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would you do it? yes or no?


Question Posted Thursday August 7 2008, 6:41 pm

okay so school is coming up and i have no job or money as yet. I've applied to over 20 places and none have called back as yet so the job thing is off the list for now. My mother wants me to babysit her friends kid while they go away for the weekend and i'm going to get paid $100.00, But the thing is that we don't have a relationship at all, we don't talk, she's always attacking me physically and verbally and whenever she wants her favours done, she uses me...i want to do it because atleast that's a start for me then my dad would give me some more money on top of that for school shopping but on the other hand; i don't want to do it because she's just using me..like she always does and i would have to ride in the car with her down there and that's gonna be sooo awkward..so would you do it? yes or no? your opinions are greatly appreciated..thanx:)

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1989love answered Friday August 15 2008, 5:14 pm:
i would do it becouse it's not your mom's kids it's her friends kids and your mom's friend is paying you.

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HEALER answered Friday August 8 2008, 3:54 am:
Fallow which ever is the best feeling for you to do.



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LiLMAMAx answered Friday August 8 2008, 3:39 am:
Well, technically she isn't using you if she pays you to babysit. Considering you could use the money for school, I would do it. But if it bothers you this much then after this I wouldn't do nothing for her. Why is your mother friends with her in the first place if this GROWN woman is attacking her daughter like that? When you say physically, you mean hitting you and stuff? If not, that's what physically means just so you know. But, I would do it if you really wanted the money. If not, I suggest you don't do it. If it was me, I wouldn't do it unless I absolutely needed the money. But then again, money isn't worth being treated like dirt by someone like that.

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x0*-Bryttnii.

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