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HES HASNT APOLOGIZED N ACTS LIKE NOTHING HAPPENED...HOW DO I
man...u guys ... how do i tell my bf im mad at him?? its somethng from the past but still he hasnt apologized or even brought it up and im really surprised...i dont wanna juss randomly be like OH WHEN U GOT A NEW GF AND JUSS DROPPED ME THAT REALLY HURT ME...i juss dont kno how to say it *we werent tekinially bf/gf but we wer dateing and then he stoped callin n got a new gurl and juss left me hanging!!* hes really is a sweet guy n told his best friend he made a huge mistake blah blah but when is a good time to bring it up and wat exactly do i say????
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you need to ask him what happened with you guys! if you still like him then tell him! and don't ferget to tell him that you're hurt because of what happened! good luck!
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from experienced, i wouldnt talk about past girlfriends to your guy.. becuz it does cause some problems ,. but who knows,. just tell him taht it really did hurt your feelings!! .. like start out by sayin.. hey i really need to get this off my mind,.. and ask him questons like WHY he did that to you,. and make sure he isnt going to do the same thing to you again~ protect urself from getting hurt,.. I would do the same thing to him and see how he likes it,.. but thats just me =) lol* ...Just say you were thinking about the subject and u need to get it off your chest!!
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Well when you first started going out ,did you ever agree that the both of you could see other people? If it's something you never talked about,then no he didn't cheat and you're overreacting. He should've mentioned something,but hey if you leave the door open for a guy to weasel out,he will. I don't think I'd apoligize either,there's nothing to be sorry for. If you're like 14 or 15,you shouldn't tie yourself down like that. You'll have your married years for that. Bring it up just when you feel like and say what comes to mind. Don't tell me you have no idea what to say. I bet you do. So say it.
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Well the thing is does he have another gf?? and if he does...JUST DROP HIM..i kno its easy to say but hard to do..i went thur it..its his loss..and if he ever does come ard just tell him..no i dont want u back after what u have done
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Ask him how his relationship with his ex went, then be like so why did you leave me hanging like that it kind of hurt me a bit, and just go on from there
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If you want to bring it up maybe try doing it online like through a messanger or through an e-mail. That way you don't have to feel embarassed about doing it in person or soemthing. Also, u could try it on the phone, that way you'll get a straight answer out of him because it will be harder for him to lie to you on the phone than it is online (not that he would lie, im just saying, i dont know him at all) if you want just say " you know how b4 you got a new gf, well how come you didn't tell me, and just stopped calling, im not mad, but i just wanna know how come, i know we weren't techinally boyfriend n girlfiend, but still i wanna know when you find someone else, other than u just stop calling" Also, maybe he doesn't think he needs to apologize because he doesn't know how much he hurt you, so i think you should tell him that to, maybe say "i do care about you and it hurt when you did that." < at the end of whatever you say.
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If you weren't dating then he doesn't owe you an apology. Perhaps it would be the right thing for him to do, because it seems unfair for him to treat you that way, but because you weren't dating, perhaps he feels he has nothing to be sorrie for. And if he doesn't know you are so upset by this, what do you expect? Just tell him blunty how you feel, and you might as well put all of your emotions on the table while you're at it. Goodluck!
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