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What do I do?
There is this kid and he really likes me. He says im beautiful and pretty and all this other stuff. Now.. he asked me out and i kinda said yes cuz i didnt want to be mean. but i dont really like him, like he has nice abs and he's a nice person, but i dont really like him,... if you know what i mean. What do i do? i already said yes... and i've never been on a date before. im a little nervous. :( ugh! i have no clue what to do...fake sick maybe? lol
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I would just go on a date with him. I mean, it IS just one date ; it's not like he's going to fall in love with you and ask you to marry him, haha.
That way also, just have a nice time and enjoy yourself. But then after the dates over ( this is whenever you feel comfortabel telling him over IM, note, phone, face-to-face, whichever ) just let him know that you had a great time the other night, but you sort of just got friendly vibes between the two of you, and were hoping maybe you guys could just be friends.
I wouldn't lie and make up excuses like fake illness. If he were to ever found out, it'd just make him feel hurt and feel like nobody likes him and feels the need to LIE to him to get out of hanging out with him.
I hope I helped.
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Since you said yes, go on a date with him. One date doesn't mean that you're boyfriend and girlfriend. You don't have to like him to hang out with him. Give him a chance. Maybe you'll see something in him that you never saw before. Just think of it as going someplace with a friend and you'll be fine. It really is no different. If he tries to hold your hand or kiss you, just say no if you're not comfortable. It won't hurt his feelings if you do. In the future, know that it's much much more mean to say you'll go on a date and not than to just say no in first place. Respect yourself. If he asks you to go on a second date, you'll know what to do. Tell him the truth. Good luck. I'm sure it will be a good time. :)
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Just give him a chance. See how it goes on your first date & if it's not that great, you could break it off with him & tell him you liked it better when you were friends. If the date went well & you start liking him, hang on to him for a while & see how things go.
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