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Hey! My name is Ashley. I'm 15 years old and love to give advice. I am a Moderator on this site. I have blonde hair but in that picture I have brown(the one in the middle). I love to dye my hair, I've never dyed it the same color twice. I also have bluish/greenish/greyish eyes. I am Wiccan, and I am very in touch with Spiritual things. I love my friends(but who doesn't love thier friends). I listen to screamo, emo, punk, techno, and hip-hop music. I am very short compaired to my friends. I'm 5'2. I used to model, I don't anymore because it's too expensive. I have 3 sisters, 1 niece, and 3 nephews. Ask me anything I DARE YOU!!!

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alright well my friend brad does peircings. and my friend sara wanted her tongue done. well brad is really good at it and i recommended him to sara. well last night he peirced her tongue but its a little crooked. i feel bad cause i reccommended him. usually its straight. but he kinda did it crooked. is there anyway she can fix it by herself?

I have my tongue pierced and it's a little crooked too. No piercing is exactly straight. But, it should be a little straighter when it heals and the swelling goes down. Hope I helped!

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I'm in desperate need for jeans that fit me, but I can't seem to find right jean for me. I'm five two, weigh 103 pounds and I have 32 inch hips O_o. Does anyone know where I can find jeans that fit me right?

I am the same weight as you and I get my jeans at either Alloy, Charlotte Russe, or DEB. Hope I helped!

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I have light brown, medium length hair, light skin and brown eyes. Whats the best color lip gloss for me?

Also..
Whats the best place for really cute jeans? I'm looking for very light ones and darker ones (not extremely dark like black, but darkish blue)

My price range is around 35 dollars. Please dont say American Eagle because I bought a few pairs and later was not very impressed with them.

Any stores that have good jeans on clearance for around that much works too. Thanks in advance!

1) try a very light almost white pink lip gloss.
2) Try Charlotte Russe. I love their jeans. they range from $25-$35. They have light and dark jeans.
Hope I helped

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if i live in illinois
and i text someone in texas
is it long distance??
i really need to know!!!!

If you are texting i don't think i costs anything extra if it's long distance. But if you're calling and you don't have a plan that covers anywhere in the US and Canada then it is long distance. I could be wrong though.

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i know this sounds stupid, but what exacctly are friends with benefits, please i dont know, and if someone could help id be sooo greateful

Friends with benifits are stricly friends that kiss and do sexual things with each other. You're "friend with benifits" is not you're boyfriend/girlfriend...just your friend. It's not a stupid question...you didn't know so you asked. No question is stupid. :)

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My face gets so dry in the winter and no matter what I do, it doesn't stop. I put cocoa butter on my face at night and in the morning and it hardly does anything. Why does my face get so dry in the winter and what can I do to help it?

My face does the same thing. Try a toner and a face moisturizer. Toner helps lock in moisture and the moisturizer will moisturize your skin. It helps me. Hope I helped.

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well lol i actually do have some more questions that i just wanted to get cleared up:

1.) is it true that the first couple of weeks you usually have bad breath??

2.) also i heard the first day it doesnt realy hurt but afterwards you feel it and it hurts...and is it good to chew on ice to numb it??

thanx =)

1.) no, i didn't have bad breath at all...all you have to do is keep it really clean.
2.) Mine started getting a little sore about 20 minutes after it was done. I had a really bad lisp for a few days. It hurt for about 2 or 3 days. Ice was all I could eat for about 2 days, it numbed my tongue and it kept the swelling down alot.
Hope I helped!

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okay im getting my tongue peirced probably and i just wanted to know about how much it usually costs.

I have my tongue pierced and it costed me about $50. Make sure you go to a good parlor! If you have any other questions feel free to ask me.

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Ok so I got my period kind of young, in 5th grade. Now im in 6th grade and even though i know more and more girls are starting to get it, im still reallly scared to tell anyone. Well obvilusly (sp?) like anyone else i dont want leaks. but the problem is since i am young i cant put in a very large tampon, so some blood always gets on my underware. I've tried wearing pads with my tampon but it feels so uncomfortable. What should i do? Thanxxx in advance

ok...try a tampon and a pantie liner. They are not uncomfortable like pads are and they are thin. A pack of 60 is only like 5 dollars. I hope I helped!

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I have no butt. Plain and simple. HAH. What things can I do to like, make my butt bigger? Like, exercises or something. It's really annoying, and doesn't go with my body. It makes me look weird. Please help!

Alright, Jeans with small pockets or low rise jeans will have the illusion that it is bigger. And like the person below me said, eat more protien.

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I am considering going for a haircut tommorrow, but need a picture as a guidline. Does anyone know of a site that has examples? I don't want pictures of your friends and such because that's a little creepy too be handing over to a stylist!!! Thank you!

ok. I searched "Hair Style Pictures" on Yahoo Search. It gave me alot of options and I picked the one that I thought was the best. http://www.hair-styles.org/ is what I came up with. It has links for very short, short, medium, long, up do prom bride, funky and guys hair styles. Hope you find something you're looking for!

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Does anyone know how to find out who has visited your Myspace profile? Because I think there is a site for it but im not sure. So any help would be greatly appreciated.

The answer below mine is exactly what I was going to say. It has all the instuctions and will guide you through the steps. It's pretty easy.
Hope I helped you!

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has anybody ever used dermablend? how well does it work on red spots and scars?

I have it and it REALLY works. It doesn't cake or leave streaks. I have a scar on my face and that's where I use it most. It hides them really well.

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I have horrible anxiety in many areas and im sure i have an anxiety disorder. i'll end up talking to a dr about this, but i was wondering; what medications can the prescribe someone under 18 for anxiety disorders? Like, i'm thinking valium and lots of drugs like that are for 18 and over. Anyone know what they prescribe to teens? (i'll be 17 next month)

I'm 15 and they perscribed me Paxil and a bunch of others. They finally put me on Busparone. I think that's how you spell it. It works pretty good. I have anxiety attacks and it helped that alot.
I hope I helped you.

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16/m
I'm so sick of being alive. Everything is so hard. I can't stand it. It's like I'm doing something wrong. I have few friends, but it doesn't matter because I don't like them. I don't like any one. People don't meet my standards and they never will. And when it comes to girls I have no idea what I'm doing. It's like there's some secret technique that every one but me seems to understand. My problems with girls contribute the most to my loneliness and depression. I'm unmotivated in school, because I care more about trying to find a place I belong, trying to find some one who understands me. I can hardly sleep because I'm always worrying about all this. I'm scared I'll never have friends. I'm scared I'll never have a good job. I'm scared I'll never have my first kiss or have sex, and if I do it will be with some one I don't want to do it with. Somewhere between now and the next few years I 100% sure I'll be dead. I can't take it anymore. I've been to therapy and they even locked me up like a criminal in a mental health ward, but to no avail. I hate life. I hate myself. I hate every one, especially if they're happy. I don't see things ever getting better. Please help me. And don't post anything about God, Jesus, or religion of any kind, it will be an automatic 1 on your rating.

15/f I had the same problem...I still do partially. They've put me through therepy and mental health ward. I really think we should e-mail eachother and help eachother out a little. They all don't take you seriously because we're young. They keep telling me I'm a normal teenager and all teenagers get mad at their parents and stuff. But I have anxiety attacks randomly in school and around people because I get to mad or depressed. I've tried commiting suicide. Any way, I think we should help eachother. E-mail me @ Kpp_baby91@yahoo.com
Hope all is well
Ashley

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I'm in total love with one of my best guy friends ever. A passion we both share is our complete love for music, specifically punk, punk rock, ska, and anything with a good bass beat. I decided to make a mix CD for him with awesome music he's not familiar with. So far I have the following bands:

Planet Smashers
Calibretto 13
Ludo
Pink Spiders
Me First and the Gimme Gimmes
Ok Go
Save Ferris

I need like 7 or 8 more songs. Any suggestions??!? I've been stuck in this rut for over a day and I'm supposed to give the CD to him tomorrow. help!

-Punk In Love

Cute Is What We Aim For
Senses Fail
Saosin

I can't think of any others right now.
I hope I helped you

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Do you know any stores that have clothes similar
to Delias and Forever 21?

The only 3 I can think of is Charlotte Russe, Wet Seal, & Rave

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So, my eyeliner now [covergirl] has been looking bad lately. I'll put it on, and it will be crusty a couple hours later. Anyone know a eyeliner that goes on smooth and looks nice?

Let me know


Thanks

In my opinion, Alloy eyeliner works best. It goes on VERY smooth and VERY black. I love it. Good luck

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i was wondering what is THE BEST hair straightener you have used. i dont care about prices i just want a really good quality hair straightener=].

I L.O.V.E. the wet 2 dry straightener. It drys and straightens your hair all at once. It's truly amazing! i think it's like 20-25$ which is cheap for a staightener! Good luck on your quest for a straightener.

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Does a Bita Saviss Lavand bra really work and is it really that much better than other padded/push-up bras?

I'm not too sure about that type of bra. But...I use Lily of France. You can get it at Kohls. It's about 25$ and it's a push up.

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