I like fairies (thus why I am wearing fairy wings in the picture). Good grammar rocks, too. It doesn't have to be perfect but I get frustrated when people completely disregard it. I like every color except pink. I hate the wind. Sometimes, I carry around a little teddy bear I found at an antique store. His name is Robert. I dress very eccentrically. It's not unusual for me to wear a prairie dress one day and a Mod dress (think Austin powers) the next. I don't dye my hair, or wear much make-up. I think it's sad that no one puts any emphasis on natural beauty anymore. I think it's a good thing to be open and educated about sex and other issues that are considered taboo. I have a hard time seeing where homophobics are coming from.
Basically, I'm just some weird teenager in Arizona. If I haven't scared you off already, feel free to drop me a line. -Danielle
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Can anyone recommend a good type of shampoo and conditioner? Like the company, and which kind to get? (link)
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Try Aveda. They make stuff formulated specifically for each type of hair. It's expensive, but if you use cheap shampoo and conditioner you run the risk of damaging your hair, and then you spend just as much money trying to fix it.
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well..I have a boyfriend whom is 15 and I am 14. Well..we kiss all the time, like at school and everythin'. But, I never get that 'click' you get when you kiss someone you really like. Meanwhile, there is this guy who i really like( he is 16 bout to be 17) and we were iceskating with all my friends and we went and sat down. WE'll call him bob..well 'bob' asked me to sit with him and I reated my head on his shoulder. later, I ended up sitting down on his lap and his friend told me he wanted to make out w/me so I went over and we started to mke out right in front of everyone and I felt great. like I got the 'click'! and people practicly had to pry us apart. SO I really like him but I don't know if he was just h0rny. Who do I really like? what should I do?! (link)
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First of all, I think it is stupid to assume that a 17 year old is automatically using a 14 year old. It's just ignorant.
Though, don't assume this is going to lead to anything serious. I suggest you break up with your boyfriend though, since you obviously don't like him very much. After that, just wait to see what happens. Let him come to you, and if he does, you'll know your answer.
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People get kinda jealous of my cause for my first car i am probably going to get a BMW or a MECEDEZ-BENZ and it kind of gets on my nerves..but non of my friends do cuz there wealthy too..like one of mine is gettin a range rover and stuff...but it bothers me what can i do? in 14/m (link)
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Don't rub it in their faces.
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I just wondered this.
I answer questions, and its getting interesting. The people who generally need answers the most are the immature ones. But when you give them an honest answer, they reject it, and rate you a 1.
Example is this question, asked by a stupid little girl in the pinnacle of her selfish years. She wants to know what she should do because she wants to hook up with a boy who has a girlfriend
http://advicenators.com/qview.php?q=376325 Thats the URL. Feel free to respond to it.
I couldnt care less about my rating, but its the response the rating means that kinda bugs. Dismissed out of hand because my response didnt tell her its ok to fuck up what might be a genuinely good relationship because she wants to hook up with the guy.
To all of you girls in similar situations, Dont be a slut. Its not flattering. (link)
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haha ... I totally know what you mean. This one girl wanted to get back with her ex boyfriend who sounded like a jerk off, and I simply responded that he's an ex for a reason. She rated me a 1 and said "loser." Wow, I'm SO HURT! You called me a loser and rated me a 1! How can I go on?!
Actually, I just sat there and had a good laugh about it. If you don't tell these girls what they want to hear, they get all defensive. It's quite cute, really. ...barf.
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do u kno wat the curse of eve is?????? thnxs ill rate 5 even if u dotn kno wat it is (link)
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I'm pretty sure it referes to a story that is something along these lines:
Because Eve encouraged Adam to take a bite of the apple, she is considered evil for tempting him to go against God's word. Her punishment was that all subsequent women would be evil and they would be cursed with a period every month.
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White Oleander, East of Eden, The China Garden, Mists of Avalon, and The Raging Quiet are some good ones, especially for girls.
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what are some songs that have to do with being broken hearted and missing someone? please help me! i rate high!! (link)
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almost any taking back sunday or dashboard confessional song
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my ex and I started to text each other for about 2weeks now after an ugly breakup. Right after the breakup she was texting me some nasty comments and calling me all types of names. I finally got sick of it and texted her back asking her to please stop and to say goodbye for good. Well the next night she texted me back saying goodbye. I replied saying goodbye again and said that if she really needed to talk to someone I would be around. Well she textes me back immeditely asking me all these questions about why did I cheat on her and this and that. Even though I never did, she had heard I did and just reacted without ever asking me. Well we went back and forth all night and finally hashed some things out. Well the next morning she texts me good morning and tells me that she has missed me and basically wants to start again but really take are time this time. i said ok and we started texting each other back and forth. Well one night I was telling her about my new job and she said that I would be able to buy her a pricie wedding band, or take her shopping.I thought she was joking but the next day she says the same thing. I told her I would not be taking her shopping anytime soon and she said she didnt want to go with me anywhere at all. Ok fine, well last night she texts me late asking me to go by her house because she was scared, apparently in the last month she has had her car stolen in front of her house, gone to court for something, had to buy a gun, and has a cop go by her house a couple times of week. I asked her what was going on but she wouldnt say. When we broke up she went around telling people that I wouldnt leave her alone and that we had never gone out, now I question why she wanted me to go by her house last night. Apart of me thinks she is trying to set me up? Plus one minute were texting each other back and forth and next she ignores me. What should i do I dont know whether to cut all ties or not.
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This girl sounds psycho. Block her number from your phone, now.
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sorry this is long, last night i dumped my bf, john, after 9 months of going out and i said that i didnt want to go out with anyone for a while, later that night i was with my friends and they called the hottest guy in school and he said he wanted to go out with me so now im going out with a hottie but i love john so much i dont know what to do i want to go out with john but im already going out with the hottest guy in school, i think im having a problem with letting go
please tell me what i should do i rate 5s for any answer (link)
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It might be too late...John is probably pretty hurt that you dumped him and went out with this guy right after. Why did you dump him in the first place if you still care for him so much? Try talking to John about it and see if he would even take you back before dumping the new guy.
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I'm 15 years old and female, and me and this kid, Shawn, were together for about 10 months. And we just broke up about a month or so ago. And a week or two after, he immediately went out with this girl, Deanna. Now Deanna is the biggest bitch ever and everyone hates her. She told me she'll never love Shawn and he said he doesn't plan on being with her for a long time. So I don't see the point of the relationship. There's this dance on Saturday. Homecoming. And I didnt tell Shawn I was going so I'm going with this kid, Nick, that Shawn is super jealous of. So I need advice on what I should do at the dance. Because I realllly want Shawn back because he makes me feel like no one else does. He said he plans on coming back to me but I hate waiting when I know he's wasting his time. I realllly need help. Like should I talk to him at the dance or dance with him or no? Help pleaaasssee. Please answer by Friday so I can know what to do on Saturday. Thank you sooo much.
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Show up to the dance with Nick and don't approach Shawn or even really look at him. That will drive Shawn crazy and he'll wonder what he did wrong and he will eventually approach you.
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ok my friend is a goth which i have no prob but everytime i hang w/ her,her goth friends come over and give me shity looks because im a "normal" person what should i do (link)
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Tell your friend that you'd rather just hang out with her if her friends are going to be so bitchy. If she doesn't want to comply, tell her to talk to her friends about it. You shouldn't have to be put into a situation like that.
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Recently one of my good friends and I have been sleeping together, but now hes trying to get back together with his girlfriend of two years. She and I are good friends also, and decided to get together to talk and just hang out. I informed him that if she asked about us, I wouldnt lie about it. He convinced me otherwise, saying that if I told the truth, they would never be together again.
So my question is, do I lie to her or not? I love them both, and want both of them to be happy, but I dont know what to do.
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It depends on whose friendship you care about more, her's or his. In the end, going with the truth is the best way to go.
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i have been dancing ballet for about 12 years. i love it. it always gives me something to do and it keeps me in shape. about a month ago i was in a horrific car accident. the car flipped over in a ditch and killed the driver. who was my best friend. i broke my back and now i am parilized from my waist down. i will never be able to walk again. i will never dance again. that is what hurts the most. no i dont feel sorry for myself because i know what happend to my friend casey. i miss her so much and i just feel like there was more that i could have done to keep her from loosing control of the car. and i have a boyfriend that i have been dating for 7 months. he comes to see me everyday and he occaisonally brings me flowers. i am 17 and he asked me to marry him. of course i told him yes. and we are getting married next year in august. i will not be able to have children .. and ladies you all know thats the worst feeling in the world. my fiance wants to adopt. and i am all for it. i just wouldnt be a regular mom that can hold her kids. that upsets me so much. i dont know what to do. (link)
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Adoption is a good way to go, but don't rush into things if you are uncomfortable with it. Getting married so young is a big deal in itself...so you should wait at least a few years before you adopt so that there's not so much stress at first.
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I know there's like 239812093 questions that are probably similiar to this, so i'll try to keep it short.
My boyfriend and I have been going out for almost 6 months. In the beginning and during the summer, everything was going really well, except a small fight once. But as soon as school started he started ignoring me more, we argue more, he rarely calls me anymore, and i'm not even sure if he likes me anymore. Everything seemed so "perfect" over the summer, but now things are different. Is there anything I can do about this? Any tips?
thanks soo much in advance.
and no stupid ass answers or i'll report you. (link)
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I think you just need to break it off with him, because you deserve someone who treats you better.
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Is there such a thing as to many orgasms? Can it harm u if u do have one to much? (link)
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I don't think so, but I bet if you masturbate EXCESSIVELY (I'm talking like non stop all day) you will probably irritate your parts, and that's never fun.
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I'm sorry this one is kinda long, but I reallly need help.
Okay so there is this kid, and i used to go out with him. He broke up with me and went out with this girl for a while. Then he broke up with her and a few weeks after he asked me out again. When I said no then, he went out with another girl and they broke up a few days ago. Well me and him both went to a new school this year (the same one) and I have been hanging out with him a lot more and I think I like him now, but I don't want to. I know it sounds weird but its true. And I think he likes his old ex because like everyone knows she still likes him, and the way he acts around her makes me thing he likes her too. I don't know what to do, should I act on my feelings, or should I just keep quiet until I'm sure. (link)
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I think you should move on because this guy just seems like the typical kid who can't really figure out what he wants. It's a new school, which means new people. I'm sure you can find someone there who will be more likely to treat you well.:)
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my bff was asked to go to homecoming by this reallly cute guy..and he asked her out but she said that she had to think about.. and i think i'm starting to like him..and friday at the f-ball game we were like flirting..what should i do if he like asked me out or something before homecoming..i don't wanna make my bff mad..cause i love her to death! thx (link)
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I agree with sevenleggedduck but at the same time, I'm sure there are hundreds of other eligible guys at your school. Why not avoid drama and start flirting with one of them?
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my boy friend wants to finger me and im gonna let him because im ready and i love him but what if something goes wrong .. like is it possible for his finger not to go up? (link)
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I don't know if you're ready if you're this naive about the subject. Maybe you should get to know your body a little better first before you let others get to know it. That way, the first time something happens you won't be so nervous, and therefore so tense. If you are tense, it will probably be a rather painful experience.
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What is something a girl could do to just make their boyfriend/guy just stop and go 'WOW'. Basically, what is the biggest PHYSICAL turn on? What could a girl physically to turn a guy on.
[Ex. Bite ears]
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This is an incredibly general question, but if you're a girl who dresses pretty casual most of the time, getting a really pretty, flowy dress (not trashy) and wearing it and maybe doing a little something to your hair unexpectedly might catch him off guard in a good way. Otherwise, coming up from behind him and softly biting his neck would drive almost any guy crazy. :)
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OK, so I'm average height, average weight. My best best best best friend is this girl, let's call her Patricia. Well Patricia told my other friend "Lucy" that I was thinking of wearing a leotard for halloween, and that I would look fat in it.
Patricia doesn't know I know she said that, but Lucy told me. I'm scared to talk about it with Patricia because we have such a good time together and we see each other alot, but its kind of eating me up inside. She knows im sensitive to this subject because I was chubbier when I was younger.
What should I do? (link)
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As fucked up as this sounds, she was probably just looking out for you in her own catty teenage girl way. She was probably worried that your costume would be really unflattering to you and therefore you shouldn't wear it. I think that you should just forget about it unless you hear her or hear about her saying something like that again. If she continues, you definitely need to confront her, but otherwise, what's the use of getting Lucy mad at you and Patricia mad at Lucy? That sounds like a lot of unnecessary tension over a silly Halloween costume.
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