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ask mackenzie





I did not write the book of love,
and I do not claim to be full of wisdom.

I sure do make mistakes,
but I live and learn!

I try to let no one come to me,
without leaving happier. [:



"Exert your talents,
and distinguish yourself.
Don't even think about
retiring from the World,
until the World will be
sorry that you retire!"



advice

♥[?]♥ *im real far away from home right now, and i had a boyfriend before i came to this state, then we got in a fight and he dumped me, i REALLY love him still, but he keeps hurrting me over and over again? should i let this time be the last?
Yes, definitely let this be the last time! People generally choose two common ways to view relationships. 1). Stay in a relationship which you know is going nowhere, but it's fun.. so live it up for now, and be bummed later.... OR 2).Get out of the relationship because of the fact that it IS going nowhere! Even though it's fun [which it may not be if he's hurting you -- no one likes to be hurt] it's not worth it.

♥[?]♥ I've tried to convince "someone" that it was all "Lenny's" idea to do stuff, when all I wanted to do was hang out with him, hes like a little brother to me..which is really cool, but I dont know how to explain to "someone" that it wasnt my idea. I've told her over and over again, I call her everyday telling her that I miss her but she just wont listen..
Is it possible that "Someone" doesn't believe you, because "Lenny" is telling "Someone" that the two of you getting it on was your idea? I wish I could be more help to you. Perhaps "Someone" will come around. In the mean time, YOU know the truth. Perhaps if you give "Someone" a week or so to cool off, they can manage to clear their head and figure things out. I do wish you the best of luck though! Keep me updated! =D

♥[?]♥ I lost a really good friend, but lets juss call her "someone" her ex boyfriend "lenny" broke up with her, and they still love eachother but Lenny wants to do stuff with me. I told him no, but someone said that all I want to do is have sex with him..and now I've lost her, I told her that he was hitting on me, and I dont know what to do! help me please!
Wow. I'm been in a very similar situation. The only thing I can think of to tell you what to do is try to convince your friend you did nothing wrong. If she's really your friend, I'm sure she'll believe you. I do hope things work out! Keep me updated!

♥[?]♥ okay well hey everybody..i have a girlfriend and she's the same age as me..14..and i dont see her a lot because its the summer..i really really miss her..i really think i love her but i was just wondering what a good place to take her out would be..like on a date or something

-S~W~A~N-
The park!! Feed the duckies!! Make it a picnic! Lay down on a blanket under shady tree! Even bring a radio for some music! Enjoy!

♥[?]♥ my friend amber is really making me mad! all she does is yell at me and says i lie to her what do i do??

signed,

im sick of it!
I'm hoping you don't lie to her,but if you do... then what do you expect?? You don't deserve to be treated like crap or wrongly accused. Just tell her how you feel. Explain to her that people should be treated how THEY would like to be treated. Hope this helps!

♥[?]♥ Theres this one guy "Bob" and I love him a lot, and he loves me also. But he's going out with my sister for 2 years, and of course they love eachother. My sister is 18 and "Bob" is 22 and I'm 15..if I don't get to have "Bob" I'm considering turning lesbian
If "Bob" is with your sister I doubt he loves you. However, IF he does, then he obviously doesn't love you OR your sister enough!! You have no future with "Bob", he's with your sister, and even if they break up... you still won't be able to have him without losing your sister! He's not worth it! And don't freak out if you don't get "Bob".. you shouldn't make a drastic change over a man you don't have any possible chance with.. that's not fair to yourself. You're only 15.. he won't be the last guy, that's for sure!! Give it some time.. you're young.. focus on other things and anxiously await the future! Be patient!

♥[?]♥ my mom is constantly telling me tha ti am fat... i never thought that i was before but now that my mom keeps saying it i am begininng to think that i am.. i dont want to loose weight becasue i am happy wiht the way i look but my mom doesnt get that. i am 5 foot 3 and 195 pounds but i knwo i dont look it because i do have alot of leg adn arm muscle. i dont knwo if i shoudl tell my mom to stop or jsut loose the weight to amek her happy even thought it wont matter to me... please help
That's disgusting!! How dare your Mom say something like that to you! Bottom line.. if YOU are happie with YOURSELF... you don't have anything to worrie about. However, if you let her inconsiderate ramblings upset you and decide to firm up, make absolutely sure you're doing it to feel better about yourself, not to please her. I wish you luck, and I hope you feel better! Stay beautiful! [AIM: SimpLy x GiRL] if you ever feel like talkin'. Take care!

♥[?]♥ okay i'm 14 and i have a girlfriend. I think i'm in love with her:-D. She's so awesome. What could i get for her or do for her to show her that i love her? i wanna do something original but not to weird lol. thanks lol.
Original? Hmm. well you could take her for a picnic in the park.. and feed the duckies! It'd be cute to bring a radio with you, and of course a blanket. You could make her a home video if you two have enough of a background to rekindle. Goodluck!

♥[?]♥ umm....why do pplz like t0 be rated?? like wat d0es it d0?? thNx!!

It's just a kind gesture; it makes them feel like their opinion they generously offer you was appreciated.

♥[?]♥ What should i do to get MOnEY faSTt!! i need it by Aug 8th to go to the beach with my bestest friend =) .. Thanks.. o yea i cant baby sit lol*
Mow lawns.. you can get 30 bucks a pop.

♥[?]♥ Do you think its right to "lay off" guys and girls while I start off Sophmore year? Like not going out with any guys or girls till I'm actually caught up with my work, and I have a grip on life?
That's perfectly fine. The start of a new school year can be overwhelming, and it's normal to want to be able to breathe and get a good handle on things. If that is the only reason you are asking for a break, let them know this. However, if you discover you're much happier without being committed to them, you should stay that way. You don't owe them anything, so don't feel bad about doing something that will help you. Thanks for asking me, I hope this was helpful. Take care! =D

♥[?]♥ i just won tickets to go and see the "special sneak preview" of "I, robot"... are the tickets for a PREVIEW? or for the movie itself? please answer this soon soon soon! (i rate people)
The entire movie, Hun. Enjoy! And Congratulations

♥[?]♥ dear advicenators,

i like this boy and he doesnt like me...i want to go out with him but i dotn know what to say....what should i say to him?

love,
sammie
You can't make someone love you.. just tell him honestly how you feel.. at least then you'll get a straight answer. It'd also be best to do this in person, so you can see his reaction. This way he won't have any shallow escapes. Hope this helps. Goodluck!

♥[?]♥ what turns on guys? x0x lol thankkkz .. i need the advice =p
Kissing their neck, pressing yourself against them, and rubbing their knees.

♥[?]♥ how do you make a website like what website do you go to to make a website?


-Webless
There's many. www.geocities.com ....... www.freewebs.com ..... www.tripod.com ... personally, I don't find any of them to be very good, I use a program on my computer. Goodluck, hope this helps

♥[?]♥ how do u get those stars beside your name??
It's your rating.. it builds up after a while.. be patient.. be helpful.

♥[?]♥ i feel like an outsider of my own family. My parents are divorced and both of my brothers live with my dad so i'm all alone with my mom living with her boyfriend. They do everything together, like this week they went to the beach without invited me,. they went to Alantic city, Virgina, flordia. . all w/o me,.. my mom use to pay so much attention to me ,it really hurts =/ i tried to talk to her but she just tells her boyfriend everything,. and than they yell at me for not cleaning the house ? SHould i move with my dad cuz my mom IS a complete bitch!! loL -sorry =( // aleast i would get more attention in the future..?

please help x0x
It's unfair for you to be put in that kind of situation. However, I only know what you tell me. I still don't know very much about the situation, and I'm afraid there's no way to put myself in your shoes, but you should do what you think would make you the most happie -- after all, you deserve the best, I'm sure. How old are you, by the way? Take care, and keep me updated!!

♥[?]♥ man...u guys ... how do i tell my bf im mad at him?? its somethng from the past but still he hasnt apologized or even brought it up and im really surprised...i dont wanna juss randomly be like OH WHEN U GOT A NEW GF AND JUSS DROPPED ME THAT REALLY HURT ME...i juss dont kno how to say it *we werent tekinially bf/gf but we wer dateing and then he stoped callin n got a new gurl and juss left me hanging!!* hes really is a sweet guy n told his best friend he made a huge mistake blah blah but when is a good time to bring it up and wat exactly do i say????
If you weren't dating then he doesn't owe you an apology. Perhaps it would be the right thing for him to do, because it seems unfair for him to treat you that way, but because you weren't dating, perhaps he feels he has nothing to be sorrie for. And if he doesn't know you are so upset by this, what do you expect? Just tell him blunty how you feel, and you might as well put all of your emotions on the table while you're at it. Goodluck!

♥[?]♥ Hey all my friends think im a total weirdo cuz i love country music ! i dont think i am i only like the new stuff like keith urban and gretchen wilson i hate the oldies tho ! whos with me does ne one else like country music !
I love all kinda of music, including country!

♥[?]♥ My brother likes my best friend- which Sucks. He liked her for a while and she would always tell me that she doesnt like him,. hes 16 were 14. She just asked me if i would kill her if she would go out with him,. n i go nah its cool,. which isnt ( i just didnt want to hurt her feelings ) even tho it hurts mine,. SO they both like each other.. and i think they are gonna go out s0on. Its going to be really weird,. like shes my BEST friend , when she comes ova to mi hosue for my brother n hang out with him!? i kno our friendship wont be as strong.. espically since my bro got his new car,. now he can take her anywhere..=/ Maybe i'm jealous? that my bro is stealing everyone away from me.. Please help x0x
You should have told your friend the truth


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