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i dont get it
okay, i don't get this at all. my mom like doesn't trust me. doesn't like me going out with boys alone, but its wierd because im such a good kidd. i don't break the rules. i always do what my mom tells me to do. honestly, i think that she doesn't want me going out with guys alone is cause she thinks i'll be doing stuff with them only cause i have big boobs lol but how do i get her to trust me more. i don't do anything bad..
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its not that your mom doesnt trust you she doesnt trust the guys. at w.e age you are im guessing 14 or older . when ur that age and big boobs guys will say or do ne thing and i mean any thing like to the point where they would hold you down for rape shes just looking out there for you . you should ask her if thats what she is doing if so then your mom is smart and loves you she trusts you i can tell she just doesnt trust the guys talk to get answers thats what i did!
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Oh man. My mom IS THE SAME WAY. Yeah, I'm the kid who gets straight A's and is generally a good person and trust-worthy. She will not let me hang out with guys. HOWEVER, (this is the part that really annoys the crap outta me) she will let my brother hang out with girls all the time in hot tubs and let him be around them all the time. It seems liek a big old slap in the face like DO YOU NOT TRUST ME? yeah, i've tried the guilt trip on my mom, but she will not budge. I've asked why my brother who is a little more than year apart from me would be able to be in a HOT TUB with them and hang with them at one in the morning. Yeah, she says it is because guys can "over power" girls. She says she doesnt trust the guys. She says she knows my brother and that he would never "do anything" (not necessarily overpowering but like "do stuff with them in general) with a girl at this age. Yeah she doesn't exactly know my brother apart from the I'M AN ANGEL side. I'm fought tooth and nail. So such luck. Ok, I would explain that my guy friends are nice people. They would never try to do anything wrong or i would stright out say "Is it because you think i will do "stuff" with them. If you are tryign to get what you want, you have to be honest and bold. Good luck!
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ive been battling with my mom about this for literally YEARS. its not that she doesnt trust you, its that she doesnt exactally trust the people around you. she just doenst want to see you get hurt. try talking to her. if that doesnt help, what i have to do, is rebel. and prove to her that im my own person and i need to make my own choices. its not the ideal thing to do. going against your parents. (im a pastors/cops daughter). my best suggestion would be to talk to her about it.
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My mom's the same way. I don't think it's beacuase she doesn't trust you, she doesn't trust the guys. To her, they're just some stranger, and guys can be pervs sometimes. My aunt got pregnant when she was young, and my mom doesn't want that happening to me, so she's really overprotected when it comes to guys. If you want to go somewhere with a guy, you should get him to meet your mom and she'll see how harmless he is.
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the best thing i can think of is try talking to her and tell her you are a good kid..also have the guy meet her first..maybe come over for dinner sometime. for the first few dates make it a double date or a group thing..then ask your mom if it can be just you two..she mighr warm up to things better this way :)
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