honest.
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