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Peace. it's ya girl Z here. lemme get to the point.. my name's Zainab, 17 years old, and from Montana(and NO i ain't no cowgirl). i am muslim and insha'Allah i am going to be married next month to a wonderful guy named Alim. love ya baby. so if y'all need anything just holla atcha girl. peace to fingers
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OK this might be long but i really need some advice there this girl i really like i talk to her and i told her i like her i but i never ask her out and im in love with this girl before i can ask her out she going out with some1 elese and i still love her and i talk about her every day and think about her every day what should i do

hey all you can do is just talk to her when u 2 r alone. and just tell her how u feel. but you can't expect her to dump her bf for you.

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this is goin to sound REALLY werid and maybe distubbing but i need an outside opinon,
i have seen my cousin, 2 times in my WHOLE life, me and my family stayed there for a weekend the second time, me and him slept outside in the tent cuz there was no rooms in the house, seperate, or anythig so we jsut slept out there and he kept putting moves on me! and touching me like, ( a boyfirend ) would do, i was getting really uncomfortable then when i was goin to sleep he pulled nice in close to me, and then he started kissing me then we started to make out i then id stop and tell him this is wrong he said we barley see each other so its allright but i didnt' agree i went back to trying to fall a sleep and then he started goin down my pajama pants and he FINGERD me, for liek 3-5 seconds cuz i pushed him off, i don't feel comfortable to even talk to him on the computer anymore and i can't TELL anyone cuz they'll think im like discusting what do you guys think?

i think that you were just confused. i happens alot. it's kinda weird but you felt uncomfortable so don't worry. and just tell him how you felt about it. and be honest.

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13/f
i havnt gotten my first kiss yet and im scared i will do it wrong or something. if we like french kiss how do you do it? i dont want to do it wrong and be embarrased. please help

well it will come naturally so don't worry.

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okay... i need to read another book for high school. it's my first year (i'm a freshman) and i'm enrolled in CP Humanities... i've already read my first book and i've completed my journal entry that we needed to do for it... i'm supposed to read another book. it has to be a novel and more than 150 pages long i'd actually prefer it to be 200 or more pages long does anyone have a good suggestion on a book??? no harry potter books... i hate them and it HAS to be a NOVEL any suggestions?? i start on the 5th... i think i can read a 300 page book in 2 days so just give me ANYTHING to read! i need good suggestions!

try some laurlene mcdaniel books.

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ok lik have my own column but i cant seem to answer my own question my ex is having alot of trouble movin on and like he asked me how to move on and i told him u cant frce it and like idk like its weird idk if im moved on either but i like this other but them again i like my ex too and my friends dont approve of me goin out wiht my ex soo yea a little help please

well if ur not sure sit down wid ur ex and tell eachother how u feel. just be honest. and who cares wat ur friends think.

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well im startin my h.s on sept 8...im really nervous EVERYONE @ my middle skool is goin to this one h.s and im goin to another one far away bc i didnt like the ppl @ my old skool i just had a lot of probs n stuff....but yea this skool is a whole diff crowd of ppl my last skool was s0o0o ghetto!! this is like really not....im just so nervous i dont no ne 1 and we hav to wear uniforms that r navy blue and khaki...im afraid im gonna look like a dork and hav no friends..hellllppp...im gonna b so lost =(

well all uniforms look bad.lol. just be urself. that's all u can do.

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well there is this boy n i rele like him n his mom always invites me over if im homealone n she is all nicce to me but when iget to there house i never no what to say to him i lose my breath rele easy if im talkin to him n i have to take rell rele deep breaths n well he is kinda a butt hole to me n i think i have a crush on him but he always picks on me like if he dosnt agree w. some thing i say he is like shut up ur stupid is that a sign he likes me or is he jsut being stupid??

i rate rele good!!

it sounds to me like he's flirting wid u. just be nice and be urself. best wishes

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wuts a hymen?

it's a little peice of skin it's ur cherry. and it can pop either wid sex or any kind of sport practically.

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whats a good way of hurting some one by punching them, like a good pressure point to push down on when they are like attacking you!! i just need help on how to fight.. i rate gooodddd

well some good ones are to kick right behind the knee. there nose but you can also kill them that way. adn if you push rite behind there ear. at the bottom.

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ok when people have sex ....does the guy all have to insert it... or does it just "go in" when they lay on top of each other...is it lyk a magnet effect...or something?

well first of all magnents have nothin to do wid it. say ur layin in missionary position. u on the bottom and him on the top. well he will have to give guidence to his penis. then once he can slide in and out he won't need to guide it anymore and he will be all open for you.lol. and just remember that sex is mentally and emotionally strenuous so think about it carefully. and always be protected.

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how do you make out? what do i do with my tongue? please explain in detail....i do not understand...this sounds to diffulcult

hey well you can't really explain it. first just start wid dry kissing. and then when ur comfortable wid that then go to frenching. it will come natural.

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i have a boyfriend and i wonder why im so afirad to kiss himits weird isn't that i have a boyriend and im scared to kiss him

your just not ready. just wait and if he truly likes you he'll understand. but it's not weird.

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I have a long time friend who has turned.....slutty. She doesn't think anything that she is doing is wrong at all. How do I get her back to well.....her? What do I say or do?

there isn't much that you can do but talk to her. and tell her that you'll always be there for her. she'll regret it someday but she'll be very grateful that you are there.

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Why is sex such a big thing now? I mean young people are even doing this, I just don't get it. What happened to waiting until marriage?

i agree. most parents these days don't care. and/or their parents have multiple partners. and tv. everywhere you look there is sexual activites.

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I didn't know what catogory to put this in. What are some good truth or dares to use at a sleepover or something?

well it depends on ur age. try asking what's the farthest they have gone. or how do they fantasize about. and dare them to do stuff you don't think that they will do. like making out wid people they are shy around. stuff like that.

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O.K. my family members and all sometimes say that I'm annoying, I have also heard it from some friends, I am 13 years old but I act like I am 5, I try not to but I guess its a habit and I can't help it! Have any tips? How can I not be 'annoying'?

*I RATE*

you can't stop how you are. it's just ur personality. so just be urself.

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im a 14 year old male teen soi use tthe comp alot.my mom and dad r always tryin 2 c wat i do on the comp. they almost neva give me ne privacy on it. in fact rite now im on a crumy laptop in my bed and every1s alseep. 2day they say me talkin 2 som1 on AIM that they didnt no. they kept bitchen bout how i broke their trust or somethin and now my dad is gonna take aim away 4ever off all our comps!!! som1 plz help me and tell me wat i shud do!!!

just tell them that they are way way way overreacting or maybe just one way. but they can't run you life. so just talk to them

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ok ive been getting all these achs in my neck and legs all the time, and i dont know how, i do play sports but they arent from that. can anyone tell me whats wrong? thanks
*marielle*

hey marielle,
i think that you have arthritis. you can get it more easily by playing sports.

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Does anyone know a site where I can ask a question on sex. I believe my question would be too graphic for this site because of how young most of the people here seem to be. :\ Or maybe a girl that would be old enough to answer my question (im 16)

hey i think i could help u. just leave somethin in my inbox or email me.

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ok in this highschool im goin to its a REALLY bad school lol its ghetto..and yea anyways im not pretty or anything im over weight and yea u get the point but my question is how do i get more boys as friends? thanks! ( im really shy by the way )

the best thing to do is to be urself. don't care wat people think and set ur own trend. bein over weight has nothing to do wid how you are.

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