how early on can you tell if your pregnant..
&& what is the chance of getting preg on birth control. I Didnt take it how they told me to && I missed it a fiew times. I didnt know i was taking it wrong but someone told me today sense I didnt take it the right way it wont work fully.
I dont think im preg actualy im like 99.9% sure im not..
but you can never be to safe && sure
Yes birth control is 99.9% effective but deff. if you miss pills then there is a chance of pregnancy..I recommend using a condom as well not just the pill..If this happens again i recommend [the day after pill] you can get this at like planned parenthood or over the counter..
Using the first sign of possibly being pregnant are missed periods..But since you`ve messed the pills up your period most likely will not come on time..[Buy a pregnancy test to be positive..♥Dez
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15/m ....i am about to go a little further with my girlfriend ....and i was wondering if most guys shave their pubic hair or not...?
Alot of guys shave this area..But seriously its your personal decision..But i recommend shaving it if you plan on getting oral from your girlfriend..Maybe even try dicussing this with her and see what she might perfer..♥Dez
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I have a weight problem (I weigh too much) and I think my weight may be getting worse due to stress. How do I know if it is stress? If it is my stress causing me to gain weight what can I do about it?
Usually people eat without really noticing or sometimes they might not even eat at all..But since you said you think your gaining weight from stress then you probably don`t notice that you might be over eating a bit.. Well somethings that might help you with this weight and stress problem are..
-Exersise
-Dieting
-Hot bath
-Counciling
Those would be my suggestions..try watching what you eat..♥Dez
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13/f i just got my period today. i tried about 1000 kinds of pads and nothing seems to feel right. ive decided that im not ready just to jump into tampons. i also dont want pads wiht wings. does anyone know good SHORT AND NARROW pad namebrands without wings that i could try. thanks in advance. court ♥
Kotex is probably what your looking for..♥Dez
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Hey! I'm going to Disney World on Friday morning because we don't have school on Friday or the following Monday. We're driving back on Monday. It's a 7-8 hour drive. Well, I found out today that we're having a huge test next Wednesday! Since I'll be in Disney World, I don't know if I'll have time to study a lot, and there is a ton of information for the test (like at least 5 pages typed). What should I do in order to have fun and be prepared?
Study on your way to disney world and on your way back home.. Even Study extra like before you go to sleep if possible don`t make it to stressful but do it when your not doing anything..♥Dez
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approximately a month ago my Boyfriend and I were foolin around and while we've never had sex we got a little carried away... to sum it all up he ended up cumming on my butt- we tried to clean it off as soon as possible but technically it is possible that some could have slid down to my vagina... does anyone think that I might get pregnant- I was off my birth control and havent had my period for two months (always been screwed up without my birth control) but he never penetrated me- what do you think?
I doubt your pregnant! But i do think if your that worried about it then get a pregnancy test and i would stick with protection and that birth control at all times.. Since its been 2 months you would of had some sort of sign of pregnancy other then missed period..♥Dez
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I'm 18, and my child is due on March 3rd. I'm really excited about this, but the problem is with the father.
Don't get me wrong--I really love him, but I'm scared we leaped into everything too soon.
We were dating for 3 months when I found out I was pregnant. I was scared to tell him, but he was so supportive, and he ended up absolutely ecstatic about it once we'd both been reassured about some things. We're engaged now, and things are going great.
But, that's the problem.
I think things are too good, and that once the baby is born that things might fall apart. I really want to talk to him about this, but I don't know how to approach it.
Any help is more than appreciated.
Thanks for your time.
If things are going good why would you think things all the sudden would change,Your fiance knows that there is a child comin in a few weeks and it bein so close i think he would of changed a little bit by now.. Yes! i think you do need to talk to him.. Just talk to him alone like before going to bed or something..Ask maybe how he things are going to change even if you`ve already talked about.. Seriously hun if he didn`t want anything to do with you or this baby he would of been gone a long time ago.. And also this could be you bein a little bit nervous and some what insecure.. Just try and think positive.. Congradulations!! And i hope you the best!! ♥Dez
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okay so, me and my best friend have an xanga together. we make layouts.. i don't want to make her mad or anything but i hate having her as a partner. i mean, i still want to make layouts but she pretty much ruins it for me. i don't know what to do. any advice?
Make a new Xanga and don`t mention it to her. And if she finds out tell her the truth.. Thats honestly what i`d do so i wouldn`t hurt her feelings.. But if you feel you should talk to her then thats what you probably should do.. ♥Dez
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well i have been on advicenators for like 5 months now....and at first i only gave people advice..but then i started asking stuff and lately i ask a ton of questions and dont really answer as many as i used to...will my account get deleted because of that?
Nopers!! ♥Dez
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ok so i am going to the gyno for the first time in a month...and i shave my pubes...so i was wondering if the gyno will expect it or if she will lecture me on not doing it?
Its your personal choice.. They aren`t going to care.. I`m sure they see it all the time..♥Dez
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on the phone bill does it show outgoing numbers and does it show imcoming numbers?
Yes it shows both! ♥Dez
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what time does verizons free minutes start and what time do they end?
9:01pm til 5:59am ♥Dez
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I was thinking of taking estrogen pills to help make my figure more womanly. Im 22 and I still dont have breasts and curves like I should. Do you think it's a good idea?
Nopers! i don`t think its a good idea..
Usually for pills like that or like diet pills they always have some sort of side effect that could happen and it usually is worse then what you need the pill for..
Check out google and read about it before actually takin the pill..
Type in Estrogen Pills and things should pop up about them.. ♥Dez
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im 13/f and i've just gotten my first boyfriend. He thinks of it as serious and so do I, he got me a dozen roses for Valentines and had them delivered to my 6th period class. I really like him and I wand to kiss him. I know this sounds incredibly stupid but does anyone have any advice because I'm really nervous and I don't know what to do and we're going to the movies saturday and I'm pretty sure he's gonna...
Well depends what kind of kiss you mean..
For like just regular kiss just make it simple..
But i`m guessing you mean like making out..
Well hun its really not that hard and it sure doesn`t take alot.. Its not hard trust me..
Well really just go with what he does and take your time.. after a few times you`ll both figure out what you both like while kissing..
Here are some tips..
-Brush your teeth before kissing,or have decent breath
-Don`t close your mouth while his tongue being in yours
-Don`t try to gag him with your tongue
-Swallow your spit before kissing
-Maybe touch him a little bit like on his stomach/sides or behind his neck..
-Also maybe the movies isn`t a good place for the first kiss cuz you`ll be nervous it might be easier if you guys did this a lone like maybe like as a goodbye kiss.. ♥Dez
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19/Male...I finally got up the nerve to talk to this girl in a lunch line. She seemed decent and smiled at me while we talked and introduced ourselves. But it was very short (maybe 2 minutes). I didn't get her number or anything but I see her everyday, and I still want to pursue her. It's hard to me to think of what to say and I really want to avoid that awkward silence that sometime happens. Any advice?
Hey..
Well just ask simple questions,Like how is she doin?
Maybe do this tomorrow and also ask what she`s doin this weekend and if she says nothin or nothin much then ask if she`d like to catch a movie,go out for dinner or just hang out some time.. And if she has something to do ask if she`d like to do something sometime..Don`t let their be a silence but don`t like talk your head off.. You should be fine.. ♥Dez
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To be blunt, I have a ton of hair down there that goes all the way up to my anus. is it supposed to go that far back? is there anything i can do to get rid of it? f-16
Yes this is normal..
Ways you can get rid of it is..
-Shaving
-Waxing
-Nair
If you need any tips for those ideas i`d be happy to help..[don`t feel funny or be a stranger] ♥Dez
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Hey i like ur page*! I have friends who go to UC, Im from toledo tho.. Im gonna add you as a favorite bc I dont have any yet =P Add me too plz.. thxx =)
x3
Kali
(BOYgimmeTHATx3)
Aw thanks alot.. And YES!! i defiantly add you back..
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How do you get over it besides popping the pills?
Well exercise might help you some and maybe try finding somebody to talk too.. ♥Dez
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so i just started shaveing "down there" and it never comes out like a good clean shave is there anything i could do to make it softer skin and get all the hair?
Shave with Johnson's baby bodywash helps me alot to keep it smooth,Also use Sally hanson's after shaving it smooths it out and helps irratation..♥Dez
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how would you define cheating??
kissing, sex, multiple relationships, etc etc??
i was juss curious.
thanks!!
I think having sex,kissing or anything like that is considered cheating.. Having multiple partners as even just sayin your dating is considered cheating even if you don`t kiss or have sex thats still wrong..♥Dez
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