im always here to help im really good at giving advice mostly about teenage problems not like my computer software crap! look im not supa smart, ask me questions that i'll know. but other than that im great! that doesnt mean i wont have questions of my own im still learning too so if i dont answer a question of yours than dont get mad b.c i havnt been through it. im very honost to people so if u ask i will certainly tell thats my motto! Just one more thing people if you dont like the way i type then get over it. thats how i am and its not like im typing to some important person. well you are but not that important!
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Sorry, I'm not sure if this is in the right category. I don't have braces yet, but im getting them soon, three days after i get my braces i'm planning to go to a friends house for a sleepover, will i be able to eat solid foods 3 days after getting braces?? If not, please provide websites that have information on this. All information is much appreciated Thank you. (link)
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the fist day is like OMG and then the 2nd day is sore too but by the third day it should feel better if it doesnt then eat macarooni applesause um uk the soft foods
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I fart a lot.
It's really gross.
I've watched what I eat, but it doesn't do anything.
How can I do it less? (link)
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take a sh*t it helps me haha to do that DRINK water dont eat like beans duh and umm mushrooms some veges make people fart! look it up
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ok can someone tell me some of their methods for turning on guys and guys can you tell me somethings that turn you on? besides hand jobs, blow jobs, and sex?
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well showing a little clevege helps making out does touch him where it feels good (down there !!! PENIS_)
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Hi,
I`m almost 18 years old.. and recently found out that i`m pregnant. I couldn't be more than a month.. Birth control obviously isn`t a hundred percent.. well, i've done way too much to stress out my family and i have way too much planned for me to have a baby right now.
I can`t let my mother know what's happenening.. and my father has always been out of the picture.
My boyfriend is almost 20; he's ready for this, i definately am not. He doesn't really respect my decision.. but i`m going to do what i need to do..
does anyone know what alternative i have since i`m not 18 and can't go and get an abortion on my own? is there anything else..
Please help.. as soon as you can.. (link)
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omg plz dont kill the baby!!!! if you cant have the baby and raise it then have an OPEN adoption that means you can see the baby when ever and see it grow up and you can pick the family so that your baby doesnt have an "awful" life if you so think it would. i think thats the best way to go so your not left out of the picture thats what im going to do if i get pregnate early! tell your mom what your going to do so that way shes not as mad and you still have a great future ahead of you.
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Please can you explain this joke to me.
http://www.stripcreator.com/comics/jd_10/392075
Thanks:) (link)
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well first they were just singing that rap song from 50 cent (duh) haha and then the bunny was like good lick mine thats his penis and he wants the monstor thing to suck his dick uk
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Can someone help me in a nice way like not to hate everything?
Like I didn't have a heart break with boys or anything, I just like hate everything and these days I feel like my heart or something insde is burning so bad when I have this hate feeling that I'm going to die or have a heart attack or something.
Like one time my friend went up to me and all of a sudden started bragging about how she found this singer and starts obsessing over the songs and stuff but i already new the singer long time ago. She doesn't even techniquely know and like this singer or band because she knows nothing about them, doesn't know what are all the band member's name, etc she just searches their songs and it pisses me off.
See? there I'm at it again! I feel liek im going to die soon for hating so much (link)
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well if your only like in your teens its really normal to feel that way you just be really stressed about something just think whats bothering you, it is finals or do you think your grades are going down are you sick of someone teasing you all the time? just think about it. if you dont have anything stressing you then do this close your eyes take deep breaths in and out and then start thinking about a place that you love to be and then block all the sounds going around you now but you should be in a quiet place any way and then just hear the sounds that you love in your mind!
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my boyfriend punches me alot and calls me a whore,slut,hoe etc. i usually am good about hiding the bruises his friends tell me he doesnt mean it and should take him serious. he always apoligizes and i have been with him for a year and hes always nice to me. so i forgive him but im afraid of him. im not oignt oo dump him. does anyone have any toher advice? (link)
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look your boyfriend is abusing you and if you dont break it off soon hes going to get worse his firends dont know if hes serious or not! and your boyfriend isnt supposed to call you those names its not rite treat someone like that and you wont like this but you need to break it off. if you reallly dont want 2 then tell him stop puching me and calling me names or im going to dump you!
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do guys like it if you kiss their neck? (link)
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depends do it and see wat he says. like hell tell you to keep going or something
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Whenever me and my boyfriend makeout, it gets kind of loud after awhile..theres like..this weird suction cup noise. is that normal?
and i was wondering, me and my boyfriend both agreed not to have sex before marriage..waht are some other fun things we can do? (link)
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haha omg! ya the smaking noise is werid but youll get used to it. and wow me and my bf said we would do the same thing! but trust me hes a guy they wont last if go out for a long time! hasnt happend to me yet but ya and well for fun you can do stuff to each other like someone said from before or like do what ever you want i guess to a certain degree you know what i mean.? be careful if he fingers you because for some odd reason he puts his fingers down his pants before and he cumed and there is sperm on his figers then he can get you pregnate and like he could hurt you badly if he goes to far or rough or if he doesnt wash his hands. just for your info but other than that have a blast!
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Well, I have my first boyfriend. I was friends with him for awhile until i finially got the courage to ask him out, and obviously, he said yes.
I asked him..a week ago. And I havn't seen or talked to him since, other than myspace.
But, I'm seeing him tonight, me and some of our friends are going rollerskating. and i'm kind of nervouso, what happens if he kisses me or something? I don't know how to do it..at all. lol.
any advice on this would be appreciated... (link)
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kiss him. guys like it ! being nervous is so normal. congrats on your 1st boyfirend!. if you dont want to kiss him or dont its not a big deal! good luck on ur date!
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okay a few days ago i joined track and i was wondering which parts of the body lose fat first...is it the buns,the stomach,the arms, or what?because im not overwieght or nothing but i have a big chest and butt...and i just want a flat tummy
my questions are
in what order of body parts will start to show results that i lose fat when i run everyday?
and will i lose my butt and boobs for ever if i keep running?
please put which part of the body starts losing fat in order. for example
1.stomach
2.thighs
3.chest
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there isnt i think an order in which you loose weight when i do track the butt usually looses moer wieght and so do the thighs and legs the arms also get more muscular! if you are made to work out for track like doing crucnches and situps then yea you will loose that too.
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..i promised myself when we broke up that i would never get back together because he cheated/ madeout with two other girls one my bestfriend and two my worst enemy when i was dating him... he hurt me... but he started talking to me its been about 7 months.. weve always said hi and hung out in groups.. but he told me he knows he really messed things up and feels terrible whenever he sees me (everyday at school) when he thinks about how bad he hurt me.. i cant help the way i feel for him.. hes been appologizing like crazy... calling me late at night.. and i miss him... we have sooo many things in common but part of us are complete opposites.. hes bad and im good... meaning after we broke up he did some bad things like drugs mostly pot and he has done alot more w/ girls than i have w/ guys... and me i have never even drank and would never try any drugs... we run track together.. track starts monday.. god im confused.. i like him alot.. he likes me alot.. i can tell when hes serious and when hes not and hes been serious... i know your thinking im a fool but i have alot of common sense.. i dont think anybody thinks i should be w/ him.. my friends tell me to go w/ my heart and ignoor everyone and i would... but its like (just so you know me) i have a ton going for me.. im basically validictorian out of the 2nd biggest highschool in missouri and i can run track for almost any college in the country i want to and im only a jr..... which is also weird because hes a sophmore... we are really close... i believe him when he says that he would stop (he has to stop smoking becasue of track) and he would never even think about it if he were with me becasue he knows he would loose me again. its weird because i thought i liked him soo much more than he liked me but he remembers everytime we hung out more than i do and i have a really good memory and he played me a ton of songs that remind him of me and kills him when he hears them..... i dont know what to do... i know hes a player.. but i know he really likes me... i know it will be hard for him to be loyal, but i think he means it and will do it... im worried though.. my parents dont like him (they are very strict) and they dont know that hes smoked weed and they would probably take my car and cell away if they knew lol.. i had to lie to them last night when i hung out w/ him... i hate lying to them... but i like being w/ him soo much....... he makes me soo happy but i know how unhappy he can make me.... basically i dont know what to do...im confused... idk if i should go w/ my heart and like him and hangout w/ him and take it really slow and see if i want a relationship a while from now... or if i should go w/ my gut and continue being the good girl and try to find more guys and keep him on a friend level (i know i will be sad for a while)... PLEASE HELP! (link)
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well this is very long haha. but ur rite and so were your friends follow your heart. love takes risks and sarcrafices!(sp?) he seems that he wants to be with you alot and you guys would be so happy i say go for him but if you dont want to do the same thing over again with him then dont. i say go to him and if he does something wrong again you leave him. rite now it seems like he would be great to you!
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Okay I think im depressed, my brother is and Jason {my other brother} was but wasnt treated cause my mother doenst love him. Okay I hate my life. My parents are horrible. My mother loves my brothers more then me and you cant say its middle child sydrome cause im the YOUNGEST! So ughh. And schools no better but my dad is horribleer then anything. I dont know if we can swear on this but he calls me a stupid little B and jerk and other names like fat and anything and does it all the time. he yells a lot but doesnt hit me so it just sucks to be here..... how can i tell if im depressed? i sleep a lot and eat a lot... i never smile and get mad easily
tell me if you think im depressed and how i can tell if i am (link)
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i think your taking ur feelings on food and your dad is telling you ur fat to maybe loose some weight . that is horrible but i think your looking at the bad things and not the good im sure your mom doesn like you the least. thts nothing. its just growing up and thinking the whole world hates you. dont eat to get rid of the depression or stress instead workout or listen to music. its better and helthier. scream in a pillow or take deep breaths. at this rate you will become fat and in a hospital bed b.c at the age of 14 or older had a heart attack of cloged arteries. im just telling you for your own health i care alot!
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okay i kno it is our mom's job to make sure everything is going okay but my mom watches my every move she even listens in on my phone calls and tracks me on the internet i have caught her reading my diary 5 times in the last 3 years....what do i do? it is driving me nuts!!!!! (link)
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wow many girls have problems like this belive me. she is jut looking out for you like you said there. talk to her about your privacy that you want. and b.c she looks in your diary you probally dont talk to her. i talk to my mom and step mom about almost everything and they never look in my diary b.c i talk to them. im telling you talk to your mom about anything like school and the dramma whos going out with who...who you like. who ur in a fite with this week. uk all that stuff .fashion i can go on and on. it works i can guarente u!
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13/f. i loved butterflys 2 years ago and have never had a boyfriend so my mom said i was a lesbian. and she wasnt joking or anything. now i like black and dark colors she says im gothic and she says goths like peircings~i have had both my ears double peirced for about 4 years~and now since she says im gothic which im not she took all my earings and made me take out my earings to make them close up. she reads my diary and makes sure about wat i do or think or anything my friends do or just everything and makes sure i do nothing bad. so one day i wrote in my diary 'mom since your reading this and i no you will leave me alone i hate you i always have u give me no space' i got grounded for a month and she told every1. she doesnt have to read it and espesially not tell my whole family and cusins. its my diary shouldnt it be private? did i do sumthing wrong or what? (link)
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its just looks like here that your mom is nosy. my mom doesnt look in my diary well at least i hope not. doesnt seem that way tough . but any way talk to your mom she just wants the perfect duaghter to me. and b.c your not the way she likes that she is going to make you that way. its probally the way she got brought up as well she cant help it if her mother did that to her as well. just tell her nicly that its just fases that you go through and will get over it. soon. and if you dont do any thing bad then tell her. start talking to her about school the drama tell her that you would like to go shopping with her. maybe she would like that. get a good bond with your mom. its a good thing you will never want to give up. i wish alot of the time i live with my mom. ur lucky and dont even know it. but its also annoying that she does that and i would be ticked off too.
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hi, well im 15, and my sisters 18. Well she's really annoying, and it really pisses me off. She acts like a kid when she wants to be treated like an adult, and she's really like, bossy. the other day, she was all "come in here when you're done, i need your help" then she tells me to help her pick out an outfit, and when im all "um i dont know..." she gets angry, like its my job. then she tells me to clean her room while she hangs up her clothes, and if i tell her to do it her self, shes all "you know you're attitude really stinks" and she keeps complaining, even though she's worse. is this normal? or is she just wierd. i think the second one but ide like someone elses opinion. thanks in advance :) (link)
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well your sister just gets frusterated when she has someone else who doesnt know what she should wear my sister is like that if i tell her the truth and its not what she wants to hear then she gets all mad. im like u asked for the truth dont get mad. but cleaning the room part she just thinks like an adult would help another adult without mouthing back like i dont want to do this! adults would just do it. like picking up something in the hall way thats not yours you dont walk by it you pick it up and put it away. thats the kind of thing she talks about cloths room uk?, ik im 14 and well i have 3 older ppl like thats its just getting used to trust me.
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okay, i don't get this at all. my mom like doesn't trust me. doesn't like me going out with boys alone, but its wierd because im such a good kidd. i don't break the rules. i always do what my mom tells me to do. honestly, i think that she doesn't want me going out with guys alone is cause she thinks i'll be doing stuff with them only cause i have big boobs lol but how do i get her to trust me more. i don't do anything bad.. (link)
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its not that your mom doesnt trust you she doesnt trust the guys. at w.e age you are im guessing 14 or older . when ur that age and big boobs guys will say or do ne thing and i mean any thing like to the point where they would hold you down for rape shes just looking out there for you . you should ask her if thats what she is doing if so then your mom is smart and loves you she trusts you i can tell she just doesnt trust the guys talk to get answers thats what i did!
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ok my sister is 16 and she wants to get a small tattoo of a peace sign down by her bikini line and she said some guy who's like thirty is gonna do it cus he does his own. i really dont want her to do it b/c its stupid and she's not telling our parents and they would definitly say no and everytime she does something bad and my parents find out its like a huge thing, my dad screams and yells and chases her out the front door, my mom freaks out and threatens to call the cops on my dad, my sister cries hysterically and me and my 8 year old brother sit together in my room and try not to panic too much. anyway i really dont want her to go through with it so what can i say to make her not? (link)
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ask your sister why is she doing this if she know if she gets cought whats going to happen. i mean if she know what gonna happen there is a reson why shes doing this. tell her that you dont like seeing her get punished by yelling and getting chased out of the house. tell her you love her and dont want to see her get in trouble becuse this time it could be serios! sry for spelling. hope u dont mind.
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im 19/f and my husband is 22/m. we have been dating for about 5 years and have been sexually active for about the same amount of time.i want to get pregnant but my husband does not want one. we've tlked about having kids before but he's scared because he does not want a girl. i really want a baby and i am fully capable of taking are of it, i can support it financially. what should i do? how can i convince him? (link)
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dont like to tell you this but later on in life you guys jsut mite get a divorse my step mom did her ex didnt want kids either. but she got them i dont want to tell you how cuz well its personal.*(sry) tell him that you want them and if you love me enough to have one you wont care what sex it is as long as you have one with me.!!
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If my question is on the wrong category,sorry. I didnt know what category.
Anyway. I feel sad a lot. But when i'm at school or with friends or their family I try to hide. I have been goin through a tough time. But my dad is doin the best he can to make me happy. He doesnt really know that i'm sad...ALOT !! and i honestly dont know why either. But I am upset everyday. Yeah sure I have fun a lot but sad sososo much...
I dont think i have depression..but doesnt anyone have any idea...why i could always be feelin like this?
please answer as soon as you can
and thank you for readin this :]
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i think your just growing up it depends on what age you are as you get older the things you used to have a blast with is not so fun ne more like christmas for me used to be so much fun but when i was like 11 or 12 i started feeling like depressed and sad and i didnt know why so i asked one of my relatives they said that im getting older but when you reach teen age it gets less depressing and sad. you dont have a problem its just growing up.!
yes your rite at the age. ! it will go away and happy before your bday >k thats confusing but thing is im telling you happy birthday. ur not alone i feel depressed from time to time!
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