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i feel like an outsider of my own family. My parents are divorced and both of my brothers live with my dad so i'm all alone with my mom living with her boyfriend. They do everything together, like this week they went to the beach without invited me,. they went to Alantic city, Virgina, flordia. . all w/o me,.. my mom use to pay so much attention to me ,it really hurts =/ i tried to talk to her but she just tells her boyfriend everything,. and than they yell at me for not cleaning the house ? SHould i move with my dad cuz my mom IS a complete bitch!! loL -sorry =( // aleast i would get more attention in the future..?
please help x0x
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I am in a similar situation, parents been divorced since i was 6. But i would never live with my dad. only b/c we dont click like me and my mom. So, either sit your mom down and explain to her throughly,if they yell at you just be sure you have a hold of the argument, DO NOT BACK DOWN! if that doesnt work then, yeah i would advise movin in with your dad...but that's only if you acutually feel it is right.
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if i were you i would move in with your dad for a while and see if you like it there better but if you like living with your mom better then you could move back in with her. i think that if you know how it is to move in with each of your parents then you can decide who you want to live with. or then agian maybe things with your mom will change and shell have more time for you. you never know!
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Youcould try living with you dad, see how it works out with him and if you dont like it there then go back and live with yuor mom and just make her pay attention to you
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I think you should tell your mom how you feel b4 you move out.. then you will know how she feels about it and everything, cuz if you move out, she might not know why, because you haven't told her. B4 you start the convo of telling her maybe say, "mom this is something i just wanna keep between the 2 of us" .. n then say "im feeling like ur ignoring me and just spending all your time with your boyfriend, i know its good to spend time with him and im not saying you should invite me everywhere but i want to be asked to go some places with you." .. "i feel like he's taking my place & you're fine with it" and then see what she says.. i hope everything works out and your mom changes and gives you the attention she should be giving yah. good luck :)
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It's unfair for you to be put in that kind of situation. However, I only know what you tell me. I still don't know very much about the situation, and I'm afraid there's no way to put myself in your shoes, but you should do what you think would make you the most happie -- after all, you deserve the best, I'm sure. How old are you, by the way? Take care, and keep me updated!!
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