Here's the deal.
I have been single for about a month now, and it really sucks, I don't feel lonely so much, but at the same time, I am really lonely. I just need help meeting guys and getting them to like me and everything, something I've done before, I just don't know what to look for anymore. I guess I just need help finding a good guy, someone better than my past relationships. I have to get back into the single life I guess you could say. 14/f.
Signed,
Lost Mojo
Hey im 14 too, but lately i realised that at our age we really dont need to be in a relationship. sure we miss it, but we have to realise that there are many more things in life than having a guy. if you realise that you really will be a lot happier. and if you still would like to be with someone, just look for someone you can see being your friend. good luck.
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i've liked this guy for a while. lets call him bill. and we're pretty good friends. so lately i've been getting some signals from him. we took some pics with his head on mine and people made him put his arm around me but yet it stayed there until i got up to do something. then hes all "i miss u wanna see you" when he was gone. and lately we've been getting tormented cuz people think that we like each other. well i like him but that not the point lol. so lately hes been blowing me off not talking to me at school and barely online anymore. i'm so confused! please help! does he like me like everyone thinks he does or what?!?!!
Well no one can tell if he liked you, but its really easy to tell he cares for you a lot. he could like you, or maybe he just feels really comfterable around you. but either way, he shouldnt be treating you like this now. i think you should just ask him why he has been ignoring you lately. tell him that you really like him as a friend, and you dont want to stop being friends with him. it may be a little hard to tell him those things, but from there you can tell how he feels.
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I love my boy friend so much! He is one of the best things that has happened to me in a LONG time. I just moved more than 30 minutes away from him. My parents almost never give me a ride over there and no one in his house will give him a ride unless we pay them money. I love him but I feel like we are just growing apart. Should I break up with him or just see how things go?
I think if you two really love each other you should wait it out. sooner or later you will see each other. plus if might mean more when you see him, then if you saw him everyday. you should talk to your parents(if they dont care about you seeing him) and tell them that you miss being with your friend. i hope everything works ok. good luck.
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i like this guy alot. we went out last summer but broke up for a stupid reason. Well, my dad found out some stuff that me and him did, and told austin(my ex) not to talk to me again. So of course he hasn't. We see each other all the time and i miss him alot. He has a girlfriend, but i still want him back. A couple of weeks ago my friend asked him if he would ever go back out wtih me and he was like "umm .. i gotta get to class" so then the next day she asked again and he said "umm ... i got a girlfriend right now" ... he didnt say yes or no. But the other day when someone asked if he liked this other girl, he said no about her. nd there is one of his friends, B.j, and we all go to the same church. B.j likes me and i think i like him too. But not as much as i do austin. Well B.j was telling everyone he likes me adn taht i was hott and he wanted to go out with me, then he found out i didnt like him, so he got mad and said he didnt want to go out with me. Last ngiht at churhc, he wouldnt even talk to me. I am so confused. Ohh and about the austin thing, my dad told him to never talk to me again or look at me or even come near me, so when he sees me he avoids me, but he still looks at me alot. My dad told me yesterday i could start talkin to him again, but im too shy to. So my questions are .. What all should i do? and should i tell both of them i like them or not? and do you think austin still likes me? any help is welcome!!!!
It sounds like Austin doesnt care for you as much as he used to. It seems like he still has feeling's, but because of everything else that has happend he gave up hope. I think you should tell him you still like him and you miss him. From what he says you will be able to tell if he is meant for you. Remember that even if he doesnt take you back, that everything happens for a reason, and you WILL be able to move on, its just that he isnt right for you. About BJ, i think if things dont work out for you and austin, you should give your time rest. take time off from boys and really deside if you will be happy with Bj. I hope everything goes ok, Good Luck
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My best friend has this boyfriend (Hes a real pervert and a jerk to her friends but she doesnt care) , wen shes goin out with all she does is talk about how he gets in to trouble (which she like) or how she wants to break up with him, when he breaks up with her she cries and threatens to commit suicide! Then they get back together and the pattern continues! IM SICK OF IT, !!!!!
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Tell her that you are happy for her, but on the other hand your not. explain to her that he is not everything and it seems like he's getting between you two and your morals. tell her he's not right for her, and that she might find someone better. she might get mad, and if she does explain that you just care for her and wants what is best. even if that means there might be pain for a while. hope everything goes well! good luck!
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My boyfriend is shy and he is afraid to talk to me. When he comes over and he'll say hey and thats about it. He is like afraid to talk to me. He always says online hey i'm really shy and i can't ever think of anything to say. And I say something like omg its just me. and he'll say just you?!? He's like afraid to talk to me in person but will on the phone and online. any advice
try to start the conversations yourself. try to find what he loves to do, and talk about it. it might get him interested so he talks a lot. try to stay away from topics that make him uneasy such as your relationship. if he is still freaked out say "hey i know you aare shy around me but i really like you, and i want you to know there is no reason to be shy i wont make fun of you or anything!"
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One of my best friends (Lizzie) has been totally ditching me for this other chick (Amanda).. And it's starting to worry me, because Amanda is kind of bossy, and a bit of a whore.. Lizzie has always had self esteem issues and stuff, and i think Amanda is gonna end up hurting Lizzie.. And I'm also kind of hurt because Lizzie won't talk to me (Amanda and I hate eachother), and I really miss being friends. Any thoughts on what I should do?
tell her that you are feeling left out, and that you are worried that you and her might fall apart. you can tell her that you and lizzie arnt that great of friends, and that you dont really get along that well. also tell her that you'll try to be friends with lizzie. telling her that will show her you'll do anything to stay your friend. good luck!
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i went out wit this kid a while ago and we really liked eachother , cept he went to a different school so we didnt see eachother that much or talk in that case, and after a couple months we just decided to wait till the summer to go out so we can do stuff with eachother. then a couple months later he started liking my best friend and the two of them hit it off behind my back. but ya now i dont kno if he likes her anymore and i take it the summer plans are off, but i still like him alot and miss him, should i give it up or wat? help!
I think you should just ask him "hey are we still going to go out this summer?" it may be hard, but i dont think you should break up. and if he likes your friend, try your best to realise that its not his fault or hers. and try not to hurt your friend, or be mad at her. everything happens for a reason even if it doesnt seem like it!
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i really am so ready for sex and my bf and i already have it all planned out...the thing is, im not very self-confident when it comes to my body. my legs are slim, which all my friends envy, but i feel so wierd! my hands get clamy ALL the time...is there anything i can do about that? and finally, i am really self-consious about the hair on my body...like on my lower back, a tiny bit around my belly, and 'downstairs'. i dont want to shave these regions, but im just worried about what he'll think...and i dont want to be all high-maintenance about my body, but i dont know what im supposed to do! please help
it shoudlnt matter, if he really loves you he wont focous on those things. and if he does its his heart that is to slim, not your legs. and he prob knows your body somewhat. if you are in love and ready for this step, then take it!
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my best friend that i love (not that kinda way but like a sister) anyways she loves her bf and he loves her to but he is getting tired of her bullshit she started crying because he need some space and told her that. then when eh went past her at lunch he didnt say hi and she broke down crying. the other day she took pictures with one of her friends and she was in back and all u can see is her face and her bf didnt saything good about her because he could see anything except her face and she got mad about that. i have talked to her bf before and he told me that he dont really love her and all this other shit i have tryed tellin her this but she dont believe me so i dropped, but today i couldnt take her cryin so i topld her bf about it and he called her a drama queen and after he went and talked to her bc she was made bc she hate giving him space so he told her she dont have to. but i dont know what to do she is always like this and she cant give him space and i dont knwo what to do i mean she basically stalks the guy? plz helpe me thanks a lot!
Tell her "i lobe you, and i hate to see you get hurt, but if he loved you he would never do this. im sorry you had to go through so much pain, but you'll find love agian. and in the meantime i would really like to be there for you, but i feel you are pushing me a way a bit." if she's your TRUE friend, she will try to listen. but going through something like this is hard, true she may be going overboard, but it is YOUR job to help her. and i hope i did help.
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as stupid as it sounds, i don't care! i just need help! im 13 and have been going through puberty SLOWLY. its so annoying, but my cousin is a bit older than me and is telling me when your breasts grow while your going through puberty-they hurt! and now im noticing it! my right breast is starting to hurt and grow a little more. but my left breast isn't doing anything! im getting worried that ill look like a freak because my right breast will grow faster and not gradually with the right one! i don't feel comfortable talking to my mom about it... is this normal???
-issues
hey its normal, i was going through the same thing to. wait a while until you competly bloom, then you will be proud of your body....trust me. but if it REALLY bothers you, then yes talking to your mom would be the best thing. if you are able to talk to her about things like this, you two will become closer which will be good when you start dealing with more changes. hope i helped.
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my family doesnt pay attention to me at all... its all about my perfect sisters... i used to wear one of my sisters clothes (bc i dont have any) and my mom was gonna buy me some clothes but she gave the money to my sister bc i ruined my sisters clothes and like my parents dont do crap for me im not tryin to be selfish but what should i do?
sorry for the writing I RATE 5'S!
Like everyone says, talk to them. Just tell them "its seems like you have been giving more attention to my sisters latley, i know you are proud of them, but i have been feeling really left out!" hopefully they should understand. hope i helped!
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There is this kid whos 15 and I really like him..but he doesnt like me only because Im younger than him. He flirts w/ me and stuff when Im alone. Only when Im the only girl around. Then when hes around other girls, he totally acts like Im not there...what is up with this? I need help on this because I dont know whats up w/ him....(hes my cousins friend)
Hun, i think you can do better than him. To ME it sounds like he thinks he is better than one he is, and is used to getting attention. Remember that there will be other guys, and TRY to find someone else. good luck
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okay..i sweat alot in my armpits! i use secret platinum gel and it hasnt been working. i dont smell (atleast i dont think) but i get really really soaked in my pits rite when i get to school! its awful! please help! what is the strongest womens deodarant/antipersperant you know of? help me out please!
yeah same here, hey use Certain Dri, or use a guys deoderant. if you use a guys remember to use it after you get out of the shower in the morning, thats the best time. if you are embarssed of the stain wear black shirts, or white shirts. hope i helped please rate.
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O.k i'm 14/fm and live in Texas. I want a b.f. so badly, but none of the boys at my school like me cause i have braces, and i'm 5ft 2inch. I've had boyfriends, but they were'nt very much true b.f.'s. I'm always told by a friend or something that i'll never have a true b.f. that actually likes me, cause they eather say i'm not pretty enough or i'm not smart enough. My dad says i'm pretty, and i get all a's in my classes. How come guy's still don't like me. Maybe a guy could answer this question for me. Thanx lots.
Love- Lacey P.S. i give people who answer nicely 5's.True answers to please.
You are pretty and smart in your own ways. Dont listen to what other people say. And anyways a TRUE bf wouldnt care if you werent the hottest girl in the world, they would love you for who you are! Im 14 and know what you are going through, but just remeber (or try to) that it doesnt really matter if you have a bf! take your time and enjoy being 14 while you can. one day you will find your true love, but who knows when it will happen!
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Okay so I'm a 14 year old girl. I have 4 best friends...ish. It's really more like 3. One of my friends, is a complete snob! She thinks shes better than everybody else, and shes completely obsessed with shopping. I mean, I'm not against shopping, but whenever we go with her she flaunts about saying how she can buy anything she wants because her parents give her all the money she wants. I'm TIRED OF HER! Yet, no body else likes her, so if we abandon her, she'll be alone. at times theres nothing I would want more, but I don't want her a complete loner.
signed, confused
Tell her how you feel! if she doesnt know that its bothering you how can she stop? yet if she gets angry or mad at you once you DO tell her, then she's just not right to be your friend.
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Ok, so i have this problem. I always dress in black or dark colors and i've been doin this all my life. Some of my friends are starting to get pissed that i'm always dark. they're embarrassed when we go out in public just because of me. They yelled at me but i just told them to piss off. this can become a problem. Should i just keep telling them to shut the hell up and put up with it or try to deal it out with them?
advice is nice...
i don't care if it sucks like hell, just give me advice...
who you are is who you are, yeah they prob will get pissed for you cussing at them, but if they cant handle it they prob arnt the best of friends. I say find someone else, but dont change yourself.
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hey im a good writer and all but im havin trouble writing a poem to my friend. I wrote it out in a paragraph saying
"I've been doing some thinking. This may sound a little akward but I'm sorry I know your right. I guess I haven't been using my head so greatly these past few weeks. I'm happy to finally know I actually have someone who will give me helpful advice and a shoulder to cry on. When I need it. I guess we can thank those summer night chats with out those I guess we really wouldn't have all those memories and inside jokes made.
Thanks for being there for me"
I know if I work for hours I can get it but I can't seem to get it out. Can someone write a poem for me? or should I just leave it as it is and explain that in a paragraph form and not make any changes. I'm not sure what to do... thanks for helping if you do.
(P.S. he writes as well)
After all my thoughts in my head
and all these days, of worring and dread
i realise this whole time you were rite
you were always there to hold me tight
you were there to lift me high
you were there to help me reach the sky
you were there and you have always been true
the only thing i can say now i thank you
you can do write something like this if you want, change it around make it more yous. or leave it that way it is. personally i like the way you have it. please rate! i would really like to know if this poem helped or not
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ive been back and forth with my mom and dad. I seem to only cause problems. im 13 and im tired of hurting people in dec i tried to commit suicide by cutting 3 of my veins and i jumped off a 3 story building i hate putting people through misery so my next idea is to run away, but are there any other options, and i have tried talking i just did but its not workin so pleaze dont say talk to your mom cuz it aint happinin and no rude comments either
Try to talk to a friend. or write in a journal. do anything to get your feelings down. but do not hurt yourself or anyone else by running away. life is hard but things get better in the end. it may seem like that but youll never know if you dont give yourself the chance. i will be thinking of you.
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