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I'm Christina, and I'm 27. I tend to be brutally honest when I give advice or an opinion. I don't tell people what they want to hear but rather what they need to hear. They don't always appreciate it at first, but I usually get a thank you in the end. I have 15 tattoos, and 8 piercings. I'm married and just gave birth to a baby boy in May. I'm currently a SAHM so you can find me taking care of my son and binge-watching television while he naps.
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My best friend and I have been really close. We used to tell eachother anything and everything. We always stood up for eachother and we always taught eachother new things. Basically we were best best friends. She has a boyfriend which she has been going out with for over a year now. They are really good for eachother. They used to get into fights because she always flirted with other guys (majorly one time she gave 2 guys a shoulder rub for no reason) but he'd always come back and appologize. I always tried to help her with their problems and I hated when she was upset.
But a girl in school made up a rumor about me being a total flirt. I didn't really mind because all the guys were on my side BUT then my best friend (lets call her Nikki) started going along with it. She started agreeing with the girl and tormenting me about it. Months went by and slowly people forgot. Near Christmas time we bought best friend necklaces and I have never taken mine off.
After christmas break however she started the rumor up again. When I confronted Nikki about it she started yelling at me about how I flirt with this one guy (lets call him....James) all the time. I have liked James for months and he is the only guy who has ever really been there for me in almost everything. We fought but made up. The problem is she keeps bringing up the flirting topic all the time.
About 3 weeks ago I started noticing she always seemed mad at me. Her voice was snappy and she barely told me anything. She also made it her duty to try to get James to hate me along with every other guy. I also know she has talked to other girls and gotten many to look down at me. I have asked the guys and they say all I do is talk to them and I barely ever flirt. I have also asked some girls. She alwasy gets angry when im around the guys and especially when im around her boyfriend. Her boyfriend and I are really good friends and he also used to tell me everything about their relationship. He is also one of the only people im close with in half my classes so bottom line I talk to him quite a bit.
Lately she always makes me feel bad and tells me I cant stay away from the guys. The problem there is I have about....5 girl friends and about 20 guy friends. And ALL my girl friends have been staying inside for recess and i love recess so I go out. Also they are on the basketball team and I am not so many times Im forced to be with them. I have tried my best not to do anything that looks like flirting anymore and once publically humialted myself doing so. But everything I do seems to have no effect. She then says I do stuf for attention. Its driving me crazy and lately ive been crying almost everynight because of her.
I dont want to change for her but I feel as if I have to. I would rather have her as a best friend throughout high school then a boyfriend. I care about Nikki soo much. I really dont know what to do anymore. Its really hard for me.
About 4 days ago we sat beside eachother on the bus because we were forced to. The ride was pretty much silent except for two sentences. I turned to her and asked "Do you hate me?" and she replied "A little." those words hurt me so much. Then on the busride home out of nowhere she started yelling at me and telling me how horrible I was. She ended off saying "You have no idea how many people hate you" I have barely talked to her since. Ive been crying constantly. I try so hard to get us back but she keeps pushing me away. I dont understand it! What happened? What did I do? Please help!
You said you have 5 other girl friends. Hang out with them. This girl's a bitch. Flirting is NO big deal. She flirts, other girls flirt. EVERYONE does it. If she's willing to throw away a friendship because of flirting, then she's a sketchy little bitch & she was never your friend anyway.
16-female
i like this guy ..he is in 8th grade and im in 11th so in age there is like only a two year difference but i still think its awkward. but nobody really knows but i think he gets the idea because on the phone i was like why are you going out with this girl you could do so much better!! and hes like well who else am i gonna go out with? and im like ME!!! and hes like alright when i break up with her i'll see! so he might ask me out sometimes and i would really want to go out with him but i always hear people talking like oh my god i think it makes girls look bad if they go out with younger guys and all this and my cousin is the same age as me and was talking about another 8th grader she thought was hot and her mom was like OOHHH GODD! thats pathetic, he is so much younger than you!! and all this and i was just thinking oh jeeze this is great. im scared of what people will say but i really wanna go out with him but i would be embarassed if people found out, not embarassed of him but just our age difference. i just dont know what to do!!
I'm younger than my boyfriend by 5 years. Age is nothing. If you like him, date him.
14/F
okay, so everything in my life has been going wrong recently. I used to love volleyball, but now i hate it and i can't get off of my team becuase it cost so much, and that would be a waste of money. i used to love playing my clarinet and trumpet in band, but that's not any fun anymore. My friends don't seem to want to have anything to do with me. My grades are slipping. (2 A's, 2 B's, 1 C, and 2 D's) and im usually a straight A student. I don't have a boyfriend (i never have) and i don't think im pretty. My food allergies have gotten to the point where its super difficult to eat anything. i keep getting sick, which is causing me to miss school. my homework has been getting harder, and ive been getting more of it. my home life is miserable becuase i keep getting yelled at for not cleaning up
Get counseling because you sound depressed.
female btw. how would u know if someone has a crush on you? what are the signs of that?
When they talk to you a lot, and they always look at you & smile. They IM you alot, and always wanna hang out. And they get mad if you talk to some other guy. Stuff like that.
I'm thinking about getting bangs. I'm just scared I won't like them. Has that happened to any of you? I wan't to do something diffrent to my hair. Any ideas?
I did mine myself, but I'd get your's done professionally. Get side swept bangs, they're super cute. =)
14/f
this is probably going to be long.
ok so i met my best friend gab when i was 6. This past summer, she met some new people and became good friends with them. Best friends with 2 of them actually, even though i was supposedly still first. They hung out every day and spent so much time together that i felt left out and depressed. Now Gab has never been in a relationship, neither had andrea [one of the girls she became best friends with]. This past week while I was on vacation, Andrea got a boyfriend. I came back today and Gab immediately told me what happened, and details and everything. She says shes not sure if she and andrea will be very close much longer because of this. When she told me this, I felt a tiny bit of joy deep down because that means that I'll have her to myself again, in a sense. I don't know if I should feel guilty for feeling a bit happy though...because gab did pretty much ignore me because of andrea for like 5 or 6 months. So if you made it this far without getting confused, could you help me out?
Thanks
I wouldn't be too upset. Friends are forever, boys are whatever. Remember that. =)
ok, im falling for my ex again and i think shes fallign for me too. we had a conversation on aim tongiht ad it went like this.
me: i knwo you dont mean it
me: or do you?
me: :-\
me: haha
her: YOU WILL N EVER KNOW
her: hahhahaha
me: or will you?
me: i mean i
me: or will i?
me: lol
her: loserrrrrrkid
me: yeah, but at oen time you liked this loserkid
me: haha
her: hahahah
her: YOU WILL NEVER KNOW
me: or do you still?
me: haha
her: again
her: YOU WILL NEVER KNOIW
her: hahahahah
me: maybe i might find out
me: hmmm...
me: haha
her: haha
me: only one way to find out i guess
me: haha
her: haha that sounded funny
i need your opinon on this. her and i are supposed to go to the mall next weekned. please help me. does she still like me? what should i do?
Maybe. Ask her, because she's the only one who can tell you upfront.
ahh! okay so im so excited for the summer. just about everything about it. alright well i just started wearing bikinis last summer (im in 8th grade now) and i had one but it was on the top part of it because the bottoms were way to big (i could find a bikini anywhere that fit). i searched like the whole mall pretty much. im not fat. im just really skinny and like flat chested. then i mean. like i recently got my period for the first time and i have right now like "speed bumps" ha. so like i should start getting boobs soon (like before like i start swimming and stuff). what are some REALLY good bikinis? like they look good and are comforable and ect.
heres some stuff that might help a little:
-i have blonde wavy hair
-blue eyes
-5 foot 3
-100 pounds or something like that
and um yeah.
pretty much anything but not like white or brown.
maybe like blue or black?
or white and blue stripes? idk!
thanks!!
Check Pac Sun or Zumies. They have REALLY cute bikinis. So does Target & Wal*Mart.
can you get aids from like drinking after someone who has them ??
(i dont have them i'm just asking lol)
I doubt it. I only know of three ways to get AIDS.
[1]Sex with someone who's infected.
[2]Sharing needles with someone who's infected.
[3]Birth.
Ok me and my freind were at the mall and, we soo a freind of mine. He didnt no her. I have non her since fourth grade. Anyway ive liked for about a month now and, he came on to her today and, followed her everywere, he wouldnt stop she was hitting on both of us. I dont no who she likes but, my freind i think no's I like her. What should I do? Hes relly cocky. And can you give me some advice on how to get her to like me. Im pretty shure she likes me though, cause in the movie she wouldnt stop like leaning on me and, and my freind was like trying to get her but it wasnt working. But she said me and her were at a party and she said me and her had sex and I got her pergnet and she has a miss carage. I no I didnt so I went along with it. But what should I doo about my freind? And what should I doo about getting her?
Well, if you think she knows you like her, chances are she does, but just in case, I'd tell her how you feel. She probably doesn't feel the way your friend does about him, so I'd ask her out.
15/f
let me give you a little backround information before i ask you my questuon, or get into my actual story.
when i was like really really little i had this sleep over with my friends at my dad's house, my dad's a little too huggy, ya know what i mean? like when a parent hugs kids who have really big personal space bubles... so anyway there was like this group counceling thing and all of my friends got together and talked about how inaproprite my dad is, so there was a bunch of legal action taken and stuff like that (which is still going on now that i'm 15 instead of 7) so anyway, long story short i have some really serious issues diriving from this case thing... and one of which is that i think it's all my fault....and i know that a normal person would abandon anyone who was involved... but i didn't, i stayed really colse with one of the key people that did this... i know it's messed up but... she was the only one that would talk to me for about a year. so fast forward, now i really love all my friends and i trust them with all my heart, and one of my closest friends knows a little about the case.
so here's what i'm pondering about... my really close friend got really pissed off because he thinks my dad's really really cool (which he is) but anyway he got pissed cuz i still hang out with my friend that was involved in the case and because of serten things that this case has caused we couldn't give him a ride home like i said we would and so he said "this is all your fault, seriously, if it wasn't for you i would have a ride home, you need to pick better friends" so i was shocked... all i could say was "i'm sorry" and he said "you should be, this is all your fault". so i'm just hurt... and i don't know what to do at all... what should i say to him... what should i do... and should i stop hanging out with my friend who's involved in the case? keep in mind that whenever i talk about my dad's case i start crying and it's really hard to stop... thank you sooo much for any advice you can give me... and i'm really sorry this question's sooo long.
I don't think he knows how much he hurt you with his comment. Talk to him about it.
Has anyone ever been to a Jack's Mannequin concert? Do they usually sign after playing?
Most bands do, so I'd imagine so.
can you get aids by using a toiletseat some1 used who had aids?
Nope. There are only 3 ways to get aids:
[1]Sexual intercourse with someone who's infected.
[2]Sharing needles with someone who has it.
[3]Birth.
wat hair color will look good on a filipina girl with black eyes and yellowish beige color of face?
Black.
Ok, so im 18 and my boyfriend is also, we've been together for almost a year (11 months). We were both virgins when we 1st had sex with each other in march 2006 and have had it casually like every other month since then. It seems as though i have a discharge all the time like im going to have my period, its white, and a little pasty and sometimes mucusy but i dont kno if that just my body getting used to having sex...will it go away? becasue its been like this for like 4 months, and like twice it has been very itchy on the inside of my labias and when that happens the discharge is more brown pasty. I havent had a fever or feel sick at all and my boyfriend says he hasnt had anything wrong like itchy or discharge or anything that on his area.....????
Discharge is normal. It's always gonna be there, and it's probably never gonna go away. Don't worry about it. You're not diseased. Every girl has discharge.
i rarely wear any underwear and i was wondering if there is anything wrong with this or anything bad can happen to my you knowww
There's nothing wrong with it.
my friend has a girlfriend, he admitted to me last week he has always had feelings for me, i couldnt say it back and i dont know why. i regret it. its all thats on my mind and im afraid if i tell him things will get all wierd or he wont want to be my friend or something. please help me =(
If you have feelings for him, then tell him. If you don't have feelings for him, tell him the truth.
after you get your period do you still get discharge?
Yeah.
I was just wondering, how do you make those hearts that people keep putting after their names?
thx in advance!!~
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It'll show here, but if you go on my column it'll be a heart.
How do I tell my bf that I don't want to have sex with him? I don't want him to be hurt..
Tell him you're not ready for sex yet. If he loves you, he'll accept your decision. If he doesn't, then he was just in it for some ass.