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first time


Question Posted Friday August 8 2008, 1:11 am

does the first time for a girl hurt?
i thought it was supposed to feel good..?
just wondering, thanks!
13/f

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Cux answered Friday August 8 2008, 2:11 pm:
I've heard it hurts so bad that people have stopped having sex all together as teenagers, and they are scared that they will have children, so they are abstaining until they are adults.

Okay so I'm kidding, but as much as I would like that to be the truth, it's not.

Yes, it does often hurt the first few times, especially for a girl. There's really nothing you can do about that. Sorry =/.

--Jack
(16/m)

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Melody answered Friday August 8 2008, 1:46 pm:
The first time is different for everyone. It depends on many things. But regardless, it doesn't hurt as bad as childbirth. It does hurt though, so I wouldn't consider it until you're older.

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orphans answered Friday August 8 2008, 10:04 am:
Ok, like the others both said, you are technically way too young to even be considering sex

but it really does depend on the girl. My first time was... uncomfortable, i wouldn't say it was as bad as childbirth or anything like that. But because i love the guy i lost my virginity to things seemed a lot easier and less painful. I'm not going to lie and say that it didn't hurt, but it really didn't take long for the pain to go away.

Don't worry about the pain, if the moment and time's right then the thought of pain won't even cross your mind.

Should you decide to have sex, make sure that you are 100% ready. Make sure you trust and feel comfortable with the guy. and that you use protection.

Stay safe!

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LiLMAMAx answered Friday August 8 2008, 3:45 am:
You're 13, you have years to go before you have to even think about sex.

But, just for your sake ;]
It does hurt, REALLY bad. Probably the worst pain aside from giving birth. I don't recommend it.

x0*-Bryttnii.

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HEALER answered Friday August 8 2008, 3:37 am:
Yes it is suppose to hurt for the first time, however you have a lot of time bef:




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