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im thinkin bout running away
ive been back and forth with my mom and dad. I seem to only cause problems. im 13 and im tired of hurting people in dec i tried to commit suicide by cutting 3 of my veins and i jumped off a 3 story building i hate putting people through misery so my next idea is to run away, but are there any other options, and i have tried talking i just did but its not workin so pleaze dont say talk to your mom cuz it aint happinin and no rude comments either
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I don't have a good connection with my mother either, but running away will not keep anyone from suffering. You have to accept that there will be trouble in life and you will be drawn to do such things, but never give up. I have come through pills and therapy and none of it helped. I have had people think I am truly evil and have had to ignore their dirty looks. I came through it all, and I know you can too. I depended on God and only one or two of my closetest friends. That was all that could be offered, but I didn't have to do it alone. I'm not trying to preach, I just want to help. If you live anywhere near the Pinson area, come to Agape Baptist Church on highway 79. Sunday School is from 9:45- 10:40; Sunday morning service is 10:45; Wednesday service is at 7:00 P.M.(I refer this one to all others). I am sorry if I seem desperate, but I don't like to see people in pain. It is my nature to try and cheer them up.... unless I am holding a grudge. But anyways, I just want to help in any way possible.
Smile and know God loves /you/,
Hannah
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if you think you're putting people thru misery now, just imagine what'd happen if you commited suidice. everybody would be devestated. i knew someone that commited suicide and it's NOT THE ANSWER. please don't do it. i'm begging you. don't run away, because then that'd be the same result. you'd make yourself more miserable, and that's not right. if you really want help, try a counselor. they'd help you bunches, even if it's just to talk. just knowing that somebody's there for you is a great feeling. please don't end your life now. your time will come when it's your time to go.<333
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Whatever you do, dont do it Alot of people think that people wont miss them if they do, but really, alot of people do. And than this results into alot of other bullshit that shouldnt happen. But I would just try and think about the things you want to change, and try to change them.
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well don't run away it will just make things worst. try and stay away from both of your parents if you seem to cause problems. and don't commit suicide that will only make the peeps you leave suffer.
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I think everyone knows that running away is not the answer, you can't run away from everything that gets tough. And yes, you're going to get the answer you don't want, your parents love you even though it may not seem so. Your family is a support system! Without them, you wouldn't be here. I know it can be hard for you, but have you ever thought about how your parents feel? A suicidal daughter who wants to die, watching her go through misery, they are probably going crazy here. You need to tell your mom or a school counselor that you need a therapist, or need to be put in a institution, I'd say go with the therapist, but you have already tried to commit suicide more than once. You can't fight with your parents forever, thats probably half the reason you want to die. Because you feel unwanted, your relationship with your mom is shattered, and now without them, you have nothing, you need to get someone involved to help you gain something back with your mom, trust me, you need her, because now that you have nobody, you only have your negative thoughts, theres nobody there to tell you to not do the things you're thinking about, you need someone fast, because if you hate putting people through misery, you will be putting people through serious hell by killing yourself. And that is true. And you say that its not going to happen with talking to your mom, well, if you are willing to get yourself out of the mess you are in, it will be happening.
-TheTeenGirl
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Please don't run away. It's a big scary world out there and you won't have anyone to turn to if you do.
It's dangerous! There are all sorts of weirdo's out there that prey of vunerable young girls like yourself.
Try writing a diary everyday - sometimes ithelps just to write it down and get it all out of your system.
You could try talking to one of your closest friends or a school counsellor etc etc.
They may be able to help you sort out the feelings that you are experiencing.
I really hope things get better for you and if you need someone to talk to inbox me.
Take care
Mel
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You're 13 and you wanna run away?? How the hell do you expect to survive? Do you have money? Food? Shelter? Clothing? Etc. You'd probably get raped. Sorry if it's rude, but it's the truth, I'm trying to help you out. Please don't hurt youself. Things may seem shitty right now, but most of the problems in your life now are probably temporary. Things WILL change. They WILL get better. I PROMISE. Please, don't hurt youself. Think about this: 99% of people who commit suicide, decide that they want to live after they've already cut/taken pills etc, and it's too late. Moments before they die, 99% of them wish they could live. Just keep in mind, suicide is a PERMENANT solution to a TEMPORARY problem. Please, if you need any more help, leave one in my inbox, and if you want my sn I will give it to you. Just don't do anything stupid -- you're 13, you haven't even lived yet!!
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Wow. Your stupid. You're commiting suicide at 13? You havnt seen much of the world, my suggestion is to wait and see until you're about 25 and if your life still sucks then...go ahead. Your a retard in short, for trying to kill yourself i mean. You're and idiot and i refuse to help or talk to and idiot even further than this.
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Try to talk to a friend. or write in a journal. do anything to get your feelings down. but do not hurt yourself or anyone else by running away. life is hard but things get better in the end. it may seem like that but youll never know if you dont give yourself the chance. i will be thinking of you.
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You need help now! TALK to someone... anyone- it doesn't have to be your mom. It could be a guidance counselor at school, a favorite teacher, the school nurse, a friend, a neighbor, a relative- cousin, aunt, grandma, pastor at church, a friend's mom. Tell this person what you're feeling, and that you need help.
A lot of teenagers go through bouts of depression- know that you're not alone in thinking you want to end your life. But IT'S NOT THE ANSWER. You've got your whole life ahead of you... this too shall pass! Just think- in only 5 years you won't have to live with either of your parents if you don't want to.
Is there someone else you can stay with when things at home get bad? Friend, relative or neighbor? That'd be an alternative to running away- you'd be safe, yet away from the problems at home.
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go to a guidance consuler or put in in an annymous thing on your teachers desk and have her ask the class not knowing who the student is.
those are my 2 best ideas for this kinda situation.
-need anything else just drop one in-
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sorry to tell you, but when people under 17 run away and police find them they give you a ticket. I learned that in school, so runnning away isnt the best choice
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