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alright, i'm 14 years old and i'm around.. 5'3" or possibly 5'4" and im about 106lbs. I'm just asking.. is that really skinny? I mean, I have like, real high metabolism ( both my parents have it ) and all my friends say I'm too skinny and that I need to gain some weight. I'm just having some trouble. How would I go about doing that? Cause I'm not gonna sit there and like, pig out till' i die. I just don't want people thinking i'm anorexic or something. I mean I'm really not that skinny. I think I'm averagley skinny. =/ I don't know. Please help.




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Sad to be skinny

Hey. Okay i went to www.am-i-fat.com and it says you're thin. And you should eat more. Try to gain 4 lbs. I know it sounds weird but i put in 5'3 106 lbs., it says you're thin. I put in 110 and 5'3 and it says perfect score.

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i have these videogame cd's that have scratches on them and they dont work. do those scratch remover kits work?
how much are they and where can i get them?
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Yea, they do work!! At least for me... And o0o yea, you can get them at places like best buy.

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Ok I have a like dark brown color of hair but i have a little bit of blonde in it too. It is medium length. I was just wondering if anyone could tell me what color of highlights would look good in it? I rate high to all.

I think a VERY light brown or maybe dirty blonde highlights.

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I just recently became a columnist and I went to go look at the list of the other columnists. I noticed that most of the others have rating stars next to their name. What are these for? Do I not have them because I'm relatively new?

The stars are ratings. And since you're new you dont have one. You must have gotten 5 (sometimes more, i dont why) feedback points for them to average out your rating.
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Today is health we learned about boners and such. The problem is my health teacher confused me. She explained boners which I fully understand but then she said that an organism is the same. However, last year and the year before that we learned an organism can only be obtained from having sex. So now I'm confused. Can someone explain this to me?

I think you meant orgasm. Well anyway, an orgasm can be reached by other things besides sex. Such as masterbation.
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how old should you be before having sex.

Ready enough to know all the risks, and that you do it because you love that person. Ready enough to tell your parents about it. Ready enough to use a condom properly or else....

You my friend, are not ready.

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do u think its ok for someone who is fourteen to hide a boyfriend from there parents i dont have one yet but in the futrue is it ok because i think my parents dont want me to have one but is it ok because its wut teenages do

You shouldn't do it because 'teenagers do it', do it only if your parents dont let you date a guy you like. Thats the only way i think its okay.
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I want to have an awesome New Year's party, but I've only had one good party before (out of 1, so all my parties are H-O-T.)

I need tips on everything from food to who to invite (how many people) I don't want it to be a boring party, but I don't want a loud party either.

I am 14 and I don't quite know if I want guys to come or not.

I absoloutely think you should invite guys!! They are the most important part. The kissing games. I have some games you can play. The following games are good: (i got this games off of virtualkiss.com)
1. Survivor Kisses

Things you'll need:
- equal number of boys and girls
- paper and pencils
- 2 hats or other collection devices

How to play:
First, divide everyone into teams by sex (ie. boys vs. girls).Next, every person from each team must kiss every person on the other team... (ie. every girl must kiss every boy). This can be organized however you like... each pair goes to a different room or closet for 2 minutes, everyone kisses right there and then, etc.Once everyone has kissed, everyone secretly writes their vote for the worst kisser on the other team on a piece of paper and puts it in their team hat. These votes are then counted, and the 2 people (one from each team) with the most votes are 'Voted Off the Island' and have to sit out. Throw out all those votes, and do the whole process again...Once there are only 2 boys and 2 girls left, they are the winners. Everyone that was voted out then votes for who should be paired with who. Then, each pair gets 7 minutes in heaven or some other reward.

2. Animal Kisses

Things You Will Need:
1 Stuffed Animal

How to play:
Everyone playing sits in a circle, alternating boy/girl/boy/girl. Start with one person in the circle, and give them the stuffed animal. Each person in the circle has to kiss some part of the animal, then pass it to the next person. No part can be repeated!Once the animal has made it around the circle, it is put aside. Now the person running the game tells the group that they must now kiss the person sitting to their right (or in the same direction that the animal was passed) in the EXACT SAME place they kissed the animal. This can be a real surprise to those who have never played this game...This game generally only works once, since the surprise factor is part of what makes it fun. However, feel free to try to mix up the game to keep it going. For example, first make the players kiss the animal, then mix the circle up randomly so they don't know who they will have to kiss!


3.Kissing WhoDunnit

Things you'll need:
- blindfolds (optional)
- slips of paper for everyone who is playing
(one will have a "K" on it, the rest will be blank... or say whatever you want. The important thing is that one slip denotes the 'Kisser')

How to play:
One person is chosen as the 'Mediator' for the round... each round it will be someone different. At the beginning of the round, the Mediator gives everyone a piece of paper... each of which is blank, except for the 1 that has a "K" on it (for "Kisser"... duh!). Alternately, everyone can draw their piece out of a hat to keep things on the up and up. Everyone is to keep their paper secret, so no one knows who the Kisser is for that round.Once the 'game pieces' have been passed out, everyone closes their eyes (or puts on a blindfold). Then the chosen Kisser kisses everyone of the opposite sex (or same sex... we don't care). Once that is completed, everyone opens their eyes/removes their blindfolds, and proceeds to guess who the kisser was that round. This can be done by secret ballot, or out in the open. The Mediator tallies the votes, and records who was correct with their guess.Those that choose the right Kisser receive the prize of your choice, or get a point or some other reward. For the next round, the 'Kisser' becomes the 'Mediator,' so everyone gets a chance to play.

Okay, those were some kissing games if you choose to invite boys :D

Here are some other thing you can do:
play spin the bottle, truth or dare, prank call people, play ding dong ditch, or just throw food/eggs at peoples/enimies houses for the fun of it!! :D

Some food you can have at your party:
Chips, Pizza, Pretzels, Candy, Cupcakes, Cake, and other small food.

You could invite about 12 people. (Keep in mind that if you wanna play those kissing games, you should have the same number of boys and girls)

Dont forget the music!! Usually when i throw a party i ask everyone to vote on all kinds of things like what kind of pizza, chips, what games to play, and what music to play. You can do the same so everyone has fun! :D

If you want the party to be EXTRA special you could hire a preffesional dj. Some are expensive.... if you dont want to spend too much money then dont do this, lol.


Have Fun!!!

♥ Melissa
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ok im being a naughty school girl! and well i dont no how to do my makeup any ideas my skirts i plaid red and black with a white top...i have no clue how to do my make up? plz help fast!

You could wear red lipstick, heavy black dark eyeliner, mascara, light pink blush, and blue eyeshadow (really lighty though)

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In the 5th grade, I called my friend a biotch because she was being one. The problem was I didn't really know what a biotch was. Then she told her mom and her mom got mad. Now I am going tricker treating with her tonite and she said that her mom was not mad at me anymore. But I am still nervous! What do I do? Should I tell her mom it was all a mistake or should I wait for her mom to bring it up?if she does talk about it, what do I say??? please help me~!!!

i will give a 5 to anyone who trys to answer this 1!!



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Her mom probably is over it by now. Dont say anything unless she brings it up. If she brings it up say "Im really sorry and i didnt knowwhat bioctch meant back then."

Good Luck
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ok so everyone at my school wears a thong. Tey tell me that wearing a thong is sexxy and it makes you cool.Well i tryed one on and i hated it. I could not stand it!! So I dont wear thongs. Not wearing one makes me look like a loser and i know im not one. plz help me and tell me if im sounding like a loser or if thats normal?

Its normal. Not everyone likes thongs. If you dont want to show up as a loser dont tell them you dont. If they ask say you do. Otherwise dont say anything.

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Hey,
I'm having a Halloween party tomorrow night. There are seven of us and it's in my house followed by a sleepover. We are all dressed up and set to go trick or treating but the forecast is rain!! If it rains really awfully we can't go out (we will if it's drizzle or just light though) as we all already have colds and stuff thanks to this lovely British weather!
My question is: do any of you wonderful people have any wonderful ideas as to what we can do if it DOES rain for the entire duration of the party? We are all sixteen, but please no 'just put on some music!' suggestions because that's boring! We don't mind being a little silly and acting like kids. We have already decided on movies, twister in costume, eating donuts hanging from the ceiling (VERY DIFFICULT!) and hide and seek in the dark. Can you think of anything else?

You can watch scary movies, prank call people, play truth or dare, spin the bottle, pin the nose on michael jackson ((hahah!!!!)), and 7 minutes in heaven.

♥ Melissa
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hey guys.
i'm going to be turning 15 in december, and in january i plan on applying for a job. any ideas where i could work? do you have to be 16 to be a waitress at an actual restaurant? thanks a bunch!

Most jobs such as working at a fast food restuarant like McDonalds will let you work at the age of 15. You could work there... but it'll be hard to get hired at an early age like that.

Good Luck
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I'm 15/f.
Usually a couple days before I start my period, I get this feeling like I really want to beat someone up that I hate. Lol, it's really weird. I'm not psycho or anything. I'm a really really happy person usually, and I'm super nice. It's just like 5 days or so before I start my period I just want to beat someone up. Is this normal? Does anyone else feel like this?

Lol. Yea its normal. Its called PMS. You get all moody. Lol.
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every time i go walking or sometihng i ALWAYS get sweaty, and my shirt under my arms gets wet. does any one know how to prevent that from happening... thanks i rate 5's

Use Certain Dri. You can buy it at target, walgreens, and walmart. Its pretty cheap too, but i dont know exactly how much.

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how can you reduce the redness out of a pimple overnight?

Put toothpaste on it every night for about a week or two.
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I just bought a new shirt from aeropstale and when i got home i was lookin at it and they kept that security plastic thing on and i heard you can only get it off with a special thing! Im sooo mad i wanted to wear it tomorrow! does anyone have a way to get it off without ruining the shirt??? PLEASE HELP! 5'S!!

You cant do it yourself. Go back to the store with your reciept and tell them to take it off.
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First of all I'm a 14 year old male. I would like to know if this girl likes me at all. Here's why I think she does: Everyday when I hang out with some of my friends, if we pass by her, for example at a football game, she'll only say Hi to me and she'll get all excited. I'm a shy kind of guy and I usually just say hi and blush. She's a popular girl and even in class when she sits on the other side of the room she'll stand up and wave and say hi. I talk to her on ICQ sometimes, but it's nothing big. Should I go up and talk to her, I mean, I do sometimes but I don't have anything to talk about. Also, She usually hangs out with older guys, would she want to talk to me? Most of the guys in my grade are immature jerks though.

Yea, it seems like she does. She gets all exicted which means somethign like "omg its him," lol. Ask her just in case. Maybe in a note because you said you were a shy kind of guy.

Good Luck

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I have a sore on my labia. My mom just asked me if I was sexually active, I said no. This is a lie, although I have never had sex, I have had oral sex and been fingered.. I'm so scared I might have an std. My mom is making me an appointment with the gyno. I'm scared to admit what I have done, they probably wouldn't let me see my boyfriend and I would be in so much trouble.

I'm so scared.. What should I do???

You NEED to talk to your gyno. Ask her to keep things between you and her. She'll understand. Just make sure you see a gyno, its important!!
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is there anything wrong with naming a guy cat snuggles?????????????????????????????????
aka. snuggle-sox

Lol. No, its cute!! I love cats!1 They're awesome! Lol.
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