Hey i am 14 and I mean i am very flirty its just liek my personality and me my best friend adn her boyfriend were going out to dinner one night and I guess I didnt relize how much i was flirting cuz when she went outside to go call her mom to pick us up, he kissed me and I hate to sound like a slut but i liked it and i am starting to like him more and more but i feel really bad! we have been best friends scince 1st grade, How can I brake the news to her and still keep our friendship, or should I just not tell her? Please good answers only I rate High!
mooch789 answered Monday September 5 2005, 1:43 pm: The best thing to do is to not tell her, you'll only ruin a good friendship. And with the kiss, it may of been an accident or he may have just been playing around. Hope I helped! [ mooch789's advice column | Ask mooch789 A Question ]
naimee answered Monday September 5 2005, 1:00 pm: I really think you shouldn't tell her. You might like him, but she's your best friend. You wouldn't want to break your best friends heart & date her boyfriend would you? My best friends were in a similar situation, & they ended up not being friends in the end. What if you were in her situation? Wouldn't you be SO pissed if she took your boyfriend? But, in a way she is your best friend, and you can't control who you love. So, you really need to just think, risk losing a best friend, or just having an awkward relationship! Good luck with choosing. :) [ naimee's advice column | Ask naimee A Question ]
rachii_piie answered Monday September 5 2005, 1:00 pm: if i was you i think i would tell your friend, although it may not osund like the right thing to do i think its the best, becuase what if hes doing that to other girls?? do u want her getting hurt like that? if she ends up finding out? do what your heart thinks!! [ rachii_piie's advice column | Ask rachii_piie A Question ]
denajah5 answered Monday September 5 2005, 12:57 pm: i dont want to be blunt about this but you would be a fucked up friend to do something like that.you said she's been your best friend since yall were like in 1st grade.you cant do that. why'll i was reading your question i couldnt even imagine myself doing that to a friend or the other way around.when he kissed you. you should of backed off even though you liked it.
if you plan on telling her, the best way to do it is to say "i no this is hard to here, but the other day when we all went out to eat your boy kissed me" dont tell her that you liked it. if you do you will be breaking the friendship code [ denajah5's advice column | Ask denajah5 A Question ]
xomegaroni answered Monday September 5 2005, 12:54 pm: you definately need to talk to her about it. yeah..you shouldn't of kissed her boyfriend, but if you really like him what can you do? it seems to me like you gave him the wrong impression w/out even knowing it. tell her the whole entire story, because if you were in her position, you'd probably want to know, right? exactly.
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