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Occasionally I'll just catch a 'glimpse' of a girls chest when I'm talking to her, sometimes they notice, sometimes they don't. Do you think its rude or offensive? I don't do it on purpose, but I do realize when I do it. If most would rather that not happen then I'd try to stop. So what do you think?

That's how guys are. I think it's rude though if a guy looks at your chest more than he looks at your face when you're talking.

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i'm a guy and was wondering something. as the question implys, i would like to know whether most people put feelings or morality first, and why. my example is pre-marital sex. there must be at least 20 questions on that topic before this one...some say 'do it if you feel ready' while others say 'no because you'll regret it and it's not meant to be that way'. both seem good reasons for or against it. is it both? should you really put your feelings and that of another first, or should you stick to your moral values, reguardless of what others or society has to say about pre-marital sex. thanks, will rate.

Most people definitely put feelings first. They do things in the heat of passion. They don't think most of the time before they do something stupid like have sex. Unless you feel VERY strong about morals, then most people go with feelings. I would stick to what you truly believe in. But, everyone's morals are different.

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Im 15 female
A lot of my friends like to drink and smoke pot. I don't like it. I had my fun with that already, I smoked pot when i was in 6th grade and stoped when i saw my brother get locked up for it. Yeah and i had my experience with alcohol i drank and i puked my guts up and now i wont ever drink again. well at least not til im old enough. But anyway my friends are always drink like on the weekends and they always ask me to go but i just go to my boyfriends house and hang out and what not. I always find my self thinking that im better than that and i don't want to ruin my life with that stuff.
Is this normal because i always thought that teenagers will like to drink and get in trouble and just do bad stuff just to make a laugh? Am i abnormal?

I envy you. I agree with everything you say. I think it's so stupid to do drugs and drink. I mean honestly, what good do you get out of drinking? Being drunk for an hour? Is it really worth getting drunk and doing something stupid or doing drugs and doing something you'll regret later? No. It's also illegal and not good for your health. You are better than that. You will get no where in life doing drugs or drinking.

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What style of sunglasses are in style right now? I've googled and nothing came up. Are big square frames or aviators better for a petite brunetter? Black or white? Thanks so much!!

A lot of girls are wearing those really big square frames that are white. It all depends on what looks good on you.

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This girl and I have been casually dating for a little more than a month. She's only 14 and I'm 17 but I genuinly like her. I'm not using her just to get some, I don't even want to do any more than kiss her. At the beginning of the relationship she told me she had only held hands with a guy before. I was skeptical but went with it. Now, she just told me she's had sex, but it was when she was only 9 years old. I'm not upset that she's not a virgin, I don't want her for that. I'm upset that she lied to me from day one. I'm not even mad, just really disappointed and very hurt. I've told her everything I've done with every girl I've dated. I live by the basic rules: Don't lie and don't cheat. She wants to go out with me know and I don't know if I can. I've been hurt before, and recently, and if she's lied once there's no saying she won't do it again right? I know it might sound like I'm overreacting but I really don't think I can take being hurt again. Please let me know what you think I should do.

Well, I can see why she would lie to you. If you knew that she had sex when she was 9 before you were dating her, that might've changed your opinion on her. Atleast she told you. You have to tell her she has to be completely honest with you! It's not like she just had sex and lied to you about it. If you really like her, things will work out.

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what is rapid prototyping ?



Making a lot of "rough drafts" or examples of something.

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Ok, so I have a crush on this girl. Long time ago i fell in love and since then i wanted to talk to her. But she is always talking with other girls{wich is fine} and i hardly talk to her. Can anyone tell me how i can talk to her?
If it helps im 13/m and shes 11/f.
--caden--
PS: you can see a pic of me and the girl on my collumn.

Write her a note, talk to her when she's with her friends, get her number, talk to her on the computer.

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I was searching through some xangas and I came across this girl that I'm not too fond of. I stopped to look at all the pictures she had thinking it might be pretty funny. I found multiple pictures of this girl, with my boyfriend on his bed. Nothing sexual, I think, but the fact I'M not even allowed in his room let alone his BED kinda ticked me off. Am I wrong to be upset that he had a girl that EVERYONE knows is basically a slut on his bed with him?

OMG, no you are not wrong to be mad. I would be mad at my boyfriend too! Does he say you aren't allowed in his room, or do his parents or whoever? Talk to him about it. I wouldn't want my boyfriend to be friends with a girl everyone calls a slut, let alone in his room ALONE with her on his BED!

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heya im angel_sarah23 u probably heard me tlking about my boy friend before well its ex boy friend since the 2nd of this month so 2 weeks on wed, well we broke up because hes a hindu (indian) and like his mum read an email from me and it was about explaining how much i love him and want to be with him, well anyways she read it and got in an argument with him over it and made him choose between her or me well he choose family obviously! but because nothing happened like an argument between me and him its like its not over and my head still says hes my boy friend i have cried over this every night and some how it doesnt add up and i cant get it into my head. we havent spoken probably since and its just hurting so badly! i dont know what to do anymore, ive been to the night doctor because i was crying so much it was making my mum upset and she wanted me to take a sedative as i have been known to cut myself and last christmas i tried to comit suacide! i dont think i can cope without him i havent for these two weeks how will it last forever my feelings for him havent changed at all and i miss being with him so much i love him x x

Think of it this way- if your boyfriend really loved you as much as you love him, he wouldn't end it because his mother doesn't like you. That's just ridiculous. Try talking to him (in school, on the phone, wherever). Tell him how you feel about all of this. You could maybe even try to talk to his mom too? Good luck!

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I think I'm 2 months pregnant I'm dizzy alot to where I cant walk I talked to my teacher for my "friend" of course and she says its normal so thats why I think I am. What do you guys think?

I think you should get a pregnancy test (that's just me though..)

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Yesterday i killed the person i loved. And i dont know what to do... SHould i go to the police, should i run, should i kill myself? SOMEONE PLEASE HELP ME

If you are really serious, you would get a less severe charge. If you killed yourself, you will go to hell. You will get caught either way, and killing yourself isn't a very good option.

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sry this might be long but i need help..i'll rate all 5's to anyone who helps and isnt smart about it.

i've been going out with my boyfriend for 4 months now. and really the only reason we went out was because i really liked him. and he kinda liked me. well lately he's been annoying.

he said he wanted to get together last weekend so i told him to call me and mayb he could come over, and he never called. and its not that he didnt come over that bugs me its the fact that HE said he wanted to do something with me. and blew me off.

any ideas on what to do here?
i've talked to him about it..and currently i probably said 5 words to him the whole day at school. so we're kinda "not talking"

thanks in advance!

Ask him why he didn't call you back. Tell him you are mad at him because of that. It doesn't seem like you guys are all that interested in each other anymore. So, if things don't get better, I would move on and dump him. Good luck.

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ok, im 13/f and i kno everyone has upper lip hair, but mine is starting to get a little more noticable and i was wondering whats the best way to get rid of it? i dont want to wax, if u even can, so dont say that. I have this little grooming razor thingy so would that work? thanks danielle

Yeah I would use those little battery charged razor things used for doing eyebrows and whatnot. Don't use a real razor though lol.

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okay well my best friend is turning into a big pain. she always says that she's better than me and makes me feel bad and everything. she drinks a lot and has sex and everything she shouldn't be at 15. she always talks about sex and she says im a stink at parties, but she's never been to a party with me. she thinks that im stuck up because im still a virgin. what should i do? please answer. 5's for those serious people

You don't need a friend like that. A friend wouldn't talk to you like that. She's obviously trying to get you to have sex and party hard. What is the point of drinking, honestly? If you believe in not having sex for whatever reason, who is she to tell you what to do? Don't listen to a word she says. She's a bad influence on you and not a good person to associate with.

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okay im 16/f.
i was in 2 bad car accidents and my leg is paralyzed along with all the other bad injuries. my leg is just "dead" it impairs me. my doctor says i should have it amputated, but i don't know if i can make that descision. can you please help me?

Personally, I would keep my leg there even if it was dead. I mean what's the difference if you get it amputated or not if you can't use it. I would keep it there just for the fact of having both legs.

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i have a really random question: as long as your overage, its not illegal to get drunk as long as you don't drive, right? lol i know its a really weird question but please answer thx!

Yea it's not illegal. You can't be making a public disturbance or anything either though.

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How does a gurl flirt so that aguy would be interested?

-smile alot
-joke around with him
-talk to him alot
-compliment him

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what does "525,600 minutes" mean??.. i did know but i forgot??..thankss..


*ALL 5'S!*

How many minutes are in a year.

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i need help FAST!!

how does this quote from alguna beach go?
u have a __________ way of making me cry yet a ________ way of making me smile

i'll rate all 5's

You have that amazing way of making me laugh, and yet a beautiful way of making me cry.

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how do you know if your a good kisser? and how do you know if your bad? tell me this from jason

Well, it all depends on what the person you are kissing thinks. If they still want to kiss you, then obviously they think you are a good kisser. If they suddenly stop kissing you and like try not to kiss you alot after they've kissed you the first time, that could more than likely mean they don't like the way you kiss. Most people don't like people that have no emotion and don't move their tounge when they kiss or people that are very sloppy.

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