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I really need help. [Guy, here]
Recently, my girlfriend dumped me...for, I'm not even sure why. We were togehter for about 4 months, and I think towards the end of the relationship...she wasn't liking me all too well. I don't know what it is that I did. But, I just wanted her to be happy, so I made the breakup easy on her..at least. She broke up with me over the phone, and I just said, "Alright" and tried not to act real hurt, so she wouldn't feel as bad. But, truth be told...I am so hurt. It's been about a month. I just really, really, miss the girl. And I think that...-maybe- the reason she broke up with me, is because there's always been this one guy she liked, but he's younger. Like...3 years, or something.
Anyway, I'm so lost. I don't know what to do. I don't want to confront her about it...she just, I don't think she wants to talk to me. She won't talk to me on any messangers, or the phone, whatever. I'm like..totally out of her life now. But I miss her. She's perfect. I just, want her back...
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AWe **hug*hug**
Its normal for yo to feel so hurt, and empty inside... I know, its happened to me.
Wow, i cant believe she dumped you over the phone, if she cant comfront you about it, then maybe she isnt perfect.
If shes the one (i dont know how old you are) then talk to her, if she didnt tell you why she broke up with you, then you should find out...
Hope i helped, sry if i didnt
XoXo Becca
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Aww, honey...*hug*
It's normal to feel incredibly hurt. I broke up with one of my guys, and he didn't act hurt, then one day he just IM'd me and he was, like going nuts. It's bad to keep your emotions bottled up.
If she won't talk to you on IM, or the phone, go over to her house and talk to her in person. It might be incredibly hard, but you want answers, don't you?
I mean, one guy broke up with me and the most important thing to me was figuring out why the hell he broke it off.
Tell her what's on your mind, but try to remain calm about it.
ASK her why she broke up with you. You seem like a really sweet kid. It might not have been you at all. It might have been the younger guy she likes. (Trust me, if she ends up with him, unless she's REALLY immature, and he's REALLY mature, that relationship will not last long.)
There are other girls out there, and if you're as sweet as I think you are, you won't have much trouble finding one. Leave your options open. Don't dwell on her. It'll just kill you.
After I got my heart stomped on, it took me 17 months to really get over him, but now I'm with a great guy and have never been happier.
Be open to finding someone else. Some great girl can patch your heart up fast. =)
If you need more help, I'm on every day/night. (SirenCytherea on AIM)
Hope I helped a little!
-Siren =)
-Siren =)
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Ok ok,lemme get this straight. This girl you were going out with for a few months just up and dumps you,you don't bitch too loud about it,she won't return your calls or anything,but she's perfect? Dude, raise your standards,especially if this guy is like just reaching puberty. You don't really miss the girl,you miss the idea of her. Plus you're a little too passive,you made things a lil too easy on her. Be more of a prick man.You did nothing wrong and shes gunna ditch you for some guy who believed in Santa Claus last year? You'll soon figure out how much of a bitch she was and in your next relationship,you'll learn from your mistakes.
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Try writing her an email or a letter, tell her how perfect she is to you, just tell her everything you are feeling she might want you back...
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You sound soo sweet and i know that this girl must have mean't a lot to you, but im sure you will find a girl that will like you and will treat you so much better. i know its hard, but you just gota move on, you will find another girl, im sure cuz u sound so sweet and i think you sound like u'd make an awesome boyfriend.
good luck!! :)
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aww!! you poor thing! that is oh so sad. maybe she just didnt want to get into a steady relationship yet. or maybe she doesnt think its right to like two guys at once. whatever it may be, im sure she will talk to you if you politely and rationally go and talk to her about this. tell her how you feel. tell her that you like her a lot and dont want to lose her. she should understand. if she doesnt, then she wasnt and still isnt worth it. there is someone out there for everyone! hope you can talk to her and get her back! xoxo
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