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well, i like this guy that i met from my camp...(he's my ex) lets just call him.....Z...well, z and i loved each other A LOT. and we dated for a long time, and then we broke up because of long distance...and then i still like him now...but he likes another girl from my camp.....shes a really good friend of mine, and she knows how much i still like him, and thats why theyre not going out yet.... i really want to get back together with him, but i dont know what i should do. my other friend from camp tells me that he still likes me, but im not sure..WHAT SHOULD I DO?

well ask him. Even if he likes you long distance is going to kill you in the end. I say stay really good friends and when camp comes back around try. I mean even if you wanna go out thats fine but not seeing him all years gunna really start to suck. just ask him and pour out all your feelings if you really think you can live with LD.

gl xoxo

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ok so love this guy soo much! and he's one of my really good friends. i wanna tell him i like him more then a friend//but i dont know if i should cuz i dont know if he likes me back as more than a friend and i dont want to create something akward between us! please help me. should i tell him i like him or not???

tell him! dont be afraid!! it most likely wouldnt be awkward i just told like a really good friend of mine i like him and he doesnt care lol, niether should your friend that would be stupid.

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I am not racest at all..but I have a problem..Okay well I have a really good friend..hes black..im white..I have liked him for about a month now..I really like him..hes all I think about! I found out a week ago that he liked me and wanted to go out with me..he even wrote the sweetest peom ever about me..I cant go out with him because my mom would flip if i went out with a black person..she just doesnt believe in black and white..and neither do some of my friends..It just wouldnt work..I really like this kid and I need to get over him! what should I do?! please help...

wow. They dont "Believe" in it thats really sad. Well then just dont tell your mom or your friends who cant handle it. Say your just really good friends when you hang out in front of them. if you asked for her to accept him you could cause her more hate and stuff b/c she knew he wanted to go out with you. I cant believe this... sry its soo tough.

well inbox me~
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I have a major crush on this guy at my school. I've known him for awhile because i cheered for his football team for 3 years. I like him a lot but.. he likes my other friend. She's my, well one of, my best friends, and she's falling for him to. Should I still like him or like what should I do?

well if you really like him you wont be able to control your feelings. Plus your chance can always come around. Consider yourself lucky hes going out w/ someone else first b/c you can see whether or not hes a good boyfriend. I mean nowadays dates really dont last that long it usually doesnt really get serious at your age so you'll always have a chance. Stay really good friends with him or make really good friends with him and just hang in there.

gl xoxo

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So I am going out with this guy and my family doesn't know about it because they dont like him. I've mentioned this in my other questions. Well it seems like we are in an ongoing competition to make the other one jealous and its getting on my nerves! im not trying to make him jealous but he really doesnt like one of my close guy friends! He says I talk about him all the time and i know for a fact that i don't! and even if i did hes just my friend! So he deals with this buy talking about these different girls he's been with! Well i guess i just don't know what to do about it! Can you help me out?

tell him you want this to stop. Say its stupid and you wanna just be together not getting eachother jealous. Tell him you'll stop with talk about this guy if he stops talking about these other girls. Then give him like a kiss or a hug or something just so its an official makeup not a fight lol. gl

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how do u make out?? i know w. ur lips but like do always use tounge r like kiss each others lips??idk! i have a b/f who tryed to make a move on me but i like turned my head its like cum on kiss me but when he goes to do it im like really scared..i guess its b/c idk how

yeah you usually always use tongue and if he knows how to do it, go along with it cause i sware its reallly easy and comes naturally so if you just take his lead i sware you'll be fine.

gl
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oK: sO i'M 16 fEmAle... aNd i know its super bad.. but i have been smoking for about 3 weeks now. like once/twice a day and i was just wondering about 4 months ago i had a sports physical.. and for one of the questions they asked me if i smoked.. and i said no because at the time i didnt... but if i were 2 get another physical/doctors appt. again.... and they asked me if i smoked would they be able to tell if i did? and if i answered yes... would my parents find out? and please dont give answers like: u shouldnt smoke! because thats not my question!sOrrY sO lOnG! LoL! pLeaSe dOn'T dElEtE tHis! i RaTe eVeRy1! (wELL!) tHaNx iN adVanCe

if you know its super bad, dont do it. But anyway to answer your question, they cant tell your parents and you should tell the truth for your safetey. But hey you can rate me bad, ill just delete the question, im just looking out for you.

gl xoxo

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this boy and i meet 1 year and 2 months ago at a cabin and i live in minnesota and he lives in a driffrent state and we talk all of the time on the phone and internet.he asked me out and i said yes and i dont know if its the right thing because we havent seen each other for awhile what do u think is it the right thing to do since i like him and he obviously likes me???

like i always say, long distance relationships have a real hard time working out. Like you guys should stay friends but working a relationship out will be way too hard. I mean who knows maybe you'll see eachother again one day but your better off friends. If you wanna go out thats fine too but it will get to you that you can see him really.

gl xoxo

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ive always been teased about how i was *too* skinny...ive always been self concious, and guys have said that im not...but i get mixed messages...my best friend told me i was almost anorexic! what should i do??????

your not anorexic unless you feel guilty after you eat. in that case you need to seek some therapy and tell a parent.

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What age do you consider to be old enough to have a baby. Not like.. "when you feel you are ready" or anything like that.. i mean like.. 16.. 20..

how old do you think someone should be before they have a baby?

doesnt matter how old, just married. This way they have backup and support for sure. Every baby should have a happy family not a mixed up boyfriend girlfriend relationship

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I watch alot of movies..well..alot of love movies. The movies where ppl fall in love. And the more i watch those movies the more i want that in reality. I want to be in love..does neone else feel that way?
Or am i just stupid for even thinking that :/

naw i know what your talking about those movies make me feel like a mush and just desperate for quik love... lol true love. yeahh i totally know what your talkin about ,your not stupid your normal hun!

lol xoxo
but bein single has it perks....... whether you realize it or not ....... gl

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I always look too young. I'm a junior and everyone around me looks like they're a junior- but I could be confused with a freshman! I have brown never died hair thats like 6 inches longer than my shoulder with bangs that sweep to the side kinda across my eye. Any suggestions on hair? also, I have brown eyes so if u know ne ways to do my make up that'd be great too! I need to look older! Oh and- how can i dress to look older? Thanks so much! I RATE!

go blonde, get angles, have fun ;-) . . . and ptu on extra makeup

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14 f, i'm in high school and i'm not that happy. sometimes i think its really fun but sometimes i just feel like crying. people say high school is supposed to be the funnest part of you life.... please help

everyone has their ups and downs. Not everythings perfect!! Lean on your friends for a good time and for the ones who make you cry, pull tricks on them. AKA... jello in their locker.... random water balloon fight, crap like that.

GL, go live your life up grl

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How do you take a pregnancy test like at home? No im not pregnant im just wondering.

well you use those little pregnancy tests from like cvs or whatever.. like EMS...stuff like that.

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I just bought sims 2 today and i was soo excited to finally get it. When i started playing it though, my computer kept freezing and moving really really slowly! I'm soo frustrated i'm ready to chuck it out the friggin window..any idea whats wrong?

your computers too stocked on memory. Try deleting basically everything you dont need. GL xoxo ...... and dont uninstall the other sims games, just clean up what you dont need on the comp. or maybe if your comps old thats tha problem??

gl xoxooxoxoxoxoxoxooxox

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i have friends and sometimes i feel like they dont need me... i dont know why... i cant tell them about it because then they would obviously say that its not true. i have a bestest friend but shes not in the U.S. so i cant see her veryday and hang with her. please help me...

umm .. its called lifes tough. Sry hun, your just gunna need to get over it and deal with rough times. Tell them how you feel & see what happens.

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hey i'm the girl whose walkman was broken because the sound was only coming out of the 1 ear. well it wasnt the headphones because i put other headphones in and it still didnt work, so i want to know if there is a place where i can get my walkman looked at/repaired. i have a Sony Psyche and i HEARD that they don't make them anymore, so where could bring it to get it fixed? my mom doesnt remember where she bought it. and would it be cheaper to get it repaired or should i just buy a new one? i have no idea. and i feel bad because we dont really have alot of money right now.

Aw.....well i suggest you get a new one. See those kinda things are just not worth going through repair plus they probably charge you a lot. Return the new headphones and get a new disman, you can get one for cheap at Walmart, just dont buy the cheapest one, it will last shorter. Offer to pay for it yourself, buy it with your own money from babysitting or allowance or w/e you get money off of.

GL!
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my friend is being extremely annoying. most of our group of friends got into advanced 9th classes (we're in 8th) and she didn't. she constantly says she's stupid and we're all smarter than her, and that isn't true. (she was probably 1 point away from getting in advanced anyway.) whenever she looks at our books, she makes a face and rolls her eyes. now, i can understand why she's upset, but we all know and it's getting really old really fast. what can i tell her to stop this??

Just say "look its not a big deal and we're getting tired of talking about this" let her be mad at you for a little while if she has too. its no big deal she needs to get over it sooner or later

GL
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Ok im 15 f and i was going out with my b/f for 6 months and then we broke up,but like 2 weeks ago he asked me back out and i said yes.When i used to go out with him, i would go to his house and hang out,but since ive been going out with him again my dad and his g/f wont let me go over there. they dont trust me, but i have never given them a reason not to, its not like me and my b/f sit around and make out all day,ya know? They said if i want to see him he has to come over here.but i want to go to his house i miss it.lol and ive tried talking to my dad and his girlfriend but they dont understand and i just cant win.

maybe.. i dont know if your mom is still in the picture but ask her? Lol.. and if she still has a say in what you do then yaa ask her. Lol.. also tell your dad you'll have him come to your house a couple of times but ask him if you can eventually go to hIs? Lol.. or you can always tell him your going to a friends house and (go) and then you guys can walk to his house for a short time.. lol if he calls ne 1 at the house have them say you went for a walk.

gl
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Well i broke up with tthe guy i have been going out with and now he is making my life miserable! he is spreading rumnors about me and telling my secrets to everyoine and its pissing me off!!!! how do i get him to stop???

tell him if he doesnt stop you'll start spreading crap about him too. And if he doesnt, do what you said and spread crap about him, you'll have to come to a truce.

gl
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