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How Many Guys Does A Girl Have To Have Sex Wih To Be A Slut??

ThnxLove

I think two, like. If she were sleeping with them at the same times, or something. If she had a boyfriend for a long period of time & slept with him, and then had another boyfriend for a long period of time then slept with him, that would be a different story. But, if a girl were single & she were screwing around with two different guys, I think she'd be a slut. (:

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Hello. What do people mean, when they say "Im Rick James Bitch!"

Heyy.
I don't exactly know what it means, I've never heard it before, but I searched online for you and found this website for you:
http://www.westword.com/issues/2005-05-12/calendar/nd.html

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I need to know the name of the song thats like "I FEEL SO LIGHT THIS IS ALL I WANNA FEEL TONIGHT I FEEL SO LIGHT TONIGHT AND THE REST OF MY LIFE" AND i need the xanga code! Could anyone please i rate 5s

The song is, "Tonight and The rest of my life" by: Nina Gordon. Sorry, I don't know the xanga code.

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Hey Amy, I've been reading your advice & xanga for a while, and noticed you're unhappy where you live. I hope you don't mind me asking such personal questions, but why? Most people would kill to live in good ole' Tejas! Aren't you embarassed to admit that you sit by yourself? I'm not trying to prye, I just would like to know, I'm extremely nosey & curious as you can tell. Why do you hate it so much? Please answer this back, and if you don't want to just im me @ flysincarr09 :) Thankyou.

Hey. No it's completely fine, I don't mind. A lot of people have been asking me, so it's no big deal, don't worry about it.

I'm unhappy where I live because, I've never moved before, I've never had to interact with people I don't know, so I'm completely new to this. You don't actually know what it's like unless you've had to leave people who you're extremely close to. I complain a lot, and a lot of people have been telling me to stop worrying about it, but it's not that easy. I've been best friends with the people I've had to leave, for the longest time, and we've been through so much, it just makes me sad to know that I'm not going to see them for atleast another 9-10 months.

I don't exactly HATE it here, I've met a few nice people that I really enjoy being around, but it's just not the same as having my old friends. It could be worse, I could be a loner & have absolutely no one at this school, but I do have a few friends, which makes me happy.

No, I'm not embarassed to say I have sat by myself. It's no big deal to me, I was brand new I wasn't exactly expecting to make a best friend the first day of school, and most people who are new don't expect much. So, no I am not embarassed to admit I sat alone for the first few days.

I also just dislike the person who I am today, because I'm just a fake & I hate it. I'm usually loud, annoying, obnoxious, stupid, & retarded. Now, I'm just quiet, shy, & gay. I just can't stand it, it makes me mad knowing that I'm one person behind closed doors, and at school I'm completely different. But, I guess it's just something that I'm going to have to deal with for a while.

If you have any more questions about this stuff, just IM me & ask please.

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Heyy Ok..
I have a boyfriend and I go to camp every weekend.He treats me good and stuff but I'm not sure if he is cheating on me with his ex(she likes him)And I like this other kid and we have been flirting for a lil while(I have known him for a while though) I'm not sure if I should dump him or not!! please help! If you help me I'll rate high!!

xoxoxoxoxo

Well you need to ask your boyfriend if he is cheating on you first. Like everyother guy he'll probably say no, and tell you he loves you & all that jazz. You know how it goes. =) Well, it really depends, if you have any negative feelings about your current boyfriend whatsoever, then I don't think you should be dating him, if you can't trust him! If you like this other kid more, then I think you should go for him! =)

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I got a earring about 1 month ago. Everytime I take the earring out to try and put a new one in, it seems like the back of my ear closes or something like real fast. I have to push the earring in, and eventually I get it in, and it's usually fine. Today I changed it again, and I tried to put a new one and I couldn't get it in cause it hurt. Then the back of my ear started to bleed a little. Does that mean it's infected? Or just irritated? Should I take the earring out and let it close up, or is it something that will go away? What should I do? I don't want to take it out. Thanks

Wait, so you just got your ear pierced one month ago? It depends if you got it pierced on your cartilidge or your lobe. If you got it pierced on your cartilidge you SHOULDN'T be taking it out, for atleast six months. If you got it pierced in your lobe, then time can vary from atleast 3 months onwards. You shouldn't have taken the piercing out if you have only had it for one month.
But you may mean that you've had it done a lot longer & you got new earrings, and traded them one month ago. It's probably irritated from you switching earrings so much. You need to keep an earring in for a certain amount of time, and NOT touch it, just clean it. It COULD be infected, but I doubt it, you just need to make sure you care for it. You shouldn't take it out and let it close up, if the irritation continues after keeping your earring in for a length of time then you should go back to the place you got your ear pierced & hopefully they can give you some better advice.

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I got my nails done (a full set) and they've grown out. I can't afford to get them filled or to go back to the place to get them removed. Last time, I tried tearing them off myself, but it took a week and they looked miserable. So is there anything cheap I can buy at that store that will take them off?

Yes, there is stuff that you can get.
Anywhere you can get fake nails, you can get fake nail remover. It'll cost anywhere from 4 to 8 dollars.

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okay well im 13-f and i got my belly button pierced when i wasz 12. and for my 14th i wanna get my tongue done. because i really want to i guess lol... my mom and my sister has it so i want to. But my mom wants me to wait till im 16 to get it done. i dont get it at ALL because i was 12 when i got my belly button and my sister said it doesnt hurt at ALL. UGH this makes me so mad. i want to convince her into getting it for my 14th or even 15th birthday. PUHLESZ help me!!! i rate 5'sz!

and i already tried telling her that i already got my belly button and it isnt that much of a difference. so that isnt gunna work.

Your tounge is so much different then your belly button. Your belly button never shows unless you want it to, but your tounge always does. Your 13, you have way more things to worry about in life growing up then a stupid tounge piercing. They aren't even attractive, I don't know why anyone would get it done in the first place.

And, it's stupid to write s's & then put a z afterwards, it makes you look illiterate. You're already stupid enough, way to make yourself look even MORE stupider.

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Hey i am 14 and I mean i am very flirty its just liek my personality and me my best friend adn her boyfriend were going out to dinner one night and I guess I didnt relize how much i was flirting cuz when she went outside to go call her mom to pick us up, he kissed me and I hate to sound like a slut but i liked it and i am starting to like him more and more but i feel really bad! we have been best friends scince 1st grade, How can I brake the news to her and still keep our friendship, or should I just not tell her? Please good answers only I rate High!

I really think you shouldn't tell her. You might like him, but she's your best friend. You wouldn't want to break your best friends heart & date her boyfriend would you? My best friends were in a similar situation, & they ended up not being friends in the end. What if you were in her situation? Wouldn't you be SO pissed if she took your boyfriend? But, in a way she is your best friend, and you can't control who you love. So, you really need to just think, risk losing a best friend, or just having an awkward relationship! Good luck with choosing. :)

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Yesterday we had a BBQ and me and some of my cousins walked down the the "haunted" house down the street....well my little cousin said she saw something (we were looking at the house and luckily no one was home) me and my other cousin didnt believe her at first so we told her to go bak to the house anyway we looked at it a little longer and both me and my cousin saw a white face with no eyes or mouth appear in the top window! It scared the crap out of us! Then later on my other cousin saw a mouth in the same window...we saw a bunch of other stuff too. Do u think the stuff we saw was real? I felt really weird around that house...and i am really freaked out by it...Plz help! I rate high!

It could've been real. & It might not have been. It's really if you believe in the supernatural or not. I do, so I think that what you saw is real, but other people have different opinions! If you all saw it, then it IS real, or it might just be some sort of object in the window. Go back & check it out more, like pass the house & see if the white thing is in the window anymore. =)

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Me n this guy are really good frendz. he doesnt know that i like him and i cant b sure that he likes me. should i ask him to the movies?

*~Michele~*

Yes, definitely! You should ask him to go to the movies just to see if he does like you, or feel more for you then just as a friend =)

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Earlier today i downloaded +aim and i like it a lot because you can see any convo you had because it like saves it or something... well i saw something for aimutation and it looks awesome but i wanted to know if its possible to also have a conversation history saved thing there too? because you can't have both If its not possible that can you tell me which one is better?

Yes! Aimutation can save conversations.

I downloaded it in the past, and it was CRAP!! It's so confusing, like it doesn't even show you how to get to everything, it's just totally stupid. You can't see people on your buddy list, and the skin at the beginning is really screwed up. So, I undownloaded it, and then I tried to start AIM over again, and it didn't work, so I had to uninstall AIM, and download it all over again. I wouldn't download it if I were you, stick with AIM + it's so much better!

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Ok I just started 8th grade and I am in a high school math but I don't want to flunk it how are some tips that I can stay I top and I need advise fast because school is on tuseday. Thanks.

Take notes on everything your teacher says, and do your homework & study for tests. It's as simple as that. But, even if other kids aren't taking notes even without being asked, you should just so you can stay on top of everything, and if you ever forget how to do some problem, you can always look back in your notes to see how to do certain problems!

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Okay this song goes like this " im wanted and im needed im addicted to you but im trying to forget that im addicted to you" it is called heart breaker and all i need to know is who sings it i rate 5's

The song is: "Addicted" by Simple Plan =)

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okay so i really wanna go out with this guy alex but i end up having to hook him up with my best friend megan who has a boyfriend from campa dn is goin on with this 21 year old guy. alex like her but i dont think she likes him as much. how do i get him?

Thanks for asking me =)

I think you need to tell your best friend that you have feelings for Alex, and that you like him a lot. Maybe she'll understand & break up with him, and put in a good word for you. But she might not be understanding, and she might actually have feelings for him, that's when you need to decide if you should tell her boyfriend & tell Alex as well! She might hate you afterwards, but if your friend isn't willing to give up one of her boyfriends for you, then I don't think she's worth it, especially if you like him! Then you just need to tell Alex about your feelings towards him, and see if his are mutual, and then hopefully you two will date! I hope I answered your question correctly, if not feel free to ask me anything again. =) Thanks a bunch!

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where would i meet people onling to cyber with?

Haha, a chatroom on AIM definitely [home alone] ;)


EDIT: Yep, my screename is REMOVED, feel free to im me anytime =)

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this quesiton goes out to the boys :]

This or That??
--blonde or brunette:
--long or short hair:
--personality traits??:
--front or back??(lol):
My question your Answers (Q&A?)
--whats the ONE thing you want in a girl?? (or you can say 2 whatever works ha!!)
--first thing you notice on a girl:

ok thats just some information I was just wondering about. Plus really bored ha!!

I asked my boy--friend these questions, so:

--blonde or brunette: Blonde
--long or short hair: Short
--personality traits??: Nice
--front or back??(lol): Front, definitely.
My question your Answers (Q&A?)
--whats the ONE thing you want in a girl?? Personality
--first thing you notice on a girl: Eyes

Edit: Why was I only given a 4 rating. Thanks for the high number, but I had a friend answer all of your questions, so I don't really understand why I didn't get a 5, I answered everything.

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ok thiers this girl like but have already broken up with her from once when we went out and now se has a bf and i wanna get her back

Well, I think you lost your chance. You can't really break up her relationship unless she really wants to be with you. Just ask her if she's willing to leave her boyfriend for you, and if she says no, then it's over and done with. I doubt she will though, just because you broke up with her once. But, I don't know that's just my opinion. Good luck!

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Hey.. I'm a sophomore in high school, I go to an all girls school in Missouri. I came to high school without any friends from grammar school really.. I had no close friends of which I hung out with. I came into high school and met a ton of people.. but all of freshman year I never went out on a friday night. Now, I just started sophomore year and I'm making a real effort to talk to people and try to make friends but it's not working. I'm in honors classes and it just seems like a lot of the girls in the class are not like me at all. I try to be social and make friends but no one seems to wanna hang out wiht me. I'm also just a totally different person at school than the person I am at home. I am really funny and loud at home and at school I'm quite. I'm shy sometimes too. I think people get the wrong impression of me. I just really want this to work. The girls in my honors classes are "loserish" I guess you could say, and the other girls drink, and I don't drink (alcohol). I feel in the middle.Theirs a sophomore dance in february and I want a group of friends by than so that I can meet some guys through them to go to the dance with. It's really depressing and upsetting. I know that most of you will probably say that I should get to know people, and introduce myself, and I am. I am in class with basically the same girls I was freshman year. If no one could give me advice, and encouraging story would be good. Is there any of you that were in my situation and found a group of friends? please help!

Hey!!
Well, I can sort of give you some advice, & I can give you my story, maybe it'll make you feel a little better knowing that I'm in your shoes.

Well, I'm a sophmore & I just moved to Texas from Pennsylvania about three weeks ago. I've NEVER moved before, and I've never had to interact with people I didn't know. It's so different here; I go to a school with 3,000 kids when in Pennsylvania I only went to a school with 500 kids. So, I see so many different people each & every day. My first day at school, I was totally dreading; I just wanted to die right when I walked onto the school bus =/ I sat by myself ALL DAY long. It was AWFUL! I was quiet & shy, and I'm not like that at all so I wasn't really used to what I was going through. I'm not comfortably rich, I'm not even close to it. A group of girls at lunch asked me to sit with them, because they noticed I was sitting by myself. I was pretty happy they asked me because, I felt stupid sitting by myself, but these girls were RICH, they had Dior sunglasses & Coach purses, I knew that they wouldn't be true friends or even want me to be around them, I just felt really out of place. They promised me the next day they'd sit by me, and they didn't =( I was sure I was out of luck with making friends, so I basically just gave up on the 2nd day of school. I was totally anti social for the next few days until I met a really cool girl in my Biology class, we were talking about how I had just moved from PA to TX & she asked me who I sat with, and I said no one. She said I could sit by her during lunch the next day, I was so happy; I met her friends, and they were super nice. & I've been sitting with them ever since, and I'm meeting a few people so that should be good.

As much as I'd like to tell myself that I'm going back to my old friends in Pennsylvania, I know I'm not going to go back until I atleast graduate. I'm not who I am in Texas, I'm not shy, quiet, or anti social. If my friends from Pennsylvania could see me now, they'd think I were stupid & crazy, they'd probably hate me, because I'm not quiet, & here I just am, I'm afraid to express what I really am, I don't want to lose what I have right now.

I know it's not exactly the situation your in, but I know what you mean about having to act like something your not in school & how you don't really have friends. (:

You're seriously doing the best you can, you're talking to people, that's all you need to do. There's nothing more, it's just going to take time, as much as you'd like to not believe that it will, it seriously will. It sucks right now because you don't want to be there with people you don't really interact with well, but everything will be put in place for you. Everything always works out for the best, I promise. =) =) The best advice I can give you is just keep up what your doing, talking to people. Be nice to pretty much everyone, smile & say hi to everyone you possibly can. You're bound to make friends that way!

Good luck with everything, I'm sure you'll be happy eventually. =)

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I've told 3 guys that i would have sex with them sometime in high shcool, and i feel like kind of a whore. I know that a lot of people have sex and everything but i feel like it would kind of be a slutty thing to do. What do you think?

Well, not to be mean; but yes. It is somewhat whoreish. I think that sex should mainly be someone for whom you care about a lot. Like your boyfriend or something, not just any random somebody or three guys! =)


Edit; I don't know why you only gave me a three rating, maybe it's because you are a whore and you want to hear that your right for telling all these guys that you want to have sex with them. You're gay!

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