Melody answered Friday August 8 2008, 1:46 pm: The first time is different for everyone. It depends on many things. But regardless, it doesn't hurt as bad as childbirth. It does hurt though, so I wouldn't consider it until you're older. [ Melody's advice column | Ask Melody A Question ]
orphans answered Friday August 8 2008, 10:04 am: Ok, like the others both said, you are technically way too young to even be considering sex
but it really does depend on the girl. My first time was... uncomfortable, i wouldn't say it was as bad as childbirth or anything like that. But because i love the guy i lost my virginity to things seemed a lot easier and less painful. I'm not going to lie and say that it didn't hurt, but it really didn't take long for the pain to go away.
Don't worry about the pain, if the moment and time's right then the thought of pain won't even cross your mind.
Should you decide to have sex, make sure that you are 100% ready. Make sure you trust and feel comfortable with the guy. and that you use protection.
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