Question Posted Tuesday February 20 2007, 11:56 am
hi, well im 15, and my sisters 18. Well she's really annoying, and it really pisses me off. She acts like a kid when she wants to be treated like an adult, and she's really like, bossy. the other day, she was all "come in here when you're done, i need your help" then she tells me to help her pick out an outfit, and when im all "um i dont know..." she gets angry, like its my job. then she tells me to clean her room while she hangs up her clothes, and if i tell her to do it her self, shes all "you know you're attitude really stinks" and she keeps complaining, even though she's worse. is this normal? or is she just wierd. i think the second one but ide like someone elses opinion. thanks in advance :)
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Families? sml111992 answered Friday February 23 2007, 10:59 pm: well your sister just gets frusterated when she has someone else who doesnt know what she should wear my sister is like that if i tell her the truth and its not what she wants to hear then she gets all mad. im like u asked for the truth dont get mad. but cleaning the room part she just thinks like an adult would help another adult without mouthing back like i dont want to do this! adults would just do it. like picking up something in the hall way thats not yours you dont walk by it you pick it up and put it away. thats the kind of thing she talks about cloths room uk?, ik im 14 and well i have 3 older ppl like thats its just getting used to trust me. [ sml111992's advice column | Ask sml111992 A Question ]
imxkathleenx3 answered Thursday February 22 2007, 10:20 am: Hey. Well my sister's exactly the same way, except im 13 and shes 21, she's just wicked immature, which might be the case with your sister. Just don't do what she says, and tell her to do it herself, it works for me :]. Hope I helped ♥ Kathleen. [ imxkathleenx3's advice column | Ask imxkathleenx3 A Question ]
Depressed_Poet answered Tuesday February 20 2007, 3:30 pm: Haha, she's not abnormal don't worry. She just doesn't look at the situation from other peoples' points of view & she's probably used to people doing things for her. And since your sisters are 18 I'm sure they'll be off to college soon so you won't have to put up with it for much longer! I think you should enjoy the time left you have with her because you won't live with her for much longer since she's eighteen. Has she been doing this kind of thing for years? Or has it just started recently? If the answer was recently, I think she just wants to spend more time with you, & doesn't really know how to talk to you about it. Next time she does that say, "You know, we won't live together for that much longer, is this really how you want your last year of living with me to end?" It will make you both think. & yes it's a harsh thing to say, but it will make her think about spending more time with you because you guys are sisters, be glad you have each other =]
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