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hi; i'm haleigh and an eighteen year old college student at keiser university with a major in crime scene technology. i'm naturally blonde, i'm not super skinny, and i'm way too pale. i almost always screw things up and i'm nowhere near perfect. i've begun to accept myself for who i am and i'm not going to change for anyone. i was born in ohio and there are times that i miss it there. i love animals, i have four cats and two dogs. i hate spelling errors and chances are i'll correct you if you spell something wrong. my favorite television show is ncis and my favorite movies are rent, twilight, and jawbreaker. i don't read very often, but my favorite series is the twilight saga. i love the internet and i'm probably online more than i should be. i've been single for almost two years, and i hate it. my major celebrity crush at the moment is michael weatherly. i've been through more than anyone my age should have to go through, and there are very few people that i will tell about it. i can come off as a bitch, but if you get to know me and don't lie to me, i can be an amazing person. trust doesn't come naturally for me and it's hard for me to let people in completely. i'm just an average teenage girl trying to get by. if you want to know anything else about me, just ask!

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hi ive had this horrible sore throat for like 6 days. ive tried everything and nothing seems to work. ive stayed home 4 days from school and am really far behind. what is there to do ive watched like every movie and slept but i get so tired, how do i cure this and what can i do while im sick

Cough drops, cough syrup, childrens advil ((it always works they are really tiny and i take 4 and i always feel better)). Play games on the computer, chat to people online, watch TV, listen to music, etc.

XOXO
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hey i have this best friend which is going out with a guy i like they dont talk much tho they have been going out a while and i like the guy my best friend is going out with i know it is confusing...

Whats your question? Uhh don't interfere..move on..get over him

XOXO
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13/f

I haven't had my period for about two months or so..and I've been showing all the signs for having my period ( cramps, pmsing, extra discharge..the usual ) so I started wearing my pads..but it hasn't come for a while..like the signs have stopped for a week? Is this normal?

Mine was like that once but it hadn't been two months. I might go see a doctor if I was you.

XOXO
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ok..there is this guy at my school and ive liked him a pretty good while..everytime i see him i my heart starts beating fast and i like melt..well there was this church thing that i went with,with my friend and he was there!! we went to an arcade and we was flirting with me and after that we went to arbys and he was flirting some more..is that a sign he is starting to like me..and if he is i dont know what to do cause he just broke up with one of my good friends and i feel bad if he asks me out and she still likes him..should i like him or should i just say no if he asks me out?

Personally I would say no if you know your friend still likes him but talk to her and if she says its okay then say yes.

XOXO
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there is this girl in school who i am in love with..she is really hot and everything but i like her for who she is not the way she looks. she knows about how i feel obviously since i told her..and she used to like me a lot. we have made out and everything several times. she told me not to tell anyone because the first time, she was still going out with her boyfriend but she liked me not him and the 2nd time, it was the night she dumped him for me..it seems like after she dumped him she stopped liking me..she comes over almost every weekend but she was mad at me for a while because i told my best friend that me and her had made out...heres what happened..my friend knows how to annoy the shit out of me and he did just that...she took my arm and put it behind my back and pushed it up and it hurts sooooo damn bad and he wouldnt let go until i told him :(...please dont tell me i need to get new friends, theyre the only ones i have. so anyways, now she likes another guy, hes a sophomore, a pothead, and i think hes using her. i found out on halloween that her and him have hooked up and shit and it kills me to think about it. she acts like nothing happened and she constantly makes me mad by telling me about him and everything, she knows it pisses me off and that i love her. i cant move on, i have tried. i have told her how i feel.

*If you must choose between someone you love and someone who loves you, always choose the one who loves you... because you can always learn to love someone, but you can hardly ever make someone else love you* - have you ever heard that? i wish she could do that..i just want her back so bad so things could be like they used to be, she said she doesnt know why she suddenly stopped liking me but one of the reasons is she cant picture me as her boyfriend because of my personality...she pictures me as a bestfriend not a boyfriend AND I HATE IT!!! i dont want to be her bestfriend, i want to be her boyfriend...it hurts to think about it all and i dont know what to do i am soo confused. i think about her all day..i asked her out at homecoming during the last slow dance and she said no..i went home and cried, she hadnt told me she didnt like me anymore and everyone told me it was so sweet and romantic and w/e and she would surely say yes...i love her so much! i need her...

Heres some more sayings *You never know you have made the wrong choice by not going out with someone until you meet the WRONG person* -- *If you love her let her go. If she comes back then she really does love you* -- I hope they help.

XOXO
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thiz guy we'll call him "bob" well bob is a really good friend of mine and we like each other well on aim the other nite i wrote in the wrong box "the condoms are in the pantie drawr" n he got it instead of mi friend n i realli dont hav condoms in thur mi friend sed she dose and so i 4got 2 put the ? at the bak so i was talking to him and he was like so can i come over so we can use the condoms and i was like i seriously dont have any but u can come over any way and he was lik sure but now he thinks i keep condoms and im only 14!!! so i dont know what to do now!

please help

thnx

Have your friend tell him that and tell him what you put in the question.

XOXO
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Does anyone know where i can get some great clothes for low prices? (Im really into jeans, sweatshirts, long sleeve shirts, knee high socks and accecories!)

14/f

Wal-Mart and Target have low prices. Aeropostale isn't that high and have really nice clothes and stuff.

XOXO
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I was thinking...do any of you agree with the saying, the right guy will come when you stop looking?

Yes and No. Yes because you will least expect it and you will be in love and it will be someone you least expected it to be. No because how will you know its the right guy if you don't try out other guys?

XOXO
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I have this piece of hair that won't lay down on my head. I have this hair style where you twist your hair and use a claw to clamp it 2gether. this one piece won't lay down w/ gel or water or my perm junk please help i'll rate high (except for Snake Eyes) SO DON"T ANSWER SNAKEYES

Use either a bobby pin or one of those hair clips i dont kno wut they r called tho.

XOXO
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okay im 13/f and i want to ask my mom to buy me a thong but i am afraid shell think im like a street walker/hooker/slut whatever but i want one. i dont know of anyways that i could get one myself other than sneak it like go in a diff aisle thingy and buy it with my own money but i dunno. any ideas?

LOL I know what you mean, I feel the same way LOL. So I don't really know what to tell you sorry.

XOXO
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I was wondering how you got the star when you first come to your site.
The music, and the pop-up message Thanks:)

Music--www.starlightmks.com Star & Pop Up--http://www3.buddy4u.com/view/?u=xXx+HTML+xXx&redirect=true#text

XOXO
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is it bad if u masterbate a lot?

Depends. In my opinion its stupid but, you obviously have a different opinion. I don't see anyway that it would be bad.

XOXO
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okay well theres this boy.. hes 15 i think and im 13/f
hes the kinda guy who does drugs, drinks, does stuff with girls, everything like that..
hes really nice to me and he talks to me a lot. he says he likes me but idk if he really does cuz he might just be fooling around. he touches me in the halls n stuff but him and his gf of 6 or 7 months just broke up a few days ago because he made out with someone else and lied to his gf about it. well some of my friends are sayin i should ask him out but idk what he will say. what do u think? thanks! :) (sorry so long)

I wouldn't go out with a guy like that if I was you. Lets put it this way how would you geel if you were his gf of 6/7 months and he did that to you?

XOXO
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so far me and my boyfriend have had the PERFECT relationship. we've been going out for 10.5 months and i dont know what to get him for our 1 year anniversary?? what should i get him? do i get him anything?? do i make him something?? if so what?? HELP!!

You don't HAVE to get him anything and why are you so worried its only been ten and a half months you still have like what a month and a half to two months? But get him maybe like some tickets to a concert for his favorite band.

XOXO
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okay i asked a question a while ago and said that I had broken up with my boyfriend because i kissed another guy that i have liked for about a year. Well the guy that i kissed the one i have liked for a long time, he doesnt go to my school and he is a family friend, i have spent the night at his house b4 so we both know eachother very well. i dont know what to do.PLZ give me good advice!!!!!!

Tell the guy you like how you feel about him and forget about your ex.

XOXO
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Okay, I don't know if your any good at this but I've known this guy Mick since I was 5 pretty much (I'm 18 now), we have a good friendship and everything then his bro. comes and asks me if I would possibly go out with Mick, I told him yeah, so about a week later Mick and I were hanging out in my truck listening to music, and he asked me out and verything started going good till we went to a competition for band and he met this other chick from Dyer County named A.C. and she wouldn't leave us alone and about 3-4 days later we broke up but we're still friends and hangout out and everything, but the thing that bothers me is that one minute he'll act like he still likes me more than a friend (He still does, he told me himself) then he'll act like he hates me when his bro. Justin will stick us on the same shift to work for the ballgames, Justin's meaning to stick us together like that because he doesn't like the Dyer County chick either and she lives 2 hour away, he doesn't have a car or liscense and can only talk on the phone for about 15 min. at a time and I know so much about him and I'm one of the people that can get him to talk when he gets pissed. she's all into pot and she doesn't care how she looks and she's not good for him. Should I try and get back with him by looking all cute and irresistable around him because it drove him mad one night when I was joking around with some guys that are just friends that I would never do anything with. or what? please help me.
oh, I'm 18 and a white girl, and Mick's a 18 guy.
ash

Aww...You could try that. Tell him how you feel and try to win him back. gl

XOXO
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what are some good titles for this poem and what do you think of it?.?.?.?...

I wish I was dead
I'm ready to die
My life is worth nothing
No one cares if I;m alive
No one would miss me
No one at all
I wish i was someone
Someone people liked
Not a loner thats sits by themself
Or someone that crys at night
I wish that I could start my life over
And never take this path
The path of misery and sorrow
Of grief and pain
If someone took the time to be my friend
They would see that this is my life's end...

It's okay. Life, Wanting to die, or Unloved.

XOXO
Charmed-Cherry21

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what would the average weight for a 5 year old whos 3'5 be?

I would say any where from 44-65 lbs.

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I have always heard that if your wrapper of a Tootsie Roll Pop has the indian shooting a star you can send it in to get a free Tootsie Pop. Is this actually true, and if so who do you send it to?

Thats what I have heard. Try calling the company or go to this website and try to see if you can find the address http://www.tootsie.com/pops.html

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I have a scrapbook that I'm making for my Junior/Senior year..I'm really into decorating..but I was just wondering if anyone has any cute ideas for me to add to it..or maybe some stores where I could go to find some cute things..besides Walmart..and Joanne fabrics..are there any other places? thanks!

Target, Michaels, Joanne Fabrics, Wal-Mart, and Linens and Things. Joanne Fabrics and Michaels are my top choices.

XOXO
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