Okay. I went out with this one guy, like 3 times. And every single time, I thought he changed, but he hasn't. I used to think that I loved him.. But then everytime we go out, he acts like a jerk. At first he would just completly ignore me.. Then he would go on to throwing rocks at me and other stuff like that.
What should i do? Every time i try to talk to him..He says he will change, but he doesnt.How can i help? And he told me that IM the reason HE chews. Im about to go cut myself! Plez help!
AnGeLtHuGsTa answered Wednesday January 26 2005, 1:09 pm: Ditch the loser! Why are you taking him back? He's obviously not taking you seriously and not respecting you. Throwing rocks? How old is this guy...10? That's so immature. You shouldn't like someone that treats you that way. Leave him for good and he'll regret it!!! It's his loss!!! You go and find someone that really likes you and treats you with the respect you deserve. *goodluck* [ AnGeLtHuGsTa's advice column | Ask AnGeLtHuGsTa A Question ]
xl_h0ll0w_Li3s_lx answered Wednesday January 26 2005, 11:58 am: i think you should tell him you say your gunna change everytime but you never do i mean what kind of guy goes and acts like he likes you and then he goes and throws rocks at you that happend to me before but i just found someone new that is actually nice and better and now we've been goin out for like 3months.. soo i think you should just find someone new because he wont change guys like that never change(sorry if i sound like a bitch lol )
hope i helped hun
tell mehow it goes
bAhAmAmA0250 answered Tuesday January 25 2005, 8:04 pm: I wouldnt give him another chance. No way ut uh! Sorry but throwing rocks? That is so 3rd grade. Dont go with him. Thats childish he is childish and you can do so much better. Dont cut yourself over a pathetic loser like him. Would you want to cut yourself over someone who is mean to you? I know i wouldnt so dont u either-trix [ bAhAmAmA0250's advice column | Ask bAhAmAmA0250 A Question ]
xxmizzpreciousxx answered Tuesday January 25 2005, 7:33 pm: All you have to do is ask him straight off the bat if he likes you or not because it seems like he dosen't if he is throwing rocks at you??? So just talk to him and make him listen boys are just like that they are sometimes a little co co but they have feelings.. so dont be too harsh ok?? Hope my advice helps.
-xxmizzpreciousxx [ xxmizzpreciousxx's advice column | Ask xxmizzpreciousxx A Question ]
Emily88 answered Tuesday January 25 2005, 7:18 pm: no no no. if he is the jerk that so many guys can be these days dont even give him any attention. soon enough, he'll realize what he's lost by being such an asshole. and sweetie, dont cut yourself, its not worth doing if its over a boy, i mean c'mon, if you go over what you wrote, guys aren't everything. if he really ignores you, throws rocks at you?, or anything else, you need to let him go. Hes an ass, and you shouldn't do so much for his attention, guys should do that for girls more often... you know?
i hope you reach your goals and your beautiful!
Emily<3 [ Emily88's advice column | Ask Emily88 A Question ]
xxbrunettekissxx answered Tuesday January 25 2005, 7:16 pm: NO
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don t cut your self! DONT LET SOME IMMATURE FREAK MAKE YOU DO SUMTHIN YOUR GUNNA REGRET please hes not worth your time. I know it might be really hard but you have to forget about him. Cutting is a big promblem! Next time he says he is gunna change say its to late. o my gosh i hope everything works out and dont let guys make you do that they aren't worth it.
Manulo answered Tuesday January 25 2005, 7:12 pm: Have you ever hear the saying..."Never wrestle with a pig, because you both get dirty... the only thing is that the pig likes it. If you keep making the same decision then you are going to get the same results. Don't settle because your cheating yourself out of a fum life with someone who would be more to your liking [ Manulo's advice column | Ask Manulo A Question ]
Yellowmms89 answered Tuesday January 25 2005, 6:48 pm: Dont go on and take it on yourself. He's not worth you going this crazy for him to treat you like crap. Let him know that you wont be taken for granted and that you wont always be there. Even if he says he will change, you've heard it before so dont bleave him. He had his chance...
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