okay guys, this might be a tough one. im so lost and have no idea what to do. im 20 years old now. i met jeremy when i was 17 years old. i thought he was the perfect guy for me, and for a while he felt the same about me. we got together not long after that. i fell in love with him really fast, as did he. we were together for a little over 4 years. like any couple, we had our fights. i will be the first to admit that our relationship wasn't perfect. but we loved each other very much anyways. we broke up a few times but we always got back together. well about a week ago, we got into a huge fight and broke up. he informed me yesterday that he's unhappy with me and had sex with another girl. it almost killed me!!! i love him so much, and what he did was very wrong and i know that. however, i really need help trying to get over him. i can't stop thinking about him, but he doesnt even care. he told me that he doesn't even want to be friends anymore. how do i get over him? ive tried meeting other guys but i can't seem to find anyone. PLEASE HELP ME!!!!
WELL ACTUALLY, IN REALITY, WITH ALL SERIOUSNESS, THERE WAS NOTHING WRONG WITH WHAT HE DID BECAUSE YOU GUYS ARENT TOGETHER ANYMORE. HE IS A FREE MAN! HE CAN DO WHATEVER HE WANTS, WHENEVER HE WANTS. You just have to come to your senses and realize that. It will take time to get over him but there is nothign really to do to make you stop feeling for him the way you do. And if you love him as much as you say then you will respect the fact that he doesnt want anything more to do with you, no matter how hard it is for you and how bad it hurts. Hey, the truth hurts, so just move on with your life. Your young, you'll find someone to be with again. Its not the end of the world.
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how do i get rid of weeds in the patch on front of my house and stop them from growing back through decorative stones?
You can go out and buy some chemical weed killer shit and spray it on them to kill them or you can go out on all fours and pull them out by hand. Have fun!
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there is a guy that i have known for almost 6 years. I love him to death. Litterally. I cant stand it when I'm not around him. But the thing is. He thinks I cheated on him the last time we went out by sitting on my ex bfs lap. and he thinks that I kissed him because thats what he was told by my evil brother and parents. He doesn't trust me now and I can't get his trust back. I seriously can't stand it anymore. I'm like, about ready to cry just writing this. I love everything about him, the way he laughs, the way he smiles, his sense of humor...just..everything. And I want him back so bad. I can't stand waiting anymore. I have been waiting for a couple of months, waiting and trying my best to get his trust back. It isnt working and I cant stand it! I went out with this other guy to get over him and it didn't work. I can't just forget him because its hard with how long i've known him. and his sister is my best friend. He has me wrapped around his finger. I will do anything and everything he asks for. (not sex tho but he doesnt want that anyway) He doesn't tell me to do stuff and he doesnt know how wrapped up he has me. I'm in love with him but it doesnt matter to him. or anyone else. I'm the only one who cares how bad I have it for him. I have everything he has ever given me, all the notes, all the presents, the pictures, the memories. Its been a couple of months and I still remember what his kiss feels like, I remember how he used to rub my side when he held me. just, everything. how can i get him to trust me again and get him back............fast. or at least kinda fast.
Here are two things
1. he didnt care as much about you as you did him. so he doesnt want another shot at it with you.
2. it could be that the rumor or lie that everyone is telling him hurt him so bad that he doesnt want to have to go through it all over again.
trust is hard to gain back once it was lost.
Just keep trying...
If it doesnt work then it jsut wasnt meant to be.
There are tons of other guys out there. You will find someone else to spend the rest of your life with. You have got plenty of time. Trust me.
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Ok ever1 on here can be rated. How do i make my self so i cant get rated too. I wanna see how Im doing answer ppl's problems
you cant make your self get rated.. it would help if you gave really good answers. if people like your advice that you ahve given then they will rate you on how well they thought it was. other than that, theres nothing you can do about it.
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Yeahhh... my boyfriend, who I like a lot, is a different race and my parents are racist. That caused some bumps in me just telling my mother that I liked him, and put drama on us already. And I don't see him much, and hes in one of my classes. He says that hae cares about me, and I believe that he does. But how do I know how much he cares about me with out asking him annoying questions?
it is called trust. If you dont trust him then you will never know anything for sure. and you can also tell by the way he treats you and how much he actually shows that he cares about you. its not a gard thing to notice. If he treats you good when you are with him that shows he cares. atleast for that particular point in time.
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hi i really liek this guy.he is 2 years older than me.he said that he woudl go out with me its just the age difference. how can i get him to change his mind? i rate high.
you cant change his mind. just be yourself. and dont change around him, act the way you normally do. maybe after he is with you for a while he will get the picture that you are still really into him and that he likes you also and will put the age differnce aside. But who knows that would be the bright side of it. But what the hell is the problem? it is only 2 years... but if he doesnt want togo out with you then he just doenst want to.
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Hey Guys,
Last weekend i went to the movies with my boyfriend. We planned to kiss and make out and all that good stuff. When that moment came up i panicked because it was my first time. After that day i could think of nothing but him and that moment. Now all i want to do is make out with him or at least talk to him about it. I am also afraid that i dont know exactly how to make out with some one. Plz give me tips and should i talk to him?????
HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Whats the big deal... just kiss him.
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13/f
Does anyone know any really good books about stuff like romance, death,depression, all that fun stuff. i have already read the lovely bones and it is my absolute FAVORITE book. nothing to happy...but does anyone know a really good book that has the same kind of mood as the lovely bones.
Oh yeah...and P.S. there is this one book my friend was telling me about where this woman loses all her money and sells her daughter to this prostitute house. its called like "reading me love" but i could never find it...i dont even know if thats the title!! Thanks.
Passionate magic, by Flora Speer, is a reallly good romance book.
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I've become pretty good friends with this guy and he's recently been dumped by his girlfriend of two months. Things had been deteriorating for a while but he still liked her. He's kinda into 2 of my best friends but still flirts with me too. One friend doesnt like him and shes gonna say no to him if he asks her out. The other friend wants to her him out but doesnt wanna hurt my feelings. I've been working up the courage to ask him out as well but I'm really confused. The friend who wants to ask him out doesnt really like him but theyre best friends and I really think theyd ggo kinda far. With me, I think he'd say yes but I am not sure and thats kinda being retarded, and I dont wanna be afraid of anything like that as I learned from the last relationship I was in. I dont wanna hurt my friends' feelings either but she wont give me an answer whether its okay to ask him out or not. I really like him and feel happier than Ive been in months when Im with him and he seems pretty happy too =/ Thank you =(
of you think you two have some type of connection then ask him out. if he says no then it was worth a shot. and as for your friend if she wont give you a straight answer, it may be because she doesnt want to tell you no to hurt your feelings and come off as being obsessive over him and she may not want to tell you yes because she likes him and sees something about the two of them being together. So she doesnt know what to tell you to do. Did you ever thing she hasnt answewred you because she just maybe doesnt want you too and that she doesnt know how. That is a possibility amoung many others. So good luck.
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* My Weird School Dealy*
Posted Monday November 15 2004, 1:30 am
Okay. here it is. I was raped a few days ago. By my neighbor. He lives like three houses down. We went to a house that my brother broke into, so they could have a cigarette break before going to the gym. Well they brough some alcohol and we started drinking shots of all kinds of stuff. I done atleast a whole bottle of GIN! I was drunk of my ass. We played some games. I wasnt all together. My neighbor who is 16 and is my NJROTC Commanding officer, locked me in a room when i was drunk and raped and he had a condom. (how and why did he have a condom i have no idea) I remember him shovin his dick down my throat when i was on the ground and chocking me. The picked me raped my ass and the detective said i passed out and he raped me in my vaginal area. I was so sad. I went depressed after a while. Almost scuicide but i told my parents. The cops and detective wanted to arrest him. They had SOOOO much evidence its not funny. But the detective went to the state and the state said i wasnt drunk enough and dropped the case. Can you please explain to my why would they do that to me? and isnt that wrong? Now im locked in my house and cant go to school. What should i do?
Any one who helps me the most ill leave them a GREAT COMMENT and A BIG RATE!
-Unknown-
You just have to keep fighting for it. Get together with the cops and detective and have them go to the state again. Explain to them how scared you are to even go outside and how you dont go to school so you dont have to see him. I honestly couldnt tell you why they even dropped the case. The only thing i can say is try and get a court hearing. Go to court and let the judge decide. It may be tough to get a court hearing but you can't give up. It shouldnt matter about how much alcohol you consumed. People get raped all the time, even if they are sober. You should also fight them on that too. The only thing they could say was if you were drunk then you were impaired. They may tell you that you were too drunk to remember that you thought and said it was ok to have sexual intercourse with this person... that you regret doing this on your own free will and now you want to switch your story around and put the blame on him and make him suffer. But it isnt true, you were raped and something needs to be done. So it is a good thing that they said you werent drunk enough because now you have more to fight for. Dont let him get away with what he did. What he did was wrong and he needs to pay for it. So once again sweetie, dont give up. Just keep fighting for it. I hope this helps. And if you need anything leave one in my inbox or IM me.
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Hey, does anyone know where to get good quotes from? xo thnx
firehotquotes.com
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ok, I was 12 whenever I first had sex...( I know Kinda young but...I was turning 13 soon) Well...it hurt SUPERSUPER bad but they say that after it hurts it's supposed to feel godd...but it didn't...it never once felt good...then the second time (i've only done it 2 times) it still didn't feel good..it kind hurt..adn once again NEVER once felt good?!?! whats wrong with me?!?!
haha... There is nothing wrong with you. It hurts at first. But after a few times it will stop. And when it does you will find it to be much more enjoyable.
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Why is giving others mean advice actually considered ***FUN***, yes, it's not a typo, some people considers it fun. However sick and disgusting that is, I would like to know why?
There are some people who may come of as rude but are only speaking the blunt truth. However. there are those exceptional few who do it purposly. They do it to be jackasses. They have nothing better to do with their lives.
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Can sum1 please help!! Am 16 & female so i probably sound silly but am not.
About 3 months ago I meet the most amazing guy ever(Ryan),wat i've always wanted,funny,caring,wild & deep. We started seeing each other rigt away.
We went out for a month in this time he told me he loved me & done everything in his power to show me it was true. Then we broke up!! He told me he still loved me & would go back out with me soon. Then my mum was speeking to his mum & she said that I was the first girl that he had realy bothered about & that he was oviosly in love with me. Then a mouth later people were telling me he was engaged. He says this is not ture. Then 2 weeks ago we had sex at a party. His mate was teling me that Ryan did like me & wasnt shure if he was seeing sum1. Then the other week I aked him if he was seeing sum1 he said yeah. The thing is am good mates with him & his best mate Darren but it hurts me not being his girlfriend coz am in love with him. And was gona cut him from my life but realizied it was way to hard. So am wondering what to do:1- cut him from my life (hurting him & myself) 2- Wait for him or 3- Tell him how I fell. What one should I do? PLEASE HELP!!
well if you both feel that strongly about each other then dont cut him from your life. Tell him what you feel. Maybe because of his current girlfriend you may have to wait for him. But you should def. tell him and wait.
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alright, if it helps, im tara and im 14.
i've been cutting myself for some time now. always on my wrist and always in the same general area. whenever its a cold day i wear a jacket, and whenever its hot out i just wear bracelets. nobody has ever noticed or said anything. so last night i was laying in bed and i forgot to put on a jacket. my mom came in and saw my arm and said something like 'what's that?' .. i freaked out and pulled it away and said i was drawing.. and she asked why and i said i couldnt find any paper. she asked me if i wanted to talk about anything so i just yelled no and she left. i dont think she has even heard of people cutting themselves. so this morning i covered my wrist with coverup and a few braclets so that she'd think it really was drawings that had washed off. it was very akward and i tried to pretend nothing happened. all she said was 'is body art a new trend or something?' i dont know if she believes my excuse or not.. what do you guys think? and do you have any ideas of how i can cover these darn cuts up? mucho thanks in advance.
PS: oh and please dont tell me to stop cutting. im working on it, i promise. but its like cigarettes or drugs, you cant just stop. it takes time and effort.. =)
i dont think that she suspects anything. if she did she would have said a little more to you. she would have maybe wanted to get you help and send you to a therapist or something if she thought something was up. If the cover up helped then just do that for a while.. but there is nothing you can do to make your scars go away. you may eventually need to tell her. I would jsut wait until you have stopped cutting or even maybe have cut back on it. If you tell her i am sure she will be upset and not understand why, but as a mother who cares for her daughter i think she will see past it and get you some help to help you stop cutting. That is the only thing i can think of that may help. hope it all works out in the end for ya. good luck.
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ok last week i had a test coming up in math but i thought it was a quiz so i didn't study very much 9cause i got all the homework questions right) but during the test i didn't understand a lot of questions. i got my test back today and i got 25 out of 40! my parents are really spaztic and i know they will get really mad at me. i know u will say not to tell them but my homework is to get it signed by a parent! i dont know how i should tell them! please help me! i rate really well!
Just tell them you thought you really understood the info that would be on the test and then when you got the test you just choked. There will be other assignments and tests/quizzes to bring that grade up. tell them you will work harder next time.
or you could just sign the paper yourself.!!
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can hickies lead to any kind of bad thing, like something go wrong with health....do u unserstand?!....like, what is bad about having hickies?!
HAHA... you cant be serious...
but, no hickies dont lead to any future health problems. haha... the only thing it may lead to is your groundings if your parents find out. When you grow up and need some real advice, come back to the site and some people may actually take your question seriously and answer it for you. You shouldnt be worried about hickies until you know what they are and how exactly they appear. Your obviously a youngin if you ask this question. So, find out what they are first. Until you are older or atleast more mature or and know what the hell you are doing, you have nothing to worry about or be concerned about.
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ok well here it does one of my friend complains 24/7. thats all she does is complains. and she cant just be my friend she has to be my Best friend. i cant stand her complaining tho. i mean yea sometimes i complain too but sometimes i just want to say to her "thats life, deal with it" but i dont want her to get mad at me. what should i do?
just tell her the way it is. Your her friend so let her know that you are and that you are happy to be but just tell her that she complains a little to much. thats all you can do.
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what is the real definition of cheating on someone?
just wondering
To cheat means to have a fling with someone other than the person to who you are in a committed relationship with.
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well when i was younger i thought having sex at 14 was horrible. but now im starting to think well maybe its not so bad.. sex at 11 or 12 is bad. i know people who have done it and theyre younger than me. im 13. so what is a good age for sex.. does age even matter?
confused..
elle
there is really no specific age to have sex. just be sure you know what your doing and what risks you are taking by doing so. in my opinion... you are too young to have sex. your thirteen, so that would make you what? in seventh grade?!?! I would wait until about 15. Atleast you have completed puberty and are a little more informed about sex and a little more experienced with boys.
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