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I love giving advice & I think I'm pretty good at it. I can get along with almost anyone unless they piss me off. I adore Hollister, it's my favorite store ever. I'm not a girly girl but I'm not a tomboy either. I don't wear any make-up at all, I don't like it. I hate it when girls wear way too much of it, it's.. ew. I'm a pretty big goofball & I love making people laugh. I'm not very mature, either. Love me or hate me, I'll still be me & I won't change for anyone.


I have a lot in common with people but I'm still different. I'm not stuck up & I like making new friends. I have a lot of them but I have no idea what I'd do without my best friends. I don't judge people by the way they dress, their personality is what gets me.


Music takes up a huge part of my life. I listen to pretty much anything & everything. Literally, you name it.. I probably like it. I love romantic songs & songs that make me wanna dance. :D


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advice

Alright...Im a 15/f
I have a boyfriend of almost 4 months now. and known eachother since 7th grade.
I love him....
i just dont know if i like him.
When i talk to him....Sometimes i get pissed off and he hasnt really even done anything im just sick of talking to him. and then theres times where he deserves me to be mad at him and i just cant be.

I have no idea what to do!!!
Break up or not?

If you have these feelings for him, the best thing you can do is break up with him. Don't feel bad about it because it happens in a lot of teenage relationships. If you keep leading him on, than he's gonna think think that you still like him & than he'll probably be more hurt. So if you're going to break up with him, do it soon.

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me and my bf have been dating for 3 months today! and i love him... i really do! and he loves me too! we pretty much been each others first for everything! first real love you know? and well we talked about having sex tomorrow and i really want to but i want peoples oppinions! i'm 14 and he is 16 but we are both fish in highschool!

also how much does it bleed when a boy "pops your cherry"?!

Oh geez girl, you're way too young. Yes, a lot of people do lose their virginity in high school but not many do when they're 14. If you want our opinions on if you should do it or not, you're not ready to lose it. You guys haven't been going out for very long either, three months isn't a long time at all. Just wait for a while until you guys are in a serious relationship, like about a year or so, than you can both can talk this over again. If something happens between now & about a year that causes you guys to break up, than you'll be thankful that you didn't lose your virginity to him. You'd more than likely regret it & think to yourself that you should have waited.

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When you get asked out on a date or asked to go out with someone... how would you say 'yes'?

Would it be like 'yeah sure' or what?

I'd just simply say yes, I'd love to, or deffinately. If you were being asked face to face, then I'd smile while telling the person your response.

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Hi, Im 15 I was thinking I would wear a mini jean skirt, brown leggings, brown uggs, a redish low cute shirt with a pink tank top under the shirt. I would wear this to school. Do you think this sounds ok to wear or is it to weird. If you think its weird can you give me advice on how to make it look cool.

I would change the red & pink top to something brown so it matches your leggings & uggs. Black & white go with anything, too, so if you don't have anything brown, those could be your alternatives. I think it'd be a very cute outfit. :]

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is acne a hudge turn off.. or does it realy matter.. im wondering



15/m

Some people take acne as a huge turn off & others don't really care about it. It all depends on the person & how they feel about acne.

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There is this kid and he really likes me. He says im beautiful and pretty and all this other stuff. Now.. he asked me out and i kinda said yes cuz i didnt want to be mean. but i dont really like him, like he has nice abs and he's a nice person, but i dont really like him,... if you know what i mean. What do i do? i already said yes... and i've never been on a date before. im a little nervous. :( ugh! i have no clue what to do...fake sick maybe? lol

Just give him a chance. See how it goes on your first date & if it's not that great, you could break it off with him & tell him you liked it better when you were friends. If the date went well & you start liking him, hang on to him for a while & see how things go.

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Will eating LOTS of carbs in one day cause diabetes? Usually, I watch my carbs pretty closely except probably one day a week. I don't exercise too much. I'm 16 year old female, and my parents or siblings don't have diabetes.

Diabetes is mostly hereditary so I'm sure eating carbs won't lead to diabetes, just be careful though. Eating sweets & the wrong kind of food does NOT cause diabetes but it causes obiesity & it's associated with people developing Type 2 diabetes.

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15/f
When ever I have a boyfriend, I don't tell my mom. I just feel like she wouldn't understand. That maybe she won't let me hang out with him anymore, or something like that. She's a really cool mom, I just don't want to her to treat me different. I love hanging out with my boyfriend, but I just don't tell my mom who is he. She just thinks he's a friend. So should I tell my mom about my boyfriend or just let it go? How should I tell her, that would make her understand?

Thanks alot, love your advice, its amazing [xox]

Aw, thank you. =] Whenever I got a new boyfriend, I never told my mom until a few weeks later because I also felt like she wouldn't understand either. If your mom's a really cool person then I'm pretty sure she wouldn't treat you any differently. My mom was happy for me when she found out I had a boyfriend & I'm sure your mom would be happy, too. I think you should tell your mom you have a boyfriend but don't bring it up out of no where. The next time she brings your boyfriend up in a normal conversation, just tell her that he's your boyfriend. Good luck babe, everything will be fine. ♥ ♥

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Tonight, I'm going to the movies with my boyfriend but my parents are driving us. When we drop him off, do I walk him to the door? Or do I just stay in the car? I wasn't sure if the girl walks him up there too .. ?

Thanks!!

Whenever my boyfriend & I would go to a movie & my parents had to take him home, I walked him to the door. It shows that you care about him & you boyfriend would think it'd be very sweet, so don't stay in the car. Have fun on your date!

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For Christmas I want an Ipod or mp3 player. But Im not sure which one to get. I understand that an Ipod is the name brand of the mp3 player. I just want a small that could hold about 200 songs. So could someone please let me know what i should get.

iPod Nano's can hold at least 200 songs & the bigger iPod's can hold up to 1,000 songs & you can put videos on those. An mp3 player costs about as much as an iPod Nano but I think mp3 player's are a little harder to understand. My friend said you can't shuffle songs or search for songs on an mp3 player, you use it a lot differently then you would an iPod. So, I'd deffinately pick an iPod over a mp3 player.

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Can someone give me some bands that play a large amount of accoustic songs? I'd greatly appriciate it. :] I don't care if they're a big band or not. Thank you!

The Scene Aesthetic, Matchbook Romance, The Spill Canvas, & The Plain White T's. They're all amazing. =]

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15/M Is it normal for a 15 year old guy to never have had a girlfriend? I have plenty of chances; I'm not desperate or anything. Girls say that I am cute or hot, and I talk to girls regularly. But I don't think that I am ready to have a girlfriend yet because I still act very immature, and I don't think that girls like that. I look phyically mature, but I'm not really emotionally mature. I mean, I don't act like that when I'm with them. Of course I want a girlfriend, but I know that I am not ready for it. But back to my question, is it normal for a 15 year old boy to never have had a girlfriend?

Yes, it is normal for a 15 year old boy to never have a girlfriend. If you're not ready to have a girlfriend yet that's perfectly fine. When you're ready to have one, you'll do great. You have nothing to worry about.

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19/F

My mom called me this morning to tell me that my dog was at the veterinary clinic all last night, and that he's dying of kidney failure or cancer. They've decided to put him to sleep today.

I feel really guilty because I haven't been home for a month, so I haven't seen my dog. I really want to be there to say goodbye to him, but I can't go back to my parents' house until this coming weekend.

Does anyone have any advice on how to get through this? I feel like I've lost my best friend.

I'm so sorry, I went through the same thing & it sucks because I grew up with my dog & she's been gone now for 3 years because she died from cancer & I still miss her so much but there's a couple things you could do to get through this. Talk about your dog with your family & friends, make a photo album of your dog, & put flowers on his grave. Don't feel bad because you've been gone though, it's not your fault.. things just happen.

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-- I'm currently 32 years of age.
-- Obviously, a female.
-- I have a cup size of AA.
-- I am very embarrassed.
-- And this is where you fall into place.
-- I need an IN-HOME REMEDY or MAKE YOURSELF
CREAM or something to increase my cup size.
-- Buying something is not an option.
-- Thanks in advance.

I'm sorry but there's nothing you can do to make your cup size bigger. Your cup size shouldn't matter to you so don't let it get to you. As long as you're confident, you don't need big boobs to get anyone's attention.

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Okay..I Like dis Guy But he dated my friend and my sisters bestfriend and he broke up with her lastnight at the club or whatever so we danced and you know how you get that stupid feeling and that stupid look in your eyes and you all just kiss? well that happened to me but we didnt kiss i told him he dated my friend. and i mean i relly like dis guy but friends are better than any guy but i dunno i mean i like him what do i do?

If you're friends with your sister's best friend, then I think you should talk to her before you go out with that guy. If she really liked him, then you're going to end up hurting her. If she does still like him, I think you should move on to another guy or wait till she likes a new guy but if she said she doesn't like him anymore, then go for it.

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ok so this year me and my ex have 2 classes together and whenever im around him all my old feelings for him come back. We broke up a long time ago, and we remind friends but he to told me that all of the old feelings are coming back. we joke around and hang out and we get along great....but im not sure ifwe should get back together. We roke up because I moved away...but then i moved back and we said that we should be friends but now we both want more. Should I get back together with him or no? Any help would be amazing.

Aw, you guys only broke up because you moved away & now you're back & you guys don't fight or anything so I think getting back together would be great for you two since he said his old feelings are coming back for you & you want to get back together with him. I hope everything works out for you, good luck!

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Everyone says American Eagle is the best store, but personally I hate it. All of their t-shirts are basically the same things with different words and colors. A lot of their clothes are really bad quality. I bought a cami from there once and I only wore it once and a HUGE hole ripped and I wasn't even running around or anything. It may be a little cheaper then Abercrombie & Fitch or Hollister, but atleast if you buy something from A&F or Hollister, you know the clothes are going to last. American Eagle's clothes arn't the most attractive things, and they look cheap. What do you think about AE?

I don't think American Eagle's clothes are the greatest either. I bought a jacket from there & I only wore it a few times & now there's a hole at the end of one of the sleeves. After that, I haven't really gotten anything from there. Hollister has cheap material for their clothes, too, but my clothes from there don't rip or anything. I think Hollister's clothes & Abercrombie's clothes look a lot better & more fashionable then American Eagle's.

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I want to whiten my teeth because they are a little dull. I heard that some whitening products can ruin and damage you teeth or your teeth enamel. My question is what brands or whitening strips or toothpastes do you reccomend? thanks. :]]

A lot of my friends use Crest Whitening Strips & they say it works really good.

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Me and my ex-boyfriend (first love) might try to try it again and see if it works this time. I still love and care about him. But there's another guy who I like and he likes me as well and wants to be with me. He hasn't caused me nearly as much pain as my ex (actually he hasn't caused me any) but I don't know who to choose or what to do? I love my ex even though it's been over a year since we broke up, but I also am starting to catch feelings for this new guy. Please help me . I will rate

I think you should go out with the guy that never hurt you before & give him a chance. My ex-boyfriend (( who was my first love, too )) & I went out twice but he always ended it even thought I still loved him & he broke my heart. We only went out for a few months but I decided to get over him because if he keeps hurting me, then what's the point of keep going out with him & being upset after every break-up. Then my boyfriend now came along & I learned to love him & I got over my ex. I know I love my boyfriend because he never hurts me & he's just good to me. I've been with him for over a year. If your ex hurt you before, then he'll more then likely hurt you again. You can always learn to love the new guy.

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ok so there is this guy that i like and he likes me, but i dont think his parents like me, they dont really seem like the kind of parents that like his friends and ive been to his house before and there not like overly friendly. Hes not like one of those losers either whos parents dont like him dateing, he gets in trouble for having partys and stuff like that. He allways says that he hates his mom but like idk. I want to go out with him but im scared that if his parents dont like me it wont work. I was wondering if anyone has gone out with someone there parents didn't like or the person they went out with parents didn't like them. please help:(

Since you both like each other, I think you should both go out because it's both of your decisions, not his parents. My boyfriend's step-dad doesn't like my boyfriend's brother's girlfriend [ if that makes sense ] & she knows it but she just ignores their step-dad. My boyfriend's brother & his girlfriend have been together for almost a year, they don't care what the step-dad thinks. I'm pretty sure my mom doesn't like my boyfriend, but I love him, & she can't make me leave him because it's my choice, not hers. I've been with him for over a year & I couldn't be happier.

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