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hey!..im 16 female..i got a note that i wrote to my ex bf and i dont know if i should send it or not...it also feels like im stalkin him..if im wonder what hes doing or something..is that stalkin him or what? (link)
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listen MOVE ON...just forget bout him...easy to say n hard to do but try...let new ppl come in ur life ;) xoxo effy
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Okay so Im 15 and everytime I go to the beach in my BIKNI I lay down and try to get a tan, but I dont feel right around the other gurls , they gather and sit and talk about me, but althe other guys are trying to ask me outeven 2 years loder than I am.... LOL PLZ HELP ME Thanks Jenipher (link)
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huh?!?wut's ur questions?!?! well if ur worrying bout the those gurls dont worry them...so wut that they talk..if they talk shit then dats b/c they jelous..if they say nice stuff then u should b feeling goood bout it....try to relax...n if older guys are tryin to ask u out or w/e its b/c ur goodlookin n hot..if u like any of them then go for it...i hope thats wut u asked for...xoxo effy
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ok. i am 14 and i am a female. I really like this on kid. but there is a different kid that likes me alot. he is funny and everything u would want a boyfriend to be...well maybe. i mean i dont know if i should go out with him bc he isnt exactly the cutest guy in the world. actually he isnt cute at all. and the only thing that is keeping me from going out with him is the fact that he is ugly and that ppl will say stuff to me like"oh ur going out with him? he is so ugly!" i just dont want ppl to say that. i mean he is funny, nice and wont push u to do nethign like most guys would. his 2 best friends r going out with my 2 best friends and we r the ones left out. my question is i guess. should i go out with him even tho he is ugly? (link)
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gurl...let me tell u something LOOKS DONT METTER!!!!! there's so much in a guy then looks u have no idea...there are so many guys out there who are good lookin n w/e but are so stupid and inmature...so if u like him a lot n u think that he has everything u would want in a b/f DONT GIVE A F#@K wut ppl say!! once i had a b/f n he wasnt so good lookin n my friends always told me that i could do sooooo much better n that he was so ugly n w/e...i didnt care..i told them that I DO NOT SEE LOOKS IN THE GUY...all i care bout is the way he treats me n the way he is with me!! so then they understood n they didnt mention that again...(i'm not wit that guy anymore b/c we had some prob's but just tryin to make a point here ;)) *best wishes* xoxo effy
P.S. WUT U WAITING FOR?!?!? GO OUT WIT HIM ALREADY!!!! ;)
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Theres this really cute guy down my friends street and his name is Zach , but when I told my friend she kept saying he has a gurlfriend , but when we were playing Basket ball with him and My other friends down the street he just kept staring in to my eyes and when I went to sit down he'd sit with me, What do I do??? HELP ME PLZ JEnipher (link)
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try to get in a conversation wit him...n try to find out if he has a gurl...b like "so how's ur gurl" or something so u can find out if he does have a gurl...who knows may b he doesnt anymore :-D hey if he flirts,flirt rite bak...:-D xoxo effy
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i really like this guy and we r kinda friends and i want him to know that i like him but whenever i talk to him i get really shy and im not myself...wut can i do? (link)
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try to relax....n try to b u round him..try to not think bout how fine n good lookin he is...just think that ur better then him...n u can do better...:)(i get pretty shy too on those kind of situations but i try to get out of my mind that i like him n i try to flirt ((like playin around n loughin)) as much as possible) xoxo effy
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i am 14 and i am a female. i was wondering if i am only making matters worse . i have been helping my crush feel better about the fact that his crush doesnt like him. and at the same time i am trying to make his crush like him. she has a boyfriend. i am doing this bc i thougt maybe if i talk to him more and help him, maybe it will click that he likes me bc i am such a helpful person. should i keep up with my plan or stop it completely? (link)
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well i dunno wut to tell u..cuz may b he'll just see u as a good friend n nothin more...just chillax n try to move on ;) give other guys a chance :-D xoxo effy
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Hey everyone 15/m here. Well as you can tell from my title, I just lost a special friend of mine. We used to go out for 3 1/2 months 'til she broke up with me and we've been pretty good friends since then, 'til today. All of this started cause I sent her a text message saying I had sex with another girl, but I really didnt. I just wanted to get an honest reaction from her. And of course she got mad...real mad this time. *sigh* If I knew this would have happened, I would never had done it. I talked to her about it tonight and the end result was that she didn't want anything to do with me, ANYTHING. So I told her if she really wanted it to be that way, I would get rid of all my contacts with her, and I did. I went from maybe getting back together with her(heavy emphasis on maybe), to being absolutely nothing in her life. She just means so much to me that I don't want to lose her, I still wanna marry her if I could. I love her, but I don't think she has any for me anymore. I basically cried my heart out again. Does anybody know what I could do to get her back? I don't wanna lose my angel. ='( Help me please...Life is meaningless to me right now without her. (link)
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hey, well i'm so sorry bout ur situation...my advice to u is to tell her the truth n why u did it and everything...tell her how u feel...tell her u want her back...since she reacted like that when u told her bout ur fake afair wit another gurl then she obviously cares for u..so tell her wussup n b open to her ;) i bet she'll give u another chance....tell her to think bout it b4 she gives u an ansower...n make clear to her that if she says no then u wont bother her again...if she says yes then of course its a diff. story ;) good luck xoxo effy
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ok ima be a freshman this year n im afraid i wont fit in!!! i was 1 of da most popular girl in middle skool but now its high skool!!! i have friends in h.s but i dunno im just afraid! like the reason i got to were i was, was bcuz of my ex-boyfriend..(the typical bad-ass,hot populat guy)well im afraid of losing everything i have right now cuz like ima be in LA, NY n puero rico for da rest of da summa n i wont be able to be with my friends n stuff.... wut should i be prepared for in h.s? (link)
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gurllllllllllll dont worry bout it...u'll b fine...i promise! the fear u have rite now...everyone has it...every one whos in ur age n gonna b a freshman...they all worry bout the same thing...they all nervous..trust me u'll b fine...just b u..b talkative n u'll make lots of new friends n gonna meet lots of new ppl each n every yr..that passes by...everytime u go to a diff class u'll see new faces...u'll make so many new friends...n things will b fine trust me ;) dont b shy just B u :) u might not b popular rite away but as time passes by...WHO KNOWS ;) xoxo effy *best wishes*
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ARE'NT THERE ANY GUYS OUT HERE?But that was'nt my question.But I do have a problem...Well I think my boyfriend is gay!And I think he's just playing up with me but actually he wants to be with my elder bro.How do i find out if he's gay??? (link)
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wow dats tough...hmmm see the way he acts...may b he is not a total gay guy may b he by...the only way to find out is ...get naked infront of him n see if he gets hard....if he doesnt then he def. gay! lmao ;) xoxo effy
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I have a large very sore lump on my head near my neck. I want to know what it is and if it is serious. (link)
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hi...go to the doctor n check it out...(may b inside there u'll find ur twin lmao *i dunno if u have seen my big fat greek weddin but if u did u'll know wut i'm talkin bout* ;)) xoxo effy
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how do i see how ppl rated me ? (link)
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hi, go where it says VIEWFEEDBACK! ;)xoxo effy
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i'm 13 and all i ever want is to sing and listen to music. I really want to get alot better but besides lessons idk how. i just want to be a good singer that people want to hear.
how do i do that? (link)
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well first u got to have voice...n volume..if u have all that u need to practice as much as u can...n get singing lessons...if singing is a gift that nature gave u then u'll b one...if not..at least try so u wouldnt b askin ur self later on "WUT IF I TRYED" ;) xoxo effy
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Due to an error that really messed up the site today, I've set up the "give advice" page to operate in "backlog mode" (because, well, we're backlogged). What this means is that instead of just seeing the newest questions first, you're seeing questions with the fewest answers first. After someone answers a question, it gets bumped down. This helps to make sure every question gets answered, and all the questions are answered equally. Questions three days old just aren't shown at all.
I put the site in this mode because we're in an emergency situation, but what do you think of it? Should we have it like this all the time, so questions with no answers are at the top, waiting for you? Or do you think we should go back to the old way, so you always see the newest questions when you click on "give advice"?
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i think this way is better xoxo effy ;)
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Is it normal to have to change your pad every 45 min., because lately I've been having to change it about every 45 min., and like my whole pad is covered in blood,(sorry this is really gross!!), am i bleeding a little bit too much?? Is there any way that i can like, slow my flow down because lately, ive been having to wear 3 maxi pads to bed...but anyways...is this normal?? (link)
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i think u should go n check out wit ur doctor or something..u prolly need blood...i dont think thats normal!!! xoxo effy
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I have a new bf and al he talks about is Wars , scares and other sicking stuff, but i really dont like him that much, how do I tell him that I am going to break up with him??? PLZ HELP JENIPHER (link)
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just tell him that u dont think this is workin between u 2...tell that u guys dont clik...u guys are diff from eachother..;) xoxo effy
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how long does a female orgasim last?? plz and thanks (link)
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i dunno...not for long
few sec's ( i guess)
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ok people who talk to me on msn for some reason assume im a bitch and then they tell ther friends and they all ask me of i heard u were a bitch and im really not i can be sometimes but all girls are that way. i mean some of them havent even met me in person like they go to my school but i dont talk to them so they cant call me a bitch if they havent met me in person right? it is soo fucked up and im fucking sick of it im fucking not a bitch excuse my language but im so sick and tired of people calling me a bitch and its not even true plus they havent met me so yea what do i do? (link)
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dont worry bout wut ppl say...u n ur friends know who u truly are...so y metter wut someone who dont know u n just likes to gossips says??? xoxo effy
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Ok I have a friend lets just call her Brandi Ok now me and her have been friends for 2 months and she thinks everyone likes her and all that when everybody hates her She is always saying you are a freakin Idiot And whats ya gon' do about it and are you finish with your answer know it all ok i am kinda a know it all but not that much I tell her too shutup and she mimics me I dont know what she is talking about a lt of the time and she lies to the teacher that I was cheeating and she cheats all the time she has a little sister and I do to she says her little sisteris annoying and I do to and I invited her to my birthday party and she loves my little sister and she is evil and I hate her so much What should I do????? (link)
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well def. dats not a friend...so try to avoid her n ignore her as much as possible..or if u still wanna b friends then just talk to her tell her how u feel...if things dont work out then forget her...meet new ppl ;) xoxo effy
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well out of all my friends i am the only virgin. they all tell me I should lose but I am not confortible with my body and hate people seeing it i mean I am skinny but its like skin and bones. and I don't know if I am ready. I am only 15 I want to find the right guy firts but I do want to lose it everyone talks about it and i have nothing to talk about I get teased and all the stuff should i lose it and get it over with or wait tell I find Mr right please help
Signed,
VIrgin GIrl (link)
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hi, listen i'm a vergin 2 so wut? i dont care wut other ppl say...i actually am proud that i'm a vergin...dont loose it just to anyone b carful n lose it to someone whos special for u n that he feels the same way bout u...Dont just loose it n get it over wit...first time its always to b remembered...somethin special n romantic!!! so dont listen to ur friends...when ur ready do it!! xoxo effy
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ok this question doesnt really fit under the category but anyways, when you are kissing like with you tongue are you supposed be moving your lips too? (link)
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hmmmm that really depends...but usually when u kissin wit tounge n u guys playin wit eachothers tounge u dont move lips much!!! xoxo effy
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