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My name is Teza.. short for Tereza. I was born in Croatia and I speak more than one language. I'm 22 years old & I completed 2 college degrees in 3 years. My a bachelors is in Business Administration concentration in Human Resources and my Masters degree is also in HR.
I started this advice column about 9years ago and I was so young but it was something that I always loved to do. I am trying to get back to answering questions, at least a few per day. With that said, if you have questions about school, friends, make up, etc., feel free to ask.
Much love, Teza
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I'm depressed because my life has evolved to be all about studying (I am a dedicated nursing student), I have low self-esteem, the crowd in my school I do not get along with (there is a term in the philippines called "jologs" meaning they are poor), I'm super bored, i feel overscheduled (my class is from Mon-Sat), I come from a dysfunctional family (can't talk to anyone about problems) and life just seems so empty and a burden. Everyday it is hard just to get up, and it is hard to sleep too. I've been depressed since December. Now, I think I need help to snap out of it.
Are there sure-fire remedies for depression?
yU cuLd g0 to the CoUnslOr o0r maYbe the DoCtoR .. taKe 1 daY o0f woRk and jUst staY h0me n RelAx ! trY n0t to thiiNk abOut famiiLy proBlemS becAuse thEy obViiOusLy makE yu sAd .. thiiNk of aLl the go0d thiinq yu haVe iin liiFe riiGht now and trY not t0 thiinK aboUt alL the baD thiiNgs !! ii h0pE yu feEl beTtER soOn ! x0
my friends say i should be more affectionate with my cursh because he likes me! what should i do?! how can i be affectionate?!
Bitchy..
Well I have a problem with my windows updates. They don't automatically update and when I try and go to the website they won't work that way. I have tried restoring my computer everything adding it to the scheduled tasks. What should I do??
Try re-booting your computer. If you have the CD that came with your computer it should work.
hi, uhhh its kinda hard to talk about this but, I dont know what to tell my boifriend, I mean he asked me if I was a virgin or not n i keep aboiding the question, you see when I was 13 I was rapped, what should I tell my boifrien? should I lie or tell him the truth, do you think it will effect the relationship?
thanks so much (I rate well!!!) HaLeY
If you really trust him then tell him and I don't thin it will effect your relationship.. at least I hope not. Just sit down and talk to him about it.
hi i'm 14 year old girl and my friend has this boyfriend who she's been dating for 11 months and he totally cheats on her! i;ve told her about it many times! finally she asked him about it when i told her he frenched one of my friends! after she talked to him about it she said it was ok cause he said it was only a friendship kiss cause she was down in the dumps! i told her that it was on the lips tounge and all and she was like i know! she believes EVERYTHING he says! wut should i do? she won't listen to me! can't just sit there and watch him cheat on her!help plz!
There isn't much you can do but prove to her that you're right.. somehow.
My boyfriend is coming over tomorrow, and we are going to spending all day and night with him. We have talked about sex, but I'm not quite sure about it. I've never had sex before, but he has. Should I go ahead and do it tomorrow? Or wait? I feel like I'm ready to do it with him, because I absolutly love him with my whole heart. Help me!
How long have you guys been togheter? I don't think you should.. and if you feel ready and you want to then go for it. Make sure it's something you want to do because you can't go back and change it.
My ISP is peoplepc. It only lets me stay connected for 4 hours then the internet kicks off. Is it something I can do or not?
No. I think you should just get a better internet like DSL.
Well me and my best freind have been freinds since 7th grade and i feel like we are like sisters..well now she wants me to start takin drugs and says if i was her bf i would do it but i dont know what to do
Your best friend would never want to hurt you but drugs will. Just say no and think about it.
I know this sounds stupid but here it goes..THere is this guy at our school that FLIRTS with all the girls, but he flirts with me the most and all the girls say so to. I really like him too. He always plays footsie ne and like he always drinks out the same cup as me and then he is like oh sorry but I can tell he does it on perpose and he tries to hold my hand. THe only thing is we are not going out, and this has been going on for about 2 months and I just cant stand it why wont he as kme plz type back
Ask him to go see a movie with you. It does seem like he really likes you so it looks like you have a change. Go for it before anyone else gets to him.
Me and my best friend have been best friends for a while, but now that i got a boyfriend, she is acting all weird, and trying to prove herself to me. She told me she didnt like me going out with someone, and i dont know what to tell her, or what to do, because i dont want to break up with my boyfriend, so what do i do to make her ok w/ me again???
Your friend is probablly just jelous or maybe she doesn't want you and her to stop being friends just because of this guy. You should talk to her and just try to work this thing out.
im in 8th grade and me and my boyfried have been going out for a few months...but we dont rly talk on the phone.We talk ALOT in school but not on the phone and when we talk there is allways something to talk about..is this a bad thing that we dont rly talk on the phone?
help i rate!!
No, not really. It's good that he talks to you at school a lot but maybe you should call him once in a while.
Okay. I went out with this one guy, like 3 times. And every single time, I thought he changed, but he hasn't. I used to think that I loved him.. But then everytime we go out, he acts like a jerk. At first he would just completly ignore me.. Then he would go on to throwing rocks at me and other stuff like that.
What should i do? Every time i try to talk to him..He says he will change, but he doesnt.How can i help? And he told me that IM the reason HE chews. Im about to go cut myself! Plez help!
Don't cut, please. It's not worth it and you need to dump him and go find yourself a better guy.
I starting going out with this one guy from my school at a ski lodge. He called me at midnight and kept saying how much he loved me, and he only knew me for 12 hours? I dumped him the next morning becuase i found out he was going out with TWO other girls that i didn't know about, at the same time We were going out. he also told those two girls that he "never went out with me" and "NEVER would" I completly freaked out on him at lunch and even slapped him. He denyed everythingg! I also heard of all these gurls he apparently screwed. What can i say tomorrow to him at lunch to make him spit out the truth??
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Ignore him. If he talks to you, don't reply.
i am thinking about gettting my hair done its about where my belly button is any hairstyles that are cute i could do?
I think you should get your hair cut a little under your shoulders and get some layers.
when snowmobiling do u need a license like do you have to have a license for snowmobiling
Don't think so.
A lot of people think I'm different, because I'm Jewish. Well, I consider it! And everyone else says, "Are you a catholic or christian?" ANd I say, "No. I'm way more on the jewish side." And they say, "Ooh, that's too bad." WHY CANT THEY MIND MY RELIGION? WHY DO THEY DO THIS? HOW CAN I MAKE THEM STOP? WHAT CAN I SAY BACK TO THEM?
Will rate high!
Don't be ashamed of you relignn b/c those people are gay and they got nothing better to do. I mean you shouldn't say anything mean to them just ignore them or else they wont stop bothering you.