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My name is Teza.. short for Tereza. I was born in Croatia and I speak more than one language. I'm 22 years old & I completed 2 college degrees in 3 years. My a bachelors is in Business Administration concentration in Human Resources and my Masters degree is also in HR.



I started this advice column about 9years ago and I was so young but it was something that I always loved to do. I am trying to get back to answering questions, at least a few per day. With that said, if you have questions about school, friends, make up, etc., feel free to ask.





Much love, Teza

advice

what do you do when ur a freshman dating a sophomores (14/f) and all the sophomore girls hate you bc ur dating a sophomore? all these sophomores are getting all these other people to be against you, what do you do?

thers nothing you can really do but tell them to fuck off or something because they r just jelous and they can hate all they want cuz they r gay !

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girls say they love you, but they dont show it why is that?

maybe she doesnt show it because she got hurt in another realationship and she might be scared .. girls usually want the guy to make the first move so you should be sweet to her and show her that you love her then she will start showing more too ! x0

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do you think it is weird that a 17 year old is going out with a 13 year old, even if they love eachother more than anything in the world?

yea .. most 13 year olds dont even kno wat love is ..

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do you believe in soul mates?

Sure..

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Hey teza i have been going out with my new boyfirend for a week now! and i thiink i am getting signs that he's cheatting on me! but he's the cutest lil thing and so romantic! What do i do?

aww well im happy that u found a guy that yu rele like !! but what kind of signs have yu been getting ? c ii rele think that you should talk to him about it or maybe you could just watch him carefully ! i really dont think he is cheating on you ! i hope not if you find out he is then break up with him or try to work things out ! good luck !! x0

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i'm 17 f and my b/f is 18 and we have been going out a month. i have absolutely no idea what to get him. any suggestions would be a great help! thanks!

aww !! good and thank yu cuz yu gave me an idea !! noo it wuldnt be shame to send it to his work but i think that it wuld be cuter if u gave it to him ! like on valentines day give it to him and im sure he will love it !! eX o0h !

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Ive never had a boyfriend on valentines day before and i really want one because thats like the hole point of the holiday. If i could i would just ignore it but the past years when im walking down the halls at school all i see is guyz and girlz together, it makes me so sad that i dont have a boyfriend. How do i get over it?

ii kno its hard to ignore but i bet thers a guy at ur skool that likes u n just shy to tell u ! thers nothin wrong with u or anything ! l0l try not to think about needing a boy and try to have fun !! x0

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Everytime I bend my knees they crack, what does this mean?

ii dont thinK it meaNs something bad .. my knees pop a l0t to .. hmm maybe yu shuld go to the doctor if it doesnt stop and ask him about it ? x0

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well i am moving to Colorado next year before school starts and like i am really outgoing and stuff and i play volleyball, and that starts before school so i can meet people by doing that to, but i am like really scared of the change and i dont know waht to do to make the move easier????

Please help me out

wen you get there take it easy and talk to a l0t of ppl and try to be friends with every1 ! make sure you still keep in touch with ur old friends ! yea i remember wen i had to move all the way from europe to st.louis ! i had to learn english and make friends ! but now thers no problem so yu`l be fine !! x0

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I am a 17/m and i have problems talking to girls. There i admited it. Now i need help. Please give me some advice.
P.S. I will rate good for HELPFUL advice

l0l start saying hi to them and start conversations like wat r yu doing this weekend o0r like.. well stuff like that ! make urself belive u rnt shy and that you can talk to girls and its no big deal ! we dont bite ! l0l good luck !

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If I take my cartilidge piercings out for like 30 minutes every weekday for gym class, do you think it'll close? I've had one of them since June '04, and the other since August'04 =) thanks.

ii dont thinK !

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ok well ive been goin out wit this guy 4 about 2/3 months and we still didnt kiss he alwayz sayz he is gonna kiss me and wen he is wit me he he dont stay by me at all he alwayz makes ^ exuses about y he didnt tak 2 me n stuf i realy like this guy & he tells me he luvs me & he tells his friendz he loves me but i dont this he realy likez me ! he also dont like some of mi friendz i think & he says they r the reason y he dont tak to me and i think it is wrong i am not alowed to have a boyfrend cuz i am only 12 and he alwayz says he wanna hang out n stuff but when we do hang out his frendz alwayz come before me and he ignores me n wen i talk to him about it he says he tried n stuff and im getting tired of it ! i really like him ! so wat do i do !please help mee

wow lol he sounds like my b/f sometimes ! see guys will always be more immature then girls and maybe he doesnt really know how to treat his girlfriend right about the kissing thing is he ever gonna make the first move? but see wat happens and he should kiss you first because its odd for girls to make the first move! the exuse thing is gay because he shuldnt be doing that and he defenetly shouldnt put his friends before you like that! tell him you want to hang out with him not him and his friends cuz he ignores you and its ignorant! i dont kno about that love thing he might really really like you but all guys say i love you .. just to say it you know wat i mean! he doesnt really deserve you because you seem way more immature then him but if you realy like him stay with him ! good luck !

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Im just wondering how i can see what people rated my ideas after i gave them advice...if sum 1 could just show me how that works, cuz ppl are saying that they rate good so im wondering also why that is important

On the left side it says your advice colum. Click on it and then click view feed back.

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Hey my name is J.B. I am 17 year old male and I really like these two girls at my school. I have asked one out several times but she is always busy. The other girl is not dating anyone else and is also (in my oppinion) the most beautiful girl in school. Im not sure she even notices me. I need some help.
P.S. I love to write poetry and i have used her as inspiration a time or two.

aw well girls like poetry so you shuld write one for her and if 1 girl is always busy then go for the other 1 dont be shy because some girls dont really like shy guys so guys start conversations with her and talk to her at sckool ! goOd luCk budDie !

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My boyfriend and I have been together for a long while now. I never had the need to come to him with my problems, because up until about a week ago my life was fine. Last week, however, I was going through some problems at home and with friends, and when I talked to him about it, he pretty much blew me off and didnt try to make me feel better at all. The converstation died within a few minutes, and after I hung up, I felt completely hurt. Shouldnt he be the first person I run to when something happens? My girlfriends have such close relationships with their guys that they're both best friends...but now I'm starting to doubt the closesness of the relationship my bf and I have. The friends I've told, told me it looks like he doesnt care and is just using me. I dont want to believe that, but when you feel like you cant come and talk to your guy..what else do you beleive? What do you guys think? What should I do?

You shuld be able to talk to your boyfriend about anything. For the things you can't, you have your girl friends. I know how you feel and I'm goin through the same thing .. and yes your boyfriend should be able to make you feel better and comfort you when you have problems. The next time you talk to him tell him that you got hurt and that you really dont like when he does that. Don't think that he is using you or anything just talk to him about it and I hope everything works out.

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i like this girl, but i need to know if she likes me. so how do i know if she likes me?

Does she flirt with you & do you guys talk a lot? Maybe you should ask her or have one of your friends do it for you. If she gives you signals and cute looks and smiles at you, she might like you.

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oh my god..i have a french test coming up TOMORROW and i dont know anythingg ..im faling that class and i havent studied..anyways its for a huge grade and i hve to get an A to bing up my grade! How can i get thru all the material? =/ please gimme some suggestions!! fast!

well you culd make note cards .. look back over your notes over and ovrr .. quiz your self like ask a question n write the answer on a different pieace of paper until yu no it .. or maybe yu culd have some1 in ur family quiz yu ! good luck on ur test !! x0

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My fourteen year old daughter has been going out with this nineteen year old boy since the beginning of January, first of all she lied to me saying that he was sixteen. I am quite worried about this. Can somebody help me and tell me what I should be doing. She is my only daughter, in fact my only child. I am worried. Help.

o0 wow never gave advice t0 a mom .. ii thiNk its grOss for hEr t0 go Out wiTh a 19 yeaR olD ! hes like 5 yeArs oLder ! ii think all he wants is sex and its illeGal t0 ! you culD try forBiding her seEinG him because you dont want your daughter t0 end up pregnant or anything .

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Hey im 13 years old and im a size 34B and i like to wear sports bra because they are most comfortable on me. The problem is that when I put them on my nipples show through the shirts even when Im wearing a bra. I dont know what to do and I dont want people to assume that im a slut or anything because i think this is gross too. What should I do as far as this issue?

nOrmaL brAs r cOmfy t0 buT iiF yu doNt thiiNk s0 theN buY padDed brAs n0t t0 muCh ! x0

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Hello, I have been going out with this boy for 1Month and 1Week. I like him alot, I have been with many people but never met someone who liked the same stuf as me it was always the opposite..And like we tell each other we love each other..And one day I was on the phone before one of my soccer games and like my friend Robyn was like ohhh so does he mean it when he says he loves you!? And I said yess but how do I know that its not him playin around I trust him alot!!!

HeLP PlEaSe!!!

welL it seems like he does love yu bUt yU waNt t0 kNo fOR suRe .. yu gUys have beEn goIng oUt for 1 moNth and ii reLe doNt thiiNk yu caN faLl in l0v3 with some1 that quiiCk buT yu bOth r Oof on a goOd stArt n maYbe yu cuLd ask oNe of hiS best friiEnds t0 taLk t0 him abOut it im noT suRe buT goOd luCk babE ! x0

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