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how do i get more boys as friends?
ok in this highschool im goin to its a REALLY bad school lol its ghetto..and yea anyways im not pretty or anything im over weight and yea u get the point but my question is how do i get more boys as friends? thanks! ( im really shy by the way )
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ok im a christain and if you think your not pretty than guys have a turn OFF and if you think your going to get a guy that will love you for who you are your WRONG and im not just saying that
your beautiful no matter what happens because God made you that way listen to 88.9
klove its every encouraging
please i know it hurts to feel like nobody loves you because the way you look im just the same way
i have had that problem before but i looked at it this way
dont care what people think about you because there going to pay the price later please contact me dmwm01lol@gmail.com if you need any other advice =)
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Well characteristics that I know guys really like in girls are a good sense of humour, a real laid back attitude, and overall cool personality. Guys like girls that are funny. A lot of them also happen to find it really sexy. But I would say that's probably most important. Guys also like girls that are laid back and no drama. Guys hate drama. So just chill out and be yourself. You want them to like you for you.
And about being shy. You have to get over that. Your gonna have to start up some convos. Being shy wonrt get you anywhere. There will be a lot of awkward times, but hey... That's highschool for you. Getting over your shyness and being more confortable in your skin would be the best thing for you.
Good luck :)
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All I can say is be yourself, I know that sounds cliche' but it is the best way, that is if you are a reasonable, down to earth person. Guys have their flaws but a mature guy appreciates some one who "keeps it real", has respect for others, and have respect for themselves.
So when they get to know you they will have more respect for you and grow to like you if you are a cool person to know yourself, get more invovled in school get on the academic challenge team or something whatever you have which you can have interaction with others where you do not have to focus on class work and you have the freedom to socialize. "Do Not BEG or Be NEEDY if a guy acts too "stank" to talk to you than **** him and keep it moving; know that no matter what you look like you are just as good as any body else; you do not live off of their likes, and you do not have to kiss anybodies a##.
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Darlin', Don't be worried about your weight! You want friends that will like you for YOU not what you look like, or you size. I'm sure you're a beautiful person inside and out! Just, be nice to everyone, and treat people with respect. =)
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lose the shyness. thats all u have to do. otherwise, count on not having anyfriends.
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lol well I always find a good girl buddy and who ever she knows as a friend, I start talking to them on aim or something cause I'm kinda shy too. Anyway, I hope I've helped.
P.S. never try to get hooked up with your girls crush or boi, even if you are "just friends".
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Well first of all if u say ur not pretty then u dont have much confidence or high self esteem about urself. Just have confidence in yourself!! Go up and just talk to them about maybe how bad ur school is or wat sports theyre playin. (guys love to talk about sports..well at least most do)..if you just be yourself and have confidence im sure plenty of guys will talk to you.
And im sure ur not ugly..ur prolly pretty..u just dont have confidence
hope i helped..if u need to ask me nething IM HERE!!
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heyy i just wanted to say that you should just be yourself around them and talk to them, be outgoing! and flirt a lot..guys like that just be friendly around them and im sure guys will want to be your friend, who wouldnt?! if you have any more questions you can ask me! :) xoxo
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hey u could try gettin clothes to better fit ur figure, they have ideas for that in like magazines like 'seventeen' and if u dotn take care of ur hair and makeup do that.. because i did that and now i feel alot prettier and im getting more attention than i used to. it's not like a guy will only like u for ur looks but it will help making one notice u
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well just try to find a guy who likes some of the same stuff as you do. that always gives you a topic to talk about. after if that works out meet his friends. or other wise be nice nd try talking to them =)
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the best thing to do is to be urself. don't care wat people think and set ur own trend. bein over weight has nothing to do wid how you are.
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Hey. i would say loose the shyness and just talk to them. you want to be friends with them so you dont have to worry about being wierd around them cuz you like them...so just with some girlfriends if they are friends with them and just be cool and talk to them...join in on what they are talkin about and see what happens. or if you are sitting next to someone at school you wanna be friends with thats a guy then help him with homework or school work during class and be nice...lol i'm sure it's not that hard once you loose your shyness. i hope i helped! x3 SweetStar
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Hello :) Be confident, and introduce yourself to new people you see. Join some clubs, that's a great way to meet people =) Be open and friendly to guys. I hope I helped ... drop one in the inbox if you'd like! <3 Steph
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Always smile! Be confident and be yourself!
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Try joining activities that you like, you should be able to find friends that do the same activity...
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