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To lie or not to lie?
Recently one of my good friends and I have been sleeping together, but now hes trying to get back together with his girlfriend of two years. She and I are good friends also, and decided to get together to talk and just hang out. I informed him that if she asked about us, I wouldnt lie about it. He convinced me otherwise, saying that if I told the truth, they would never be together again.
So my question is, do I lie to her or not? I love them both, and want both of them to be happy, but I dont know what to do.
extra info: 19/f
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Well if you are really good friends with her, friends don't lie to eachother well not really really good friends. So i think you should not lie to her, tell the truth but then talk to her about it some more and try to talk about how you guyz won't do it anymore if they go out and other things like that.
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You shouldn't be sleeping around. Simple as that. But then to hurt someone else by lying to them about your infidelities? That's wrong.
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I say tell her the truth. If she's going to hook up with him again, she needs to know his past sexual history.
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It depends on whose friendship you care about more, her's or his. In the end, going with the truth is the best way to go.
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Don't lie, especially for someone who wants to go back into a relationship with someone. If you lie, you're betraying your female friend, and you lied. If you tell the truth, your male friend might think you're betraying him, but really you're just being honest. If it ruins his chances of getting back with her, it's his own fault.
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Ok honestly...I wouldn't tell the truth..but you have to end it with the guy..just sweep it under the rug...but if you see you and him hooking up in the future I would tell her the truth so, if at amy time you get caught it won't cause as much drama because she knew you guys had something! Good luck! ♥
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