Oh ok, I expressed my feelings to this guy i liked and i think i kinda scared him. Seriously there was that kinda ocward scilence, you know it was quiet. And yeah ever time i try talking to him hr just wont talk to me, and like im madly in love with him! What should i do i really reall need you help. ASAP
thanxs.
Just tell him that you didnt mean to scare him off and that you just felt that you need to get the weight off your sholders and let him know how you really feel... Ya know if hes gonna be an ass and avoid you now then hes not worth your time! I know its hard but if hes gonna be dick dont waste your time babe! Good luck and i hope he stops being stupid
-holly-
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well out of all my friends i am the only virgin. they all tell me I should lose but I am not confortible with my body and hate people seeing it i mean I am skinny but its like skin and bones. and I don't know if I am ready. I am only 15 I want to find the right guy firts but I do want to lose it everyone talks about it and i have nothing to talk about I get teased and all the stuff should i lose it and get it over with or wait tell I find Mr right please help
Signed,
VIrgin GIrl
ok dont do it because your so called friends tell you to... Seriously people that try and pressure you into that stuff isnt your true friend! I know how it is to be the only virgin and have everyone pressuring you... and to tell the truth i want to wait for mr right myself... Just remember that even though they pressure you that they will never get to get their virginity back! I know so many and heard of many people that wish they would have waited... dont be one wishing you waited too! Dont just lose it to some guy that means nothing to you make your frist time special! also... Sex is so overrated! Dont listen to those people keep your head up hun! Good luck and i hope things work out for the best
-Holly-
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hi..im 14 and i still havent even had my first kiss yet. Nor even a boyfriend...ive been asked out before and i just get to nervous to respond. Also, i dont know what to do when im with a guy. Like when i liked this one dude and i sat by him on a charter bus and he was holding my hand and i just was like freaking out and i didnt know what to do...i turned around...what do i do??
**tHaNkS**
Hey first off about the kiss, My close guy friend didnt get his till his junior year, also i know SO many people that havnt had a boyfriend or girlfriend. Dont get nervous around guys! theres nothing to be nervous about! Maybe get some guy friends (strickly friends) and get use to how they act and what not. Dont worry about the kissing and boyfriend stuff, the right guy will come around and you'll find yourself so comfortable around him and that you can be yourself! Just gotta wait for the right time!
-Holly-
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Is it possible for my husbands ex wife and a man to go into an attorneys office and pretend to be myself and my husband in order to make up a will leaving everything to his three children while leaving out my own? I had heard that my husbands former wife and her male friend had my social security number and pertinent info which could be used for such a thing. I heard also that they might attempt to make out a will taking all of the property and giving it to her children (who are also my husbands) . I don't know if it would be that difficult seeing as an attroney would not know my husband nor myself and these two could possibly pull this off. I am paranoid
Maybe you should take it to the police or something. That would be so horrible if that happened. And if they did that and like the police found out that'd be identiy theift and they could get into a shiiit load of trouble! Good luck with everything and i hope it all works out!
-Holly-
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OkaY there is this boy I like. And we go out, lets say his name is Chris. Well we were talking one night and he told me that he luved me and he wasnt kidding. And I told my friend I wasnt like I didnt believe it I mean if A boy just tells you that its really wierd. So yeah I told him I luved him back. But I dnt even know if he does. He told me he does and even e-mailed me saying that he luvved me and that he wasnt lyin. i really like him but im tottally not sur what to do and i like him alot. but i never really thought about luvin anyone until it was tru and how am i supposed to know its tru. i think i luv him but im not 100% sure and i told him that back so obviously he thinks i feel the same exact way. well please can someone tell me if you think he is playing with me. i mean he i liked him in the beginning of 8th grade but then he said that he couldnt go wit me cuz he aint want a girlfriend then all of a sudded we do go out and he is like all i luv u and he said he started likin me on the last day of school whitch was about a month and half ago..so its been a while and we have only been going out for..4dayz?!
Please help me!
Ok let me tell you Boys that young dont know what the hell they want! Seriously i know how it is like they tell you the love you one day then shit you break up the next day. Guys are so wishy washy with their feelings! They think they love you but it might not be love it might just be strong feelings. If you dont love him back sweetie dont tell him you love him. And after 4 days i mean thats possible for him to love you or whatever but I doubt that quick. Do you think its love or just he likes you a lot? Dont jump into things to quick, your still young enjoy it! If its love you'll know for sure 100%! if its not then you wont know. good luck with figuring out your feelings
-Holly-
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i went out with this guy fro 8 months, we broke up durning the school year and i still like him. now my friend likes him. well shes so annoying and she brags about what they to me. Even though he doesnt like her at all and thinks shes annoying. I duno how to make it stop, shes really getting on my nerves and i already tried to talk to her about, it didnt work. HELP!
Ok girls are such bitches i swear they do the stupidest shit to make you mad! I know I've got the same problem! But i grit my teeth and deal with it cuz once they know it bugs the shit outta ya... they will keep doing it. I'm horrible at hiding when i get pissed! But still maybe you should talk to her again... it might work if not try and shrug her off! I know its hard but keep tryin girly! Good luck
-Holly-
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I have had this friend for a really really long time. i am ova her house like almost every weekend and we r soooooo close. people actually think we r twin sisters. but lately this girl has really gotten on my nerves. she sings when she doesnt kno the words and she is a horrible singer and she always treats my sister like crap and when i say something to her sister she tells me not to talk to her like that. i dont kno wether i should tell r not!!! PLEASE HELP ME!!!
I think you need to talk to your friend about being rude to your sister... yeah ya know friends are crazy singin when they dont know the words and horrible singer... sounds a lot like me... I guess if those type things get on your nerves maybe you need space from her, she just seems like shes havin fun! or maybe she does it to be funny! I dunno but either way it shouldnt get on your nerves, friends do stupid stuff, but you can look back on that after a while and life
goood luck
-holly-
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Hey. I am going to the dentist soon and I know I have cavities. Not more than 3 though. And I know when I go to the dentist, they are going to have me get braces. Do braces hurt at all? I am just wondering. I am not all that tough. But I just want to find out how bad they hurt. Thank you!
Alright braces are a bareable pain... Yeah it hurts when you first get them on because your teeth are moving like crazy, and when i first got mine on i couldnt chew i had to learn to swollow my food in small peices... sad story but true... But after a week and a half or so it feels better. They arnt as bad as people say they are. But you gotta remember even though theres pain... You'll still have a beautiful smile after all the pain and effort! Good luck with the braces!
-Holly-
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are you starving yourself if you eat one salad per day?
Is a salad all you eat?
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ok this question doesnt really fit under the category but anyways, when you are kissing like with you tongue are you supposed be moving your lips too?
ok well if you think of this, you see the movies right... i guess thats how you do it, like ok so it'd be kinda funny if you guys were just sitting there like thos ":-O" swappin spit lol... ya know what i mean? Just watch some movies and get some tips from that! lol
-Holly-
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how can you find out who rated you and what they rated you as?
xo_always-Kerri
you cant find out who rated you but you can find out what they rated when if you click your advice column and click feed back, there will be numbers 1-5 and you can click on those numbers to see what was the question you gave advice on.
-Holly-
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I have a new bf and al he talks about is Wars , scares and other sicking stuff, but i really dont like him that much, how do I tell him that I am going to break up with him??? PLZ HELP JENIPHER
Just tell him either that you dont things are going the way that you planned and that you'd be more comfortable as friends. Or you could tell him that you lost intrest or something. Dont be to harsh, but dont let it easy.... Good luck
-Holly-
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Is it normal to have to change your pad every 45 min., because lately I've been having to change it about every 45 min., and like my whole pad is covered in blood,(sorry this is really gross!!), am i bleeding a little bit too much?? Is there any way that i can like, slow my flow down because lately, ive been having to wear 3 maxi pads to bed...but anyways...is this normal??
You shouldnt have to change them that often, but everyones flow is different and some are heavier than others, maybe try a tampon might hold more, pads suck! use a super plus tampon if you go to tampons... and if you like talk to your mom and see if its normal to be that heavy and she thinks you need to get checked out then go see a doctor, i'm sure your fine... but just in case
-holly-
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Is 9th grade a good grade and does it go by quickly?
9th grade was a pretty fun year for me, I'm now gonna be in 10th and I know that in 9th grade there was a lot of drama! Like Seriously Just keep outta that and you'll be set. and my year went by so amazingly fast! enjoy high school before its over! Also Dont be scared of high school, i know i was like omg i'm so scared and the movies with the upper classmen throwing you in lockers and stuff... thats a bunch of bull! Never happens!
-Holly-
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What are some good bareeque foods for the 4th of July???
I guess you can just do the normal like Chips, maybe you can get some 4th of july like cookies. And the usual grill stuff.
-holly-
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what r some creative ideas you guys did with your rooms or want to do?
alright well I'm doing my room in 50's, with like a booth and shit... it was cool at the point when i wanted to do it (8th grade) then we got all the stuff then i decided shit i dont want to do it anymore. But yeah that was my idea for my room.
-Holly-
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Ok, I love Linkin Park and Coldplay and I'm looking for music like that. Anyone got any suggestions? Thanks a bunch
Hmm Maybe Underoath... I dont know who coldplay are but Underoath is a pretty good band Not sure if you'd care for them.
-Holly-
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OKay so when I talked to my friends and she told me to ask other boys what they look in a gurl , so boys what do u look in a gurl??? Im 15
Jenipher
Ok wow the guy that answered this first question that was totally uncalled for that is so not true! Guys DO NOT like girls that are an easy lay! I have more guy friends than girls and Guys dont like girls that are easy and stuff, BIG turn off!
-Holly
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Hey there,
How can I get my mom to like this guy that I'm starting to get real close with. She's only met him once but I can tell that she doesn't like him. She thinks that he is meaning something different when she asks him a question. Like he said how people at work like him because he always talks to them so she thinks that he's just charming me too. How can I get her to open her mind a little bit more because he's completely opposite from my last boyfriend...
I think you just need to sit down with your mom and tell her what he really ment. Tell her that he means a lot to you and that you want to hang out with him and stuff. Just talk to her about him. She should give him another chance before she judges him.
-Holly-
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Hey do u think that u should show off your bra straps or maybe even more
I think you could show your bra straps once and awhile if the outfits right, but dont look slutty or trashy
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