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I cant talk to the guy I love
My boyfriend and I have been together for a long while now. I never had the need to come to him with my problems, because up until about a week ago my life was fine. Last week, however, I was going through some problems at home and with friends, and when I talked to him about it, he pretty much blew me off and didnt try to make me feel better at all. The converstation died within a few minutes, and after I hung up, I felt completely hurt. Shouldnt he be the first person I run to when something happens? My girlfriends have such close relationships with their guys that they're both best friends...but now I'm starting to doubt the closesness of the relationship my bf and I have. The friends I've told, told me it looks like he doesnt care and is just using me. I dont want to believe that, but when you feel like you cant come and talk to your guy..what else do you beleive? What do you guys think? What should I do?
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You shuld be able to talk to your boyfriend about anything. For the things you can't, you have your girl friends. I know how you feel and I'm goin through the same thing .. and yes your boyfriend should be able to make you feel better and comfort you when you have problems. The next time you talk to him tell him that you got hurt and that you really dont like when he does that. Don't think that he is using you or anything just talk to him about it and I hope everything works out.
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my advice is to dump him. if he doesn't show an interest in your life and problems in your life then he is not worth your time. go find a man that you can be friends with too.
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