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boy at school likes me
18/f
theres a boy at school who just started talking to me and taking an interest in me. the thing is he only really talks to me online apart from the occasional passing comment. we only ever talk about school aswell. i can tell by his actions and stuff that he is interested in me. i like him to but i have no confidence and i dont know how to get to know him more, he has only started talking to me like in the last 2 months.
help?
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having previously been in a similar situation, i want to point out that there might be more to it than you see.
despite how over-rated the whole getting to know each other on the internet seems, it can often tell a lot about a person. seeing how this was his choice of communication, tells that he might also lack confidence and be a bit shy himself.
however, considering you already know that he is interested in you there is not much of a reason on your behalf to not have confidence.
my suggestion to you if you would like to take things further you could start by taking the whole school topic to the next level maybe. ask him about other interests he has or what he likes do with his spare time maybe? if all goes well maybe you two may have a few things in common.
by bringing conversation to the next level and finding things you guys have in common this will most likely open both of you up more and the talking will come about more easily. aslo, if you are the one to make the next move by taking the conversation further he might feel more comfortable and he maybe it will give him the confidence to come up to you in school.
i hope my advice helps! and good luck with whatever happens!
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If he only wants to talk about school, why not try to guide the conversation towards other things, like ask him what kind of music he likes, his hobbies, and things like that. That way you'll know a little more about him.
If you keep having casual conversations like that, eventually you'll start to get more comfortable with each other, so he might actually make a move, or maybe you'll get the confidence to make the first move.
Good luck.
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What kind of help do you need, you just met the guy, get to know him then probably you will need some help.
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