my mom is constantly telling me tha ti am fat... i never thought that i was before but now that my mom keeps saying it i am begininng to think that i am.. i dont want to loose weight becasue i am happy wiht the way i look but my mom doesnt get that. i am 5 foot 3 and 195 pounds but i knwo i dont look it because i do have alot of leg adn arm muscle. i dont knwo if i shoudl tell my mom to stop or jsut loose the weight to amek her happy even thought it wont matter to me... please help
dancinchick answered Tuesday July 13 2004, 10:04 pm: Dont do wut ur mom says. If u dont tink u hav 2 loose weight than dont. Do wut u want 2 do not wut ur mom wants u 2 do. Hope I Helped
united_python_cheerleader answered Tuesday July 13 2004, 6:41 pm: Your not fat and your mom shouldnt be telling you you are ..... you shouldnt care what she thinks
InLoVex3 answered Tuesday July 13 2004, 6:41 pm: tell your mom you're happy with the way you are! if you like the way you are it doesn't matter what anyone says!
blackmamba answered Tuesday July 13 2004, 6:26 pm: wow.. your mom is weird. most mothers would be happy to have a daughter that is happy with her body image no matter what she looks like. you should never ever change yourself to make other people happy if you are already happy with yourself. the only reason to lose weight would be if you are unhealthy, but you said you have a lot of muscle, which means you are active and healthy. so i say tell your mom to shove it. :) [ blackmamba's advice column | Ask blackmamba A Question ]
babiiLindS89 answered Tuesday July 13 2004, 6:03 pm: Gurl if your happy the way you look than dont try to make anyone else happy not even your mom,.. ur mom should except you the way you are,. just sit down and talk to her and tell her how you feel bout this,.. My mom once called me fata ss and it really hurt my feelings than i talked to her bout it and shes never gonna say ne thing like that again!! It sounds like ur not fat at all!! and your mom needs to understand that! ,..i hope it works out x0x rate me! =) [ babiiLindS89's advice column | Ask babiiLindS89 A Question ]
Roxybabii922 answered Tuesday July 13 2004, 6:02 pm: Tell her that she should be happy with what you are happy with, tell her its not her body and its not her with the body so she should just let you stay how you like it, tell her you like the way you are, or tell her you dont like that she saysit because youtry to be happy with yourself and happiness is all that matters [ Roxybabii922's advice column | Ask Roxybabii922 A Question ]
Mackenzie answered Tuesday July 13 2004, 5:59 pm: That's disgusting!! How dare your Mom say something like that to you! Bottom line.. if YOU are happie with YOURSELF... you don't have anything to worrie about. However, if you let her inconsiderate ramblings upset you and decide to firm up, make absolutely sure you're doing it to feel better about yourself, not to please her. I wish you luck, and I hope you feel better! Stay beautiful! [AIM: SimpLy x GiRL] if you ever feel like talkin'. Take care! [ Mackenzie's advice column | Ask Mackenzie A Question ]
Brunettebabe14234 answered Tuesday July 13 2004, 5:58 pm: * i think that if u are happy with ur weight u should keep it* plus if it doesnt look liek it then u are fine*
Kissxme1121 answered Tuesday July 13 2004, 5:54 pm: No if you are happy with thw way you look dont change no matter who tells you. You don't seem to over weight if you have muscle! Just tell her that it hurts you when she syas that and you wish she would stop cuz you aren't gonna change! Plz rate me and good luck! [ Kissxme1121's advice column | Ask Kissxme1121 A Question ]
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