ok, i am a 12/f, and i have a bf named Deven, and he is 12 also, but we both look like we are 15...and anyways the other night he came to my house, and we were making out and we eventually got our shirts off, but my parents came down the steps and he got dressed and went out the window. ok, the next day he called me and said that he really wants to have sex with me, so i agreed and all. but we have not had sex yet, and we planned on having sex next saturday. ok, here are my questions: 1. what are the consequences(and yes we are using a condom, are there other consequences then getting pregnant and STDs?)2. is it safe for 12 year olds to have sex? and that is all....thanx to every one who answers...i rate 5s to people who answer. bye.
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Sexual Health and Reproduction category? Maybe give some free advice about: General Sex Questions? Brunettesweetheart2468 answered Wednesday February 16 2005, 8:59 pm: Ooo, I wouldn't do it. If someobdy found out you would get teased and ridiculed. I really suggest waiting. You are WAY WAY WAY too young!! Even with a condom, you still can get pregnant and get a sexually transmitted disease, such as aids. I would wait into you are an adult. Because middle school boyfriends do not last until marriage. Please wait, don't do it.
A consequence would be being teased and being considered a "slut, or a whore" Girls are nasty, and boyz can be too.
Also, you aren't mature enough to even think about it. My 16 year old cousin even isn't. Sex is also painful, and it's just not right for a girl your age to do it. Wait until you are A LOT older. I hope I helped, and I hope you follow my advice.
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